Back home, Su Li had timed it very well.
The three little ones hadn't caused any trouble yet, so Su Li was quite relieved.
The little ones obviously got along well with their great-grandfather, grandmother, and grandparents.
The little girl then hugged Zuo Zuo Su Li and Youyou treated her as equals.
One of them came up to them and kissed them on their chubby cheeks.
Then she stepped forward to greet her and hugged the three little guys who warmly welcomed her.
Su Li smiled.
The sun is shining brightly, and the first quarter moon appears, spreading joy.
"Good darling, I didn't cause any trouble to your grandpa and the others.
I'll give you a reward.
Keep up the good work and keep up the good work.
Mom and the darlings are cheering together."
Su Li gently touched the little heads of the three little guys.
Su Li smiled gently and praised them.
The three little guys can already understand good words.
If you praise them for doing well, they will be very happy, just like doing Is that wrong?
When Su Li criticizes them, they will look sullen as if they know something is wrong.
"Ah Li's requirements are quite strict.
Our three little darlings couldn't be more well-behaved."
Dong Qingyan smiled to add glory to her grandson, and also told Su Li that the three little ones really didn't cry and were always well-behaved.
When you play, you have fun.
When it's time to sleep, you sleep soundly.
You don't need to be patted or coaxed.
As soon as you put the quilt on you, you sleep peacefully.
When it's time to eat, they sit on their exclusive little chairs obediently and cooperatively.
Although they don't know how to hold spoons and chopsticks to eat, they co-operate with the adults' feeding.
It's sweet and practical, but there are some foods they don't like. , but he hesitated, and finally swallowed it.
That level of intelligence and understanding is like that of a one- or two-year-old child.
Compared with a child of about eight months of the same age, it's really a world of difference.
It's simply a comparison.
If you push it out, I don't know how many people envy her.
"How a child behaves depends entirely on the care of adults.
Children are particularly sensitive.
They will distinguish right from wrong through the emotions of adults.
At this time, in many cases, our indulgence will allow children to test our feelings.
The bottom line, the rules that should be in place, are now affecting them subtly, so there is no need to cultivate them.
"Good habits will be even more painful to change in the future."
Although it may be a little troublesome to influence the children's parenting rules now, it is better than having to correct the children's bad habits in the future, which is even more painful. , so she is now willing to be a cruel mother and ask them now.
Love is love, care is concern, but education is education, these are two different things.
Su Li knows the difference very clearly, so naturally there will be no confusion, especially when it is determined that the three little guys may have been well raised in the mother's womb and are now developing.
It is quite advanced, and it has a keen sense of inheritance from both her and their father, so it cannot be ignored.
"Grandpa, mother, father and mother, I know that you love these three little guys, and I love them too, but do you think you should do it while the three little guys are still a blank piece of paper?
, it is easy to help them draw the right track, or, after they paint it randomly, we are helping them erase their inherent line habits and let them It's easy to change into new habits, so in order for them to be more relaxed in the future, I, as a mother, can only be more cruel."
Su Li explained gently with a smile.
The children will definitely have to interact with these most important people in the future.
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We get along with the closest elders, so with the cooperation of the elders, it is easier to educate children.
The elders in the family are all knowledgeable people.
Even my father and mother have always had all kinds of good habits and rules.
Otherwise, they would not have been able to bring up a character like her and such an upbringing.
All of this is because of her father.
Grandma’s credit.
These elders have all the ability and education, but obviously, the so-called closeness from the next generation, the so-called closeness from the next generation, is not just today.
Old people can be ruthless enough to ask for their sons and grandchildren, but few old people can be so hateful that they can ask for more.
Grandchildren, even Mr.
Yan can't avoid doting on the three little guys.
Rational doting is boundless love and is the prerequisite for children to grow up healthily.
However, irrational doting has harmed the three little guys.
During the critical period of their growth, the most important thing is that the children at home are The environment, the habits of the elders, They are all the ones they imitate and learn from.
With the pampering of their family, they are likely to relax their demands on the three little guys.
In this way, they can see what is coming for a while, but as time goes by, they will retreat a little more, and then retreat a little more. , then there is no limit to retreat.
Since then, she has taught the little guy what rules and what is good, but she can't stop the elders from tearing down the wall behind them.
In this way, education is meaningless.
Therefore, Su Li is willing to do a good job in the family first and arrange the elders well.
The children's future upbringing problems will never be investigated.
People like them will look at them twice or too much, and everyone will keep an eye on them.
Still, she didn't want the three little guys to grow up in such an environment, but also be stared at by everyone.
She doesn't want the psychological gap between the three little ones to be too big in the future and they will be stared at.
Children don't have much maturity.
Those rumors can easily hurt the children's immature hearts.
Therefore, she starts now Eliminate that possibility and let their little babies get used to good etiquette and good upbringing from the time they are sensible.
Having good habits and good manners does not require them to be the center of attention, but they must be impartial and upright.
No matter what they do in the future, as long as they are useful, that is enough.
Got it "It's still online, right?
We know it.
We will definitely teach the three little guys on the issue of principles in the future."
Lin Juan gently tapped the little girl's forehead.
As for her rules, he was the only one with them.
There are many things to do.
However, what the little girl said is also very reasonable.
They dote on them and love on them.
They can do whatever they want, but they have certain rules and freedoms.
They can't indulge without a bottom line.
It's just for their own good, and their bottom line is also the same.
To be determined, Dong Qing said it was hard to talk to Su Li, so Lin Juan personally responded.
My daughter has so much freedom of speech at home.
In that case, my daughter will get married well.
The two of them will naturally be satisfied.
It is rare for a mother-in-law to really do what she says and love her daughter-in-law as a daughter, as her biological mother promised. , they have really done it all, what else do they have to worry about?
Judging from what Ah Li said, Dong Qingyan accepted everything, without any hesitation, and the cooperation was a tacit understanding sjgsf0916: