While Zhao Tiezhu was talking on the phone, Sister Sun was talking to Li Linger.
"I'm telling you, when it comes to some men, you have to take the initiative.
For example, some boys like to tease you.
Then you have to make him want to stop and then leave.
After doing this a few times, He will understand that teasing you will only Just make him feel more uncomfortable, so that he won't tease you again.
Of course, if you meet a boy you like, then you can give him some appropriate benefits while teasing him when he can't stand it anymore.
This will increase his motivation.”
"What kind of benefit is this?"
Li Ling'er asked curiously.
"This is not simple.
For example, give a kiss, or bump into each other without surprise.
Anyway, you have to grasp the degree and don't overdo it.
If you want to make a man want to leave you, he will be very reluctant to leave you.
Like this If so, wait until later.
Only when you are together can you take the initiative.
Men, there is no one who doesn’t like new things.
They always need something new to stimulate themselves, and things they can’t get are the best ways to stimulate their possessiveness and aggression.
"Sister Sun talked eloquently.
Li Ling'er looked at Sister Sun with admiration and said, "Sister Sun, please tell me carefully, if you like a boy, how can you make him chase you, and he must chase you to the death?"
"This is not simple.
You inadvertently revealed to him that you have no man and are a bit lonely, and then you have to show that you want to refuse him.
At the very least, the ambiguity must be in place, and don't make it so clear.
The other person feels that you like him.
Let me tell you, men are cheap.
The more you like him, the less he may value you.
Only what you can’t get is the best.
This sentence There is still some truth to it.”
"Oh, but if I don't let him know that I like him, then how can he pay more to me?"
Li Ling'er asked.
"It's even simpler.
There is no man who doesn't like beautiful women, especially a childlike beauty like you.
As long as you look at him a few more times, he will have to pay for you.
When the time comes, wait He's almost chasing you, so you give him a half push and a half push.
In this way, he will treat you like a treasure or something.
Let me tell you, before a man and a woman are in a relationship, In the middle, the one who takes the initiative always suffers.
If you really get along with that man, then, no matter how much you like him or love him, you have to be more reserved.
If you give too much love, it is often worthless.
As long as you remain in a state where I might leave at any time if you don't follow me wholeheartedly, then it's too late for that man to please you.
It is simply impossible to engage in nonsense.
Those who write online about how they are hurt when they love someone are basically the ones who take the initiative.
Such people are usually particularly afraid of losing.
If a love is broken, they will be hurt.
Heavier people tend to be more active, so in order to avoid injury in the future, you can only do the passive side.
But this is just a strategy.
If you really love him, you must not be arrogant because of his favor.
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Don't think that just because the other person dotes on you and spoils you, you will think what will happen if he loses you.
If one day you If it touches his bottom line, then, after being hurt, he may be more determined than anyone else to leave because no one likes the feeling of being hurt again.”
"Sister Sun, you know a lot," Li Ling'er said with admiration, "Sister Sun's husband must have been kept submissive by you, right?"
As soon as Li Ling'er mentioned Sister Sun's husband, Sister Sun's face looked a little weird, and then Sister Sun said, "My husband is fine.
We respect each other as guests.
Ha, it's late, we have to go to bed."
"Then, okay."
Li Ling'er said, looking a little unfinished, "Then let me ask Sister Sun one last question."
"What's the problem?
Tell me."
Sister Sun said.
"What should you do if the man you like is very carefree?"
Li Ling'er asked.
"To be honest, Sister Sun, I don't know what to do about this problem."
A hint of recollection appeared on Sister Sun's face, and then she shook her head in confusion, "Men are born to be possessive creatures, and After possessing a woman, their primitive nature often makes them want to possess more women, especially some outstanding men, who are never satisfied with having only one woman.”
"Then what should we do?"
Li Ling'er asked.
"What else can you do?
It depends on the man.
If that man is good enough, treats you well, and loves you very much, but he is very philanthropic, then it is understandable for him to be more carefree.
After all, excellence Men are always attracted to women, and there are too many temptations for men to work hard outside," Sister Sun said a little helplessly.
"Oh, but, but I think love has to be dedicated," Li Ling'er said a little anxiously, "If there are three people, it's not love."
"Why not?"
Sister Sun smiled and reached out to touch Li Ling'er's head, "I love you, I love her, it's all love, and no less than others, why can't it be love?
Some people say that love is selfish, because he In essence, it stipulates that love can only belong to two people, but if you think about it, human feelings are not quantitative.
It is not how big our brains are.
A man can give a woman all his love. , but he can also make this Love, make another copy and give it to another woman.
Love is an abstract thing, not a material thing.
If it is divided between two people, it will be half to one person, nor to three people, or one third to one person. , Love can be 1.
For two people, it can be 1 for both people.
As long as everyone is sincere and love each other, love is actually endless.
Of course, there must be a bottom line.
For example, is that man just for fun?"
"Oh, it's so complicated."
Li Ling'er sighed dejectedly, "I just feel so awkward."
"Haha, Ling'er, tell me, have you fallen in love with such a man?"
Sister Sun said with a wicked smile.
"What, who likes a man like this?
I don't like this kind of man.
He is so flirtatious and so perverted.
Humph, Sister Sun, go to bed."
Li Ling'er said, pulled up the quilt and lay down.
Sister Sun didn't seem to want to let Li Ling'er go easily, so she pulled back the quilt and got in.
Then she heard Sister Sun smile and say, "Come, tell me, you are still not a girl."
"Sister Sun, I am a serious girl."
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"Oh, it's true.
Haha, let me verify your identity."
"Oh, Sister Sun, don't pull"
All of a sudden, it was very lively
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