Yu Xing and A Lie's eldest daughter was born on the eighth day of the twelfth lunar month, which was the day to eat Laba porridge.
Mrs.
He kept saying, "This child was born well.
He is blessed.
He will have porridge to drink when he is born."
This is also the first granddaughter of the He family's great-grandchildren.
The He family now has four great-grandchildren, and the great-granddaughter is still the first.
The family is extremely festive from top to bottom, and the baptismal ceremony held is nothing compared to that of the great-grandson.
Difference.
He Zijin also praised the child for being well born and said, "Look at it like this, how do your eyebrows look like me?"
Mrs.
Shen smiled, "They say there are girls who follow aunts.
Bao'er looks a bit like you."
He Lao Niang said, "Why else would she be so boastful?
She was actually just praising herself."
This made everyone laugh.
The Yu family is also very happy.
These days, most families value boys.
In fact, both the He and Yu families are like this.
But when they have a boy, they only hope for a girl.
Mrs.
Yu's words, "This is a good word.
But it’s better to have a son and a woman.”
Mrs.
Yu smiled, "Yes, if you don't say anything, you will have both children."
Du Shi said with a smile, "The eldest lady told me that I am getting more and more greedy.
I will steal my niece into my house tomorrow to raise her."
Mrs.
Yu smiled and said, "I only said half of what I said.
Second Grandma, don't be impatient.
You and your wife are so young.
You will have many children in the future.
Is this true?"
Mrs.
Du's eyebrows were crescent, "This is how life goes.
When you have a son, you look forward to your daughter, and when you have a daughter, you look forward to your son."
Her daughter now has two sons by her side, and she has a good relationship with her son-in-law.
Mrs.
Du doesn't worry about anything. of.
She came over to join in the fun of the He family's three-wine dinner, and she was also happy.
Everyone was talking and laughing, very happy.
Since the Empress Dowagers of the two palaces have their birthdays in the twelfth lunar month, and everyone is in the fifth rank or before, they are all qualified to give birthday gifts to the two palaces.
It is inevitable to talk about how to prepare the birthday gifts for the two palaces.
In fact, with the Empress Dowager's Qianqiu Festival as a comparison, the two palaces are well prepared for the Qianqiu Festival, and they cannot exceed the Empress Dowager's.
When Empress Dowager Cao built a palace, she exceeded the regulations.
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Not only did she lose face, but her family title was demoted to six ranks in a row.
Nowadays, this matter is a joke among the powerful.
Nowadays, the Qianqiu etiquette of the two palaces, even if someone wants to curry favor with Queen Mother Cao, they have to think about the etiquette system of the two palaces.
When everyone talked about this, Mrs.
Shen said, "I heard that they all reduced the birthday gift by 30% for the Empress Dowager."
Old Mrs.
Yu said, "The Empress Dowager is highly virtuous and respected, so this reduction of 30% not only shows the respect and humility of the two palaces towards the Empress Dowager, but is also the etiquette that we, the imperial concubines, should have.
Otherwise, it is just us among the people." , the birthday gifts for mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are also different.”
"This is natural, but there is one thing that many people are still undecided about."
Those invited to the Third Baptism Ceremony are all close to people, not to mention that this matter is considered a lively matter in the imperial capital now, so Shen said directly, "Empress Dowager Su is the legitimate mother, and Empress Dowager Cao is the biological mother.
Are the birthday gifts given to the two palaces the same or different?"
He Zijin said, "This is true.
I heard people talking about it when I went out."
It's hard for Mrs.
Yu to talk about this matter.
The Yu family is considered to belong to the lineage of the Empress Dowager, and their relationship with the empress dowagers of the two palaces is average.
His family just follows the rest.
Mrs.
Shen asked her daughter, "How did you prepare?"
He Zijin said, "I discussed with my husband.
Although both palaces are queen mothers, when Empress Dowager Cao was promoted to the throne, the Ministry of Rites had a statement on the etiquette system for the queen mothers in the two palaces.
After all, Empress Su was the first wife of the late emperor.
In terms of etiquette, , they all respect Empress Su, so we have to take a lower rank with Empress Dowager Cao.”
Mrs.
Du nodded, "That's the truth.
I think so too.
It's my first wife to be the first wife."
Mrs.
Yu went home and said to her husband, "It seems that people's hearts are still there in this world."
Mr.
Yu said, "Yes, I am not flattering Cao because she is your majesty's biological mother."
Mr.
Yu also specially called his son to ask about the matter.
Mr.
Yu was full of bitterness and hatred, and said, "The two empresses will spend a thousand years together.
The devil of the Internal Affairs Department asked our Ministry of Etiquette to send out two empresses to celebrate the Qianqiu Festival."
According to the specifications, they followed it.
Manager Tang was also from Beiling.
Mr.'
s disciples and grandsons, this quarrel is not at all polite like a scholar.
Ge Shangshu is very worried.
The two palaces always have to make some distinctions.
We have discussed for several days, and we should put Empress Dowager Su first, and Empress Dowager Cao slightly less. 2.
Otherwise, Yushitai may have something to say."
Mr.
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Yu said, "That's how it should be."
Minister Yu said, "Everyone knows this.
What everyone is worried about is that the Cao family will become the next Hu family.
The Hu family is in decline now, but when it was famous back then, who would dare to take advantage of it?"
Mr.
Yu said, "Let's talk about the current things now, otherwise, we won't be able to get through it now, let alone talk about the future."
Shilang Yu should be right.
Since the old man in the family sees it this way, Shilang Yu is particularly confident.
On the Qianqiu Festival for the two empresses, Zijin was busy preparing gifts for the two empresses, and A-Nian, an errand of the Hanlin Academy, had to write congratulatory messages.
He Zijin also asked A-Nian, "We have to make distinctions in our birthday gifts, so should your greetings also have to be different?"
"Of course."
A Nian said while sitting cross-legged in front of the brazier, turning over the dried taro on the grill with tongs, "The Empress Dowager Su had to praise the late Emperor in terms of etiquette, law and conduct.
Empress Dowager Cao was mainly responsible for fertility.
The two are naturally different.”
A-Nian paused and whispered, "That means you are in the royal family.
Your Majesty must give face to the birth mother.
If it were placed in an ordinary people's home, could it be that the legitimate wife had no children and could straighten the side room?
It is a matter of the royal family.
The royal family said After all, we, Qingliu, have to fight for the word of etiquette.
Otherwise, because Cao is your majesty’s biological mother, the court will become a place of flattery. " He Zijin asked A Nian, "Are there many people who flatter Empress Dowager Cao?"
"Hey, this is human nature, right?
They all think that after the Cao family becomes rich, they can also fight for wealth."
A Nian said understanding words, but sneered twice, and gave him a small roasted and fragrant taro.
Sister Zijin put it on the plate and never mentioned it again.
He Zijin felt that Ah Nian was a little cynical.
He Zijin even said to Master Chaoyun in private, "I didn't think Ah Nian had such a sense of justice before."
Master Chaoyun corrected him, "This is the conscience and morality of scholars."
He Zijin said, "A'Nian has grown up."
Master Chaoyun was speechless for a moment, then said after a while, "A-Nian is going to be a grandfather now."
"I mean, I used to say what I said, but now A-Nian has a stand on big issues of right and wrong."
"Of course you have the final say on some small matters.
On such important matters of etiquette, Ah Nian should have his own opinions.
Otherwise, all these years of reading the books of sages will be in vain."
Master Chaoyun still has a stance on Ah Nian.
Appreciative.
"I know, I just feel emotional.
Unknowingly, I suddenly discovered that my A Nian is so upright."
Master Chaoyun: Why do these words make people so numb?
He Zijin himself believes that he does not have the quality of integrity, so he feels that A Nian's integrity is particularly valuable.
In particular, Ah Nian has been an official for more than twenty years and still has such a character, how rare it is.
He Zijin himself did not realize at all that A Nian could still be upright after serving as an official for twenty years.
A large part of the reason was that the Jiang family had always been well off.
A Nian himself was not short of money, so he did not have to bend down for five pecks of rice.
His children We have both ends, the family is harmonious, and the children are doing well.
Ah Nian is not a congenital anti-social element.
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It is normal for him to have moral persistence and pursuit.
And He Zijin should be the first to contribute to a family like Ah Nian who has no worries.
However, He Zijin had just praised her A Nian for being upright, and then discovered that the eldest son A Ye was not bright-eyed and had two big dark circles on his usually handsome face.
He Zijin also asked, "Did you not sleep well at night?"
Ah Ye said vaguely, "It's okay, it's just that I've been late studying at night lately."
He Zijin's imagination suddenly started to unfold, thinking that his wife was pregnant, so the young couple would naturally have to exercise restraint in their sexual relations.
He Zijin wondered if his son was working extra hard at night because of abstinence, and therefore didn't get any rest.
He Zijin thought too much about this.
It took him two days to realize that his son's efforts in lighting lamps and boiling oil were entirely to write congratulatory messages to the empress dowagers of the two palaces on A Nian's behalf.
Ah Nian still spoke plausibly, "I haven't been studying history in recent years.
My writing style is rather cold and solemn, and I am not good at writing congratulatory messages.
Ah Ye's writing style has always been gorgeous, which is perfect for this."
He Zijin asked, "Is it difficult to write?
It seems that Ah Ye is not very energetic."
"The first time he wrote it, it must have been inappropriate, so he had to revise it twice."
Anian said lightly, not saying at all whether he asked his son to revise it twenty times.
He Zijin looked at A Nian's old-fashioned face and said to himself, this guy has a lot of justice.
A Nian had no idea that his sister Zijin had such rich psychological activities.
He touched his mustache and thought that when he looked in the mirror this morning, he felt that the shape of his beard was not that good, so he took sister Zijin to trim his mustache. .
As for the congratulatory message, I have a son anyway.
A son is used for something, isn't he just used to share worries?
The author has something to say: s: Although this update is a bit short, it is the first update.
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