nn woman hurriedly shook her head and waved her hand: "We have always been poor people, where is the spoiling of the children of poor families, the children of poor families are all spoiled by hardships and grievances, that is the business of rich and noble families."
"nnnn" doting does not mean material.
Xu Yun said seriously: "Doting refers to spirituality and education.
Many wealthy children born with a golden soup spoon in their mouths have always gotten the best material life, and they have not been spoiled, and they are also very sensible and know what gratitude is.
The nnnn woman was stunned for a moment, this was a truth she had never heard of before. nnnn doting is not material, but spiritual nnnn "Maybe you have always owed him materially, but you have always doted on him mentally.
Xu Yun said: "Otherwise, he wouldn't have become what he is today."
"nnnn" He's good, he's a very sensible kid.
The woman hastened to say good things for her son. nnnn: "Very sensible, if it wasn't me who came today, but their President Song, I believe he wouldn't continue to use him."
Xu Yun said unceremoniously: "If he is my driver, I will not hesitate to fire him."
The nnnn woman's expression was obviously surprised: "The reason why 'nnnn' is very simple.
Because he doesn't even take the most basic filial piety seriously, he will definitely not be loyal to his job, loyal to his post, and even less loyal to his company and his boss.
Xu Yun said: "You can understand such a simple truth," the nnnn woman shook her head. nnnn: "Then I'll think about it, and put it more bluntly.
Xu Yun is not impatient, if this is a woman's son, I am afraid that he will be impatient for a long time, nnnn There are really very few children who are impatient with their parents, and even few are pitiful. nnnn Xu Yun continued: "You, as his mother, have worked hard to raise him, and he is not grateful to you for being so difficult to pull him from childhood to today.
Then I, as a boss, just pay him a salary to let him live, and I haven't taken care of other things for him, and he will definitely not be grateful to me.
You say, why should a boss of mine reuse this kind of employee who doesn't know how to be grateful" The nnnn woman nodded suddenly in understanding, and at this moment she really understood what Xu Yun meant. nnnn: "That's why I said, if I had such an employee, I would definitely not reuse it."
Xu Yun said: "People who can't even write filial piety will definitely not be able to write loyalty."
Why should I let someone like this work for me," the nnnn woman bowed her head in shame. nnnn thinks about her son's education nnnn Xu Yun is right, she is a typical kind of parent who spoils her children spiritually, her doting on her son is unconditional, although there will never be material satisfaction, but it will always be spiritual spoiling. nnnn She will not let her son suffer any grievances other than material things since she was a child.
Nnnn because she has always felt that her son has been greatly wronged materially, so she can no longer be wronged in other aspects.
It is precisely this practice of NNNN that makes this guy who has always been spoiled mentally not grateful for his mother's care when he grows up. nnnn He never thought about how difficult it was for his mother to take care of him alone and raise him, but felt that his mother was sorry for him and made his life so difficult.
The initial mistake of nnnn was not in him, but in his mother's education, his mother's constant emphasis on being sorry for him, and his mother's constant emphasis on making his life so difficult because of her. nnnn So, subtly, he also thinks like this, and feels that everything is his mother's fault, and his mother has always owed him instead of being kind to him nnnn "Your son has become what he is today, and it is your fault that he has no filial piety to you."
Xu Yun said: "We have a saying in China, which is called the fault of a son who is not filial to his father, and as a parent, sometimes we should think about it more."
At this time, the driver bought the coffee back. nnnn Xu Yun took a cup of coffee and handed it to the woman, and the woman's first reaction was to give it to her son, because the son only bought two cups. nnnnBut at this time, Xu Yun's eyes fell on the woman: "There is also a saying in Huaxia, which is called filial piety under the stick, if some children are really not things, it really doesn't matter if they beat and scold a few words."
"nnnn" I see.
The woman nodded.
The NNNN driver was a little confused, not understanding what they were saying. nnnn: "If you think my mother is a shame on you, you will not have me as a mother in the future."
The woman suddenly said to her son: "You are like this, it is my mistake in education, and I will voluntarily bear all the consequences."
"nnnn" Mom, what do you mean by that" This is his "Mom" for a long time, and it seems to him that it doesn't matter, but at this moment his mother is already in tears.
The nnnn woman turned away and threw away the coffee in her hand.
The nnnn driver was even more stunned at this time, and said in his heart, "If you don't drink it for me, this cup of coffee is 15,000 won, because Xu Yun asked for it, so he didn't dare to buy the cheap, the most expensive coffee he bought. nnnn wants to know that 15,000 won is enough for him to eat a very, very big meal, and he has never been willing to spend more than 5,000 won on a meal. nnnn "Mom, what do you mean by that" Although he called Mom, he could still hear some complaints in his tone, as if it was because his mother's actions in front of Xu Yun did not give him the so-called face, which made him feel embarrassed. nnnn, so he's a little uncomfortable. nnnn, but the woman never looked back at him. nnnn people only find out how precious this kind of "dearest relative" is when their loved ones are about to "leave" themselves, so when his mother no longer pays attention to him, his heart is really very lost, nnnn This feeling is very uncomfortable, more uncomfortable than the feeling that he doesn't want his mother to appear, but when his mother appears, he loses face. nnnn: "It's hard to recover when it's covered with water.
Xu Yun drank his coffee and said, "That cup of coffee is spilled, can you still put the spilled coffee back into the cup" nnnn Of course not.
The driver answered without even thinking about it, and there was no need to think about this question at all. nnnn Xu Yun nodded: "Sometimes, family affection is the same, when you think it's okay, you can hurt it unscrupulously, but when your family affection is like this cup of coffee, it's hard to get it back."
The Adam's apple of the nnnn driver loosened, although he was a little worried, but he felt that Xu Yun's words were a bit alarmist. nnnn, after all, that's, and he doesn't believe he's going to snub him. nnnn "You have been unscrupulously snubbing your own mother, do you still feel very lost when you suddenly think that your mother is about to snub you" Xu Yun smiled: "This is family affection, and what you lost today is precisely this most precious feeling."
"nnnn" I won't lose.
Naturally, the driver refused to admit it. nnnn: "If you didn't call her mom before, she had to obey you.
And today you called her, and she didn't pay any attention to you.
Xu Yun said: "Your family relationship seems to have fallen into a very deep crisis, make up for it, maybe there is still a possibility to get it back."
"nnnn," what did you tell my mom?"
the driver couldn't figure it out. nnnn: "I just told her that your unfilial piety was caused by her actions.
And your unfilial piety will become an obstacle in your work and career, because no boss will cultivate an unfilial employee.
Xu Yundao. nnnn may not have been able to understand his mother's distress until now. nnnn Her mother can be ruthless, in fact, she hopes that he can wake up and understand what "filial piety" is, so that he will not be fired by the boss in the future Thinking of this, even if her son called her "Mom", she didn't pay attention to it. nnnn Xu Yun's education is very thorough, she knows that if she can't teach her son enough lessons, her son will not be truly sober and conscious. nnnn Xu Yun looked at this "ruthless mother" who left without looking back, and all she had left in her heart was admiration.
The NNNN driver was completely stunned, staying where he was, not knowing what to do. nnnn Xu Yun waved his hand and motioned him back to the car: "It's better not to stay in such a place where you can see the joys and sorrows of society, I don't like sensationalism very much, so you still take me to a prosperous place, a place with more beautiful women, at least so that my mood can be more comfortable."
Although the driver wanted to say something to his mother at this moment, Xu Yun gave an order, and he could only obey the order quickly, so he decided to go home in the evening, take out his savings to buy some beef, have a meal with his mother, and talk together. isjgniitfreeti0: