Chapter 361 On the same day, I sent someone to the governor's house to deliver the post, and got a reply from the governor's house.
It was He Zijin who went to the Yu family the next day.
Mrs.
Yu was still kind, and He Zijin presented gifts with courtesy.
Fang and Mrs.
Yu exchanged polite greetings and exchanged greetings.
Mrs.
Yu smiled and said, "Zi Jin came just in time.
I have new pheasants and wild ducks here.
Let's try them for lunch."
He Zijin smiled and said, "Then I'm in for a treat.
The whole family is famous for the wild duck dumplings here.
I've eaten them several times and I can't forget them."
Mrs.
Yu smiled and said, "As I get older, I like to eat things like duck dumplings, with soup and vegetables, which are soft.
A-Xing has always thought that duck meat is greasy, and I told her that she is picky.
It's rare that you like it too." " He Zijin's smile did not change, "How do everyone's tastes differ?
Ah Xing always eats light food in our house.
I didn't know it at first, but later I found out.
Because she didn't suit my family's taste, my mother gave her a meal.
Separate chefs Just let her eat whatever she wants, and don’t let her suffer.
Like me, I don’t like meat.
Many people think duck meat is fat.
I would say duck meat is delicious because it is fat.
If the meat is cooked, it will lose its true flavor.”
"Yes."
Mrs.
Yu also had a kind face and said with a smile, "I said at the beginning that Ah Xing is a spoiled child and a high-class family.
If she is afraid that she will be wronged, she must find a family with a gentle family tradition.
Ah Xing also often Tell me, my in-laws treat me like my own daughter.
I built a house for them.
I told her that it would be hard to find a mother-in-law like my in-laws.
Ah Xing thought that her in-laws treated her like a daughter, so she wanted to build a bigger house in the future.
Take your in-law’s wife and your in-law’s husband to care for you.”
It turns out that this is what Yu Xing told her mother-in-law.
He Zijin knew it well, so he smiled and said, "That house is for her and Ah Lie, and it belongs to them.
My mother has already said it, from now on Brother Jun will be happy The same is true when my son gets married.
I don’t favor Ah Lie because he is the eldest son, and I won’t feel wronged by Brother Jun.
I am also happy for her when I heard that Ah Xing has expanded her family since she was a child.
She is knowledgeable.
After the house is built, she can also entertain friends and hold poetry parties.
She loves this.
Even our Beichang Mansion can add a scene to my old house.
Move over with Te Te, and the door will be open in my house.
I want to walk around in the garden and take a few steps.
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Everyone in the family knows that Aixing's filial piety is here.
As mentioned above, whoever owns it belongs to whomever it belongs to.
At first, it was just a small house that my mother gave to her son and his wife according to her own wishes.
Later, this house was bought by A-Xing himself, without any money from her husband’s family.
It has to be said first.
It is one thing to have a good relationship between brothers, but in the future, brother Jun and brother Xing will marry each other.
If we don't explain it clearly now, it will be troublesome in the future.
A-Xing built this garden.
This garden belongs to A-Xing.
Whatever A-Xing wants to do is all A-Xing’s business.
My mother even said yesterday that she asked A-Xing to go to the magistrate’s office to get the land deeds and other things done.
This is A-Xing.
"My private room."
He Zijin said with a smile, "I haven't seen Ah Xing yet.
If I can't see you today, my wife can tell me about the formalities.
It will be clear later."
Mrs.
Yu smiled and said, "Why is this so?"
"My wife in law doesn't know that our family has always been like this.
When my family was poor, it's not worth mentioning.
My mother also had a little dowry.
At that time, my father wanted to study and lived in poverty.
Even so, my grandmother never touched My mother’s dowry was every penny.
When I got married, my family was a small one.
I don’t dare to compare with Aksuki, but in addition to the official dowry, it was also the dowry from my grandmother and my mother’s dowry from their respective private houses. , it is in the law, and it can be used by the wife as she pleases, even if I am married now, it will be the same.
The middle is an official, and my own dowry is my own private property.
How can private property and public property be messed up?"
He Zijin laughed at Yan Yan, "When it comes to family background, my family is not as rich as others, but when it comes to property, it is clean. , He is no less particular than others."
He Zijin smiled and said, "Look.
I didn't say anything.
I'm just a common person, I'm not afraid of your jokes, I always have something to do, it's hard to be in charge of a Zhuangzi shop.
If you get used to it, you will unconsciously talk about yellow and white things.
In the words of contemporary people, they are tacky. " "How can you be so tacky?
I just like a smart daughter like you.
If Xing is as smart as you, what else do I have to worry about?"
"Ah Xing, life is good, she doesn't have to worry.
I'm not good, I'm not as good as her, and I like to think about things on weekdays.
Let me tell the old lady something heartfelt.
I have recognized Master Chaoyun as my master since I was a child.
The identity of the master was unknown before.
When I found out later, I couldn't help but sigh, thinking about the master's background.
The only people in this world who are more valuable than him are the royal family.
But no one can predict the ups and downs in this life.
Some people are so lucky.
Like you old man At home, you follow your father, and when you get married, you follow your husband, which is enviable and smooth.
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But I think that this smoothness means smoothness in the eyes of outsiders.
I am afraid that only you in the world know what you have experienced and the hardships you have gone through.
There is no such thing as smooth sailing Yes, I haven't seen it before.
I am no more knowledgeable than you, but I also have children.
When I see them, I hope that they will go well.
Now let Axi learn to memorize a thousand words.
Wen, she is going to cry tired The same is true for children.
When they are in their arms, they need to learn to walk.
Once they learn to walk, they need to learn to run.
When they are a little older, they have to go to school to study and gain fame.
In the future, when they get married and have children, they will have no time to spare. accept this I'm tired, but if I don't have this burden now, how can the good days in the future fall from the sky?
If I want to be a master, even if I am lucky enough to be born into a wealthy family when I am reincarnated, don't wealthy families have to endure hardships and hardships?
Some people, no I'm so knowledgeable, I thought that just by sitting at home, a wealthy family would get lucky.
I don't know a wealthy family, but I was lucky enough to see the course list that my master studied when he was young.
To be honest with you, it's half the price.
Even two people can't learn from it.
Many people say that wealth is the foundation of a wealthy family.
It is so superficial that outstanding children are the foundation of a wealthy family.
"He Zijin said, "Because you are outstanding, you can hold power and wealth for a long time.
Long-lasting.”
This is the benefit of education.
Even though Mrs.
He didn't know a few Chinese characters before, and Mr.
Shen studied elementary education with his scholar father at home for a few days, the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have very similar views on the education of their children.
Not only did the boys go to school, but also when He Zijin was a child, in addition to Shen's teaching her how to read, He Lao Niang was also willing to go to the Chen family to force He Zijin to be an auditor.
He Zijin's own background is somewhat extraordinary, but because the He family has really spared no effort in education over the years, she was lucky enough to know Taoist Chaoyun and received some influence.
Therefore, He Zijin has a deeper understanding of this dynasty in this world.
And a clear understanding.
She is also a good talker.
At this time, she is not inferior to someone from Mrs.
Yu's background.
When Yu Xing returned to her parents' house, she naturally had to explain things to her side.
In her husband's family's eyes, the garden did not need to be repaired, but Yu Xing could say that it was done.
After it was built, she would live with her parents-in-law, which was her filial piety.
I can't help but talk about my husband's little thing.
I put the wrong account for Ambergris.
The shop assistant went to my mother-in-law to settle the bill.
As a result, my mother-in-law was embarrassed and was mean to her.
They also have to control the right to use her dowry and so on.
There are two mouths, whether there is reason or not, it all depends on the person.
He Zijin could never let the Yu family take over everything.
