It took about 40 minutes for my father to drive into the gate of the crematorium in the suburbs, where my grandfather's ashes had been stored.
The reason why I didn't buy the cemetery was because my grandmother said that she would buy it after she passed away, and then she would be buried with her grandfather.
At that time, the family did not let the grandmother talk nonsense, saying that some things were quite taboo, and the grandmother waved her hand and said, what is there to taboo, people don't have to die, how can anyone live and not die, and die if you say a word, there are many people who died that day, some things can be believed, and some things should not be hearsay.
No one in the family dared to talk back to the grandmother, and the grandmother said that if she didn't buy it first, then no one would dare to move, otherwise, the grandmother would definitely be angry when she was angry.
If you make a good deal of anger for your grandmother, you will be a sinner in the family, and no one dares to be this sinner, the crime is too big.
When I got to the place, I let go of my hanging heart, even if my grandmother changed her mind now, I would definitely drag her in, and I definitely couldn't just turn around and go back.
Dad got out of the car first, helped me and my grandmother open the door, helped my grandmother out of the car first, and after I jumped out of the car, I slowly walked into the ashes storage place in the crematorium with my father and my grandmother.
When I arrived at the door of the storage office, my father went to the registration place to register first, and asked my grandmother and me to stand at the door and wait for a while.
I held my grandmother's arm, and I could feel my grandmother's body trembling slightly.
My father finally checked in, walked back to me and my grandmother, and was about to help my grandmother walk in, but my grandmother raised her arm and refused my and my father's support.
Standing up a little by himself, he raised his head and stood up straight, and slowly walked into the door.
Dad didn't know why, he looked at me with a puzzled face, I understood what my grandmother meant, so when my grandmother pulled away the hand I was holding on her arm with her hand just now, I naturally sent it away.
Grandma didn't want grandpa to see her current physical condition, she didn't want grandpa to be sad, so she didn't let me and my dad support her, she chose to walk in slowly by herself, so that grandpa could see that she was fine.
I looked at my grandmother's back and whispered to my father: "It's okay Dad, my grandmother is a strong person, and I don't want my grandfather to see her now, so she has to walk in by herself, and we will follow behind to protect the point." ” Dad nodded, "Oh good. ” My father and I followed my grandmother in, ready to guard against my grandmother's physical exhaustion due to fatigue, my grandmother's current physical condition can not be too tired, if you accidentally fall, it is easy to cause fractures.
The bones of the elderly are very fragile, and if they are broken, they will not get better as quickly as the younger ones, and they may be left with disabilities.
Therefore, during the time I was studying abroad, my grandmother basically stayed at home alone, because my mother and several aunts still had work to do.
I think my grandmother is very pitiful, and every time I think of this, I will cry under the quilt in the school dormitory.
I let my roommates find out a few times, they didn't know the reason why I was crying, Xiaoxiao wanted to persuade me, but they were all stopped by Lin Ying.
Xiaoxiao was out of kindness, and she didn't understand why Lin Ying stopped her, and she had an awkward quarrel with Lin Ying because of my affairs.
Later, Lin Ying took Xiaoxiao out of the dormitory, and after saying something to her, she stopped making trouble. aa2705221: