"If you don't want to buy it, even if you keep the money to live in the future, we don't care, as long as the dowry is not ugly.
The two looked at each other, and Ru Quan said quickly: "I will listen to my parents' arrangements."
Fugui also nodded, "This sounds like a good idea to me, but if she wants to leave money to her family, our family won't be able to take care of it."
Rumei smiled and said, "Second brother, you didn't understand what my mother meant.
The money for the big gift is a fixed amount.
Spend part of it and leave part of it.
The rest will naturally be the betrothal gifts for the sisters-in-law."
"They want to keep it.
How much dowry they are willing to buy for their daughter is their family's business."
Xianliang had been married once, so he knew the ropes, so he said bluntly, "You two, don't worry about this, just discuss with your wives to buy something for the house."
According to the rules of the northern countryside, the woman brings all the furniture in the house except for the bed, cabinets, chairs, tables, basins, etc.
Naturally, there are also quilts, washbasins, tea bottles, etc., which are also required.
It's more or less random, it depends on whether your mother's family is willing to part with it.
All the groom's family needs to prepare is a house, a wedding bed and a bride price.
Therefore, some women whose families are poor will keep the bride price and give their daughter two quilts.
To be particular, there are furniture with "36 legs" or even "72 legs", so it's not easy to plan them in a unified way.
Naturally, people in cities have begun to pay attention to "three turns and one ring" when they get married, including sewing machines, bicycles, watches, and radios.
Naturally, I can’t even think about it in the countryside.
How many families don’t even have enough to eat.
Ru Mei's family naturally has the best conditions, so Ru Mei's mother said: "Both brothers are the same, neither biased nor biased, both are a hundred fast.
The betrothal gift is twenty.
This is the current market, and we are no better than other families." .
The remaining eighty yuan is up to you to decide whether to spend it or not.
It’s up to each family to discuss it.
My parents won’t care about it anymore.”
The two of them were surprised and happy, "Give me more" For eighty yuan, you can probably buy a lot of good things.
It's one thing for Mei Niang not to worry about shopping.
She also wants to see the thoughts, temper and conduct of her two daughters-in-law.
It would be a bit of a waste if you spend all eighty yuan without hesitation.
Things are cheap these days, and you can get a lot done for eighty yuan.
Otherwise, why can I marry a wife and go home with twenty yuan as a gift?
You have to buy something, it just depends on what you buy.
Should I buy something flashy or something real?
Should I buy it for myself or for my man or my family?
Should I spend it all, keep it as a backup, bring it back, or leave it all to my parents’ family?
After all, this eighty yuan is actually a touchstone.
Ru Mei's father coughed and said: "When you get married, the treat is the same.
You can host as many tables as you want.
If you get married in the summer, things are cheaper; if you get married before the year of wealth, things may be more expensive, but it doesn't matter." " Ru Quan hurriedly said: "Dad, there is no need to say any of this, and no one cares about it."
In rural areas in the 1970s, weddings and funerals had to be treated to dinner, so weddings were relatively easy to handle.
In fact, because we were poor at this time, banquets were still held in the old traditional way, which was often called the eight bowls.
The biggest expense for a traditional banquet like Badawan is the amount of pork.
Generally, the amount per table will not exceed five kilograms, but it will not be less than three kilograms.
You need one fish, usually silver carp of about one pound, and the price is basically less than 40 cents per pound.
As for vegetables, many of them are grown by oneself, and the actual cost is not high.
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