The Yu family knew exactly what Yu Xing was like and what qualities he had.
They estimated how their girls would look and be liked by others.
But if you want to know how to handle things, you can't offend both of your mother-in-laws as soon as you marry into your husband's family.
He Zijin is not mute, so how can he rely on Yu Xing to reason?
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She handed over the post yesterday, and he hasn't seen Yu Xing today, so He Zijin is not very happy.
Mrs.
Yu smiled, "I have known for a long time that you are a knowledgeable person, and you really know better than anyone else in the world.
Even Ah Lie is very motivated.
Now that we are married, we are even more motivated."
This is the euphemism of a wealthy family.
If you are a rough-hearted person, you will not be able to hear it.
People clearly say that your child is highly motivated, but there is some dissatisfaction with Ah Lie for going to school right after he got married.
He Zijin smiled and said, "Yes, I was surprised when I saw Ah Lie, and asked him why he didn't bring Ah Xing here with me.
I just saw my mother yesterday, and I complained about her.
My mother My father and I have never been separated in our lives.
Even when my father went to Chengdu in Qiuwei, my mother left me at home with my grandmother to take care of me, and I went to take care of my father.
Talking about my mother, there are some families in this world where the son goes out to study and leaves the daughter-in-law at home to serve the mother-in-law.
However, my family is not like that anymore.
It was never the case that the husband and wife were separated.
Later I found out that Aixing had to watch the gardening.
Ah Lie was also thinking about Ah Xing when I was there.
Since we got married, Ah Xing used to sleep alone at night.
Ah Lie can rest assured to study after seeing her asleep.
Now that Ah Lie has left, he is only worried that his mother-in-law and maid will not be able to do their best.
There are plenty of places to live in the county government, and there are also two places to go shopping.
A Lie said that A Xing is the head of the family.
The treasure in my heart, the delicate one in my heart, when she was in her mother's house, her in-laws would always be obedient.
When she came to my house, Ah Lie would treat her the same way.
He would not let her suffer the slightest injustice, and he would also hurry up and get a good name, so that she could be given to Ah Lie in the future.
I'm lucky to have earned a decent job.
Ah Lie's caring heart is really like that of my father.
All the men in our family treat their wives as treasures."
Fortunately, Mrs.
He Zijin and Yu were both from the outside, so the atmosphere would not become tense.
Mrs.
Yu smiled and had a harmonious meal together at noon, and He Zijin said goodbye and went home.
An old woman next to Mrs.
Yu couldn't help but said, "This Grandma Jiang is really amazing."
Mrs.
Yu said, "If you are a coward, people will look down on you.
If you are too powerful, it will be difficult to get along with you."
The old grandma smiled and said, "Fortunately, this is my eldest aunt.
She has been married a long time ago and she doesn't live in the same house as our girl.
I think that although Grandma Jiang is powerful, she is also reasonable and honest."
These words are very good.
It's sincerity.
After living for such a long time, no matter how biased one's family is, they still understand that a slap in the face can't make a difference.
"It would be easy to talk to someone who only knows how to act mischievously.
It's hard to talk to someone like this.
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As for A-Xing, tell her not to go out.
Why don't you blame others for going out all day long?
How can you hide out when you know that your sister-in-law is coming?
"It's reasonable."
Mrs.
Yu panicked when she thought of this granddaughter.
She came back and complained that her husband's family didn't suit her here and she didn't suit her there.
Mrs.
Yu knew not to listen to what the family said, but people are not saints, and their hearts are biased.
But I heard He Zijin say again, yes, I couldn’t adapt to eating, so my mother-in-law immediately built a small stove, and the living was not comfortable.
My mother-in-law bought a house for her.
Although her husband’s family was not happy with the renovation of the garden, her mother-in-law’s family also said that this It's yours.
You spent your own dowry money to build it.
It will also be yours from now on.
Go to the government to get the land deed right and the property will be clean.
