Cuilian scolded: "Dead Nizi, who told you to be with your mother, whoa" She wanted to say, "Who called you to be virtuous with your mother, if you dare to beat you to death with your mother" They used this method to make children think that their mother was very bad and not good.
"Zhang Xiaoai, come over to me, if you don't obey, you won't be able to" Zhang Cheng scolded angrily.
But this time, before they could say the rest of the words, they found that their voices were hoarse all of a sudden, and their throats were torn apart Ziqing was unspeakably angry in her heart, but she didn't expect that she would never have imagined that her child Oh no, it was the child of the original owner, and she grew up under such teaching Xiao Hong is a professional woman, she has the essence of modern women who can go out of the hall and into the kitchen, so even if she is pregnant, she goes to work and does not go to the hospital to give birth until two days before giving birth.
After a month of confinement, I went back to work.
The company is very humane and takes care of her in accordance with the lactation treatment stipulated by the state.
So the child is naturally handed over to the grandparents.
Regarding the issue of taking care of children, I discussed with Zhang Cheng before, and Zhang Cheng said that his parents are retired, idle at home, and they like children very much, so it is suitable to come over to help them take care of the family.
In his words, not only does it cost nothing to bring his parents, but he is also very relieved.
Xiao Hong felt that her husband was very considerate, her in-laws were considerate, and she readily agreed, and she felt that it was a very happy thing for the old man to be willing to help.
So even though there was a lot of unhappiness in the confinement, she told herself that it was caused by her postpartum syndrome, and now that she thinks about it, in fact, she should have seen the clue at that time, their attitude towards herself.
Xiao Hong is a salesman in the company, and she has to go outside to run business a lot of time, and she is very busy.
It can be described as getting up early and being greedy for darkness, so there are few opportunities to get close to children.
She went to work almost in the morning before the child got up, and when she came back in the evening, the child was already asleep.
She wanted to kiss the child, but the old man pushed her aside, saying that she disturbed the child's sleep, and then Xiao Hong began to listen to the old man's various complaints, such as taking the child is very tired, the child is very disobedient, etc., she said that they are hard, the child is disobedient, teach a good lesson, etc., and then she will take out part of the money she earns for the family, and part of it will be given to the old man for pocket money But as the child got older and older, Xiao Hong found that the child didn't kiss her at all, and even sometimes she came back early, the child didn't go to bed, she wanted to get close, and the child hid behind the grandparents and looked at her with the same eyes as a stranger.
If Xiao Hong made a little pale, the child would immediately cry, saying "Mom bullied me" and "Mom is a bad mother".
The child went to kindergarten, Xiao Hong felt that the gap between herself and the child was getting bigger and bigger, and she also realized that something was wrong, so she tried to go home as soon as possible every day, but every time Xiao Hong came back from work, Cuilian would take the child out to visit the park, and when Xiao Hong finished the meal, they came back, and then brought the child's food to the small table on the side to feed Xiao Hong wanted to hold the child, and it was natural for the child to want to stick to his mother, but in this intentional provocation and isolation, the relationship between Xiao Hong and Xiao Ai gradually became estranged.
If it weren't for Ziqing presenting their faces in such an "extreme" way this time, I'm afraid not only Ziqing didn't know that there was such a family, but even the original owner didn't know that the child didn't kiss herself and hated herself, and no matter how much she wanted to redeem herself, she couldn't win her daughter's understanding.
Therefore, a small tree is not born to bend, it must be caused by external forces to bend.
Of course, it is precisely because it is small, so it is not too late to straighten it out Now Xiao Ai is only eight years old, and he knows so much, and the resistance to his mother in his heart has reached this level, and it would be really terrible if he was a little older.
At this moment, Zi Jing thought that in the original plot, even if Xiao Ai was so cold-blooded and ruthless to her mother later, she felt that she could understand and forgive her, because it was the education she received since she was a child that made her so selfish and cold.
Fortunately, I sealed their vocal cords with silver just now, and didn't let them continue to induce children so wrongly Seeing that the fire was almost over, Zijing rushed up, protected Xiao Ai in his arms, and shouted loudly: "Don't hurt my child, it's my child, no one can hurt her, don't be afraid, don't be afraid, there is a mother, mother protects Xiao Ai" "Mommy, Mommy" Ziqing finally used this extreme method to establish a relationship of trust with her child.
This should be the nature of mother and daughter, but I didn't expect it to be achieved with a strategy.
However, if not, I'm afraid Zi Jing thought, if it fell on the original owner, if he couldn't seal a few people in time and continue to shout there, I'm afraid it wouldn't be so smooth.
In the whole process, Ziqing is running the spiritual heart formula, and also trying to infect the child with her quiet and peaceful emotional power.
She once said in a report that a mother's emotions affect her children.
For example, if the child is crying, if the mother seems to be very impatient, the child will cry more fiercely.
On the contrary, when the mother is calm, the child will appear quieter Of course, the mother's emotional influence will become less and less as the child gets older, but one thing is for sure Because the trouble was too fierce the night before, Ziqing asked the company for leave the next day, and she took care of Xiao Ai carefully Xiao Ai saw the scars on her arms and face, she began to become uneasy, and Ziqing gently comforted her, "Baby, Mom is fine."
Mom knew that the baby was also frightened at that time.
In the future, the baby will not have to be afraid, because the mother will protect the baby."
"Mom," Xiao Ai threw herself into Ziqing's arms and cried out.
Ziqing's mood suddenly became excited, and his eyes instantly moistened.
Even in the memory of the original owner, this is a unique time that the child took the initiative to throw himself into her arms.
I feel a little at ease, but Ziqing can't take it lightly at all, because after all, my grandparents have taken her for many years, and I have only been with her for one night, and the foundation of trust is still very weak and needs to be strengthened Ziqing made egg custard for Xiao Ai, and Xiao Ai pouted and said, "Grandma used to buy me soy milk fritters, and sometimes she would buy me steamed buns."
"Oh, I'm really sorry for Xiao Ai, it used to be my mother who ignored Xiao Ai because of work and didn't make breakfast for Xiao Ai.
Mom promises that every day in the future, mom will try her best to make good food for Xiao Ai" Ziqing took Xiao Ai into her arms again and hugged her, patting her back to give her mother the greatest comfort to her daughter. t1706231537: