If we do a survey, we will find that at least 90% of boys and girls make the first or more phone calls, the first sentence is "what are you doing" or "where are you", this kind