Having said that, we can no longer say that the husband’s family is in charge of the daughter-in-law’s dowry.
Mrs.
Yu became very angry when she thought about it.
Her children had never done such unreasonable things before.
She asked her husband's family to show them one by one, and everything was unreasonable.
The old lady said, "The wife of Magistrate Zhang invited our girl out and will be back soon.
At this old lady's age, it is worth getting angry over such a trivial matter.
This newly married bride is slightly different from the habits of her husband's family.
It’s not unusual to be different.
After all, the in-laws are a generous family.
If you don’t want to wait for the girl to come back, let her go back.
My aunt and grandmother are back, and it’s not good for the girl to be my brother’s wife.”
Mrs.
Yu said, "Tell her to stay at her husband's house from now on and not to come to me all the time.
The old lady and the wife of the He family are not difficult people to get along with.
Ah Xing is spoiled.
How about being an aunt in her mother's family and being a daughter-in-law in her husband's family?"
Same thing."
Mrs.
Yu herself has been a daughter-in-law, so how could she not know this.
I also know in my heart that Yu Xing will say it again, but it is rare for a daughter-in-law to divide a small stove and build a garden as soon as she gets married.
I don’t blame my husband’s family for having objections Therefore, He Zijin's visit was effective.
At least, the next day, Yu Xing went back to her husband's house, said hello to Mrs.
Shen, and then said hello to He Zijin, saying in a friendly manner, " I wanted to come over yesterday, and Sister Zhang said that her cook had researched a new dish and asked me to try it.
I asked the cook to learn it and invited my sister to taste it too. " He Zijin smiled and said, "Why is this dish so rare?"
"Speaking of it, the ingredients are not rare, but it is really delicious when cooked."
Yu Xing said, "A dish of shrimp tofu.
Remove the old skin from the tofu, cut it into thin slices, and lightly fry it in vegetable oil.
Use a cup of peach blossom wine and a cup of shrimp.
One hundred and twenty, boil them with stock and serve.”
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He Zijin smiled, "Jumbo shrimps are extremely fresh, let alone one hundred and twenty, which is already extremely fresh.
Moreover, since the tofu has been fried in plain oil, it can be seen that the fragrance is full.
Let me say, There’s no need to use stock, as overdoing it will make it unsightly.”
Yu Xing said, "Yes, I said so too.
Using broth is a bit excessive.
It would be better to add a pinch of sugar when taking it out of the pot to enhance the flavor."
After lunch that day, Yu Xing asked He Zijin to look at the diagram of the garden she was building.
Pointing to the courtyard in the middle, she said, "I have discussed it with my husband.
The main courtyard is my grandmother's residence.
I will transplant the seeds in this courtyard."
A giant Chinese toon tree that is about a hundred years old.
Grandma likes to eat Chinese toon."
He touched it gently with his delicate fingers.
Then, he placed it in another courtyard with similar specifications to the main courtyard not far away.
Yu Xing said, "This is my father's and mother's courtyard.
They plant peach blossoms.
They can still bear fruit after they fall.
I live with my husband."
There are several courtyards here, which are enough for my brothers-in-law to live in when they get married. " Therefore, every lady has her own qualities.
Even though Yu Xing's style really doesn't like her husband's family, her appearance is not bad at all.
He Zijin smiled and said, "It's good that you have this heart.
We live together.
Even our old home is connected to Huayuanzi.
We are one family.
Let me tell you, Huayuanzi In the house, just leave a yard for the elders, what?
When the elders want to stay for a few days, they can go there.
After you have finished building, it is also a sign of filial piety on your part to entertain the guests.
I have children and live in a spacious place.”
"My sister has talked about it sincerely."
Yu Xing said with a crooked eyebrow, "From now on, when my sister and brother-in-law come to the capital, they will live directly in the garden."
He Zijin listened with a smile, and Yu Xing then asked about Ah Lie's studies in Shahe County. gd1806102: