Shang Ying's death had a great impact on Zhuangzi.
As a result, they are even more afraid to participate in society and to preach publicly.
Being alive is more important than anything else.
How to keep oneself alive and how to protect one's children and grandchildren from being killed has become the question that Zhuangzi thinks about the most.
Shang Yang gave the son away, and Zhuangzi knew it.
But Shang Ying also had a marriage contract with Bai Gui's family, so he didn't know.
It is conceivable that he and Bai Xue also have a marriage contract, and people in the outside world don't know much about it.
For outsiders, it's just rumors.
Therefore, it is also possible that Shang Ying and Bai Gui's daughter have a marriage contract.
Bai Gui's wealth can be compared with that of ordinary vassal states, and his children naturally dare not live openly.
So it is also possible to have this marriage.
From a Taoist point of view, life is just a process.
But it is precisely because it is only a life process that we should cherish it.
The completion of this life process is the complete life of our life.
To be alive is our purpose in life, and to be alive is our task Therefore, how to live better, live to the end of life, and experience a complete life has become the most important question for Zhuangzi to think about in the future.
We not only have to survive in this troubled world, but we also have to survive in any era and in any environment, so that we can live to the end of our lives.
Of course, we don't live just to live, nor can we understand that we live just to live.
Rather, life is just a process of life, and being alive is the purpose and task of our life.
But we're still going to die.
So we're not just living for the sake of living.
If we only understand "to live for the sake of living", we may do whatever it takes to live.
Or how old you must live, how you must be, what is the content of life, and so on.
If it is understood in this way, it seems to be extreme, and it is not a correct understanding.
The correct understanding is that life is just a process of life, and we are here to fulfill the task of "being born as a human being".
In this way, we are a lot more indifferent, and we let go a lot.
If you blindly plan your life out of a lot of content, it will seem extreme.
If you blindly understand that life is just to live, you have to get by, and you have to mix your days, it also seems extreme.
Can we stand somewhere in between?
In this way, our life will not be tired of running, day and night to fight and struggle for desires; It will not seem boring and boring, thinking that life is meaningless.
In fact, just by living and living, our life carries a lot of content, and it is already very rich.
As long as we correctly understand the process of living and completing this life as a human being, our life is very rich.
Because we have a happy childhood, we have a happy teenager who grows up, and we have a youthful and enthusiastic age.
When youth comes, we have a happy time to pursue the happiness of the opposite sex.
We have a happy time for two lovers, and we have the physiological experience of a union between men and women.
We have the experience of having children, educating children, and caring for future generations.
And we need to take care of our parents and elders.
When we are old, we also need our children and grandchildren to take care of us.
We have grown from an ignorant child to an adult, and then to become an elder, and the life experience is very rich, can we say that life is boring If we still say that our life is boring, then you are definitely a selfish person who only cares about yourself, and you have not experienced the feelings of others.
As a son of man, you have not felt the love of your parents.
As a parent, you don't care about your children.
As an elder, you only care about yourself and your spouse's descendants, and you don't appreciate that others are just like you: others love themselves, their spouses, their children, and their offspring If we compare our hearts to our hearts and not be selfish, we will be able to experience the great love and happiness of life.
When it comes to selflessness, some people will understand selflessness without a bottom line.
Selflessness is only a means, selfishness is our goal.
If we are only selfless and not selfish, then we are not ourselves, but if we want to be selfish, we must first be selfless, so selflessness is the means, and selfishness is the end.
A person who only knows selfishness and does not know selflessness, they will not achieve their selfish purpose, and their life will be just as unhappy.
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A person who only knows selflessness and not selfishness, they cannot live.
Only by being selfish can we live.
For example, when you only have enough food to survive or the last condition, if you selflessly give it to others, it is no wonder that you do not die.
And if you are selfless, you will not be able to live at all, you will not be able to live better.
Because there are so many people in this world who need our help.
And if you are selfless, human beings, you help you, and you still want to save animals and plants.
Because there are too many animals and plants in this world that need our rescue.
So if you can survive, you must be a selfish person.
Therefore, selfishness is not shameful, but the bottom line of being a person and doing things If you are not selfish, you are not an adult, if you are not selfish, you cannot form a family.
If you are not selfish, your business will not be profitable.
If you're not selfish, there's no need for your team to exist.
Without selfishness, there is no state The existence of the state, also selfishly, exists to protect the people, is a combination of a group of selfish people.
If the state is not selfish, it is not called a state, and there is no need for it to exist.
Even if it exists, it exists in name only.
Everything is selfish, selfishness is the bottom line, selfishness is duty, people do not do it for themselves, and heaven and earth will be destroyed A family cannot be a home if it is not selfish.
At the very least, the union of a man and a woman, both of them are selfish, and both are for the purpose of forming a family.
Otherwise, the relationship between a man and a woman becomes a stranger, or a person in public.
If you are not selfish, the union of the sexes between a man and a woman, and the physical happiness of a man and a woman is not the relationship between husband and wife, but the relationship in the red light district.
That is, a man can be with any woman, and a woman can be with any man, and then it will not be a home.
Therefore, it is also a selfish act to combine men and women to form a family.
The family is selfish, if you are not selfish, blindly selfless, and selfless without a bottom line, you will not even be able to support your family members and your children.
So the family must be selfish.
Otherwise, it can't be a family.
The family members can't support themselves, and they can't be separated, so we have to be selfish, we all think about this family, think about earning money, and think about meeting the needs of family members If all family members selfishly think about their own things and do not care about the family, then the family will be dissolved, and the family will be "separated" and divorced, and the children will go out independently.
So the family is selfishly.
Otherwise, the family will be scattered.
This leads to the fact that groups, organizations, enterprises, and countries are all selfish.
Including the United Nations.
Lao Tzu said in the Tao Te Ching: The world lasts forever.
Therefore, those who can live long and long in heaven and earth can live forever because they do not generate by themselves.
It is the saint who comes after him; Outside of the body, but in the body.
Not because of its selflessness.
Therefore, it can become its own selfishness.
Remember what Lao Tzu said: "If it is not for its selflessness and evil, it can become its selfishness." ” Who said that the earth is "virtuous", that is, the earth is for "its selfishness", "not for its selflessness, so it can become its selfishness."
Otherwise, where would the earth have the praise of "virtue and virtue". aa2705221: