A few days passed in a blink of an eye, the family gathered in the courtyard drinking tea, discussing the matter of going to the grave the next day, two small bean bags have been dangling in front of my eyes, shaking I have a feeling of seasickness, I can't wait, take the two of them out, throw them in the horse pen, and stuff a ball of grass in their mouths, so that the whole world is quiet "Sister, I'll let Dashan prepare everything you said, you see what is missing tomorrow, I'll wait and let Dashan run again, and I'll get it all done quickly."
My uncle and grandfather spat out a puff of dry smoke, and in the smoke, he showed a mouthful of his big yellow teeth.
"There shouldn't be anything missing, but there's a problem, I'm going to talk about it."
My grandmother reached out and fanned the cigarette that floated over, because my grandfather had never smoked or drunk all his life, and my grandmother was still not used to the smell of smoke.
"What's the matter?"
asked my uncle and grandfather.
"Let's just go to this tomb sweeping thing, the children of Dashan and Chuntao's family, let the sister-in-law watch at home."
My aunt had just cleaned up the kitchen and came out, and when I heard my grandmother say that she should take care of the children at home, she immediately came over and asked: "Sister, this is not a trivial matter for my parents, why can't I go as a daughter-in-law, I don't take care of the children at home." ” "That's it, aunt, it's finally all the whole family, let's go together" Uncle Dashan also had the same opinion as his aunt.
"The place where the tomb is swept is relatively heavy, and the children are weak, so it's best not to go."
Grandma explained.
Aunt Chun Tao took the words: "Oh, aunt, sweeping the graves of the old people in my own family, they are all children of my own family, what can happen, I and my brother are not very particular, and I don't believe in these, and my mother doesn't want to watch the children at home, so let's go together." ” Uncle and grandfather put on the posture of an elder and said: "You know how to listen to your aunt, what your aunt says, you can do it" "I said you're a dead old man, you can talk well and don't fart all day, and you don't stink when you talk about farts" Auntie and aunt began to choke again.
My grandmother glanced at me, then turned to everyone and said, "I think it's best not to go if the child can't go, and if the sister-in-law doesn't want to be at home, it's not impossible to go with him."
But I'm going to say a few things ahead of time, and you have to keep them in mind. ” Grandma is afraid that her uncle and grandmother will go to war with her uncle and grandfather again, so she can only find a compromise way so that everyone can be calm and negotiate tomorrow's things.
"Sister, you can really go together, you can just explain what you do" As soon as my uncle and grandfather heard that my grandmother said that we could go together, he immediately asked.
Grandma smiled and said: "The child's soul is light, and it is not a trivial matter to play with the tomb after all, the yin qi is very heavy during the Qingming Festival, so tomorrow the two little ones must be held by their fathers, and they can't let go for a moment, what I'm talking about is that they can't let go for a moment."
"Then you have to hold it all the time, why do you kowtow to your ancestors," the aunt asked.
After all, some traditions still have to be continued, although tomb sweeping is just a formality, it can also be said to be a way to commemorate the elderly, but tradition is tradition.
"When Dashan kowtows, Xiaowa will let my brother hold it, and when Xiaojun kowtows, he will also hold the child to my brother, so it's okay."
Grandma explained.
"The trouble is that it's a little troublesome, if you can go as a family, girl, then do as you say."
Uncle and grandfather finally made a decision.
"Okay, then it's settled, tomorrow morning we'll do what we said today."
Grandma was also very happy, and she didn't let her aunt and uncle quarrel with her uncle and grandfather because of whether the child could go. aa2705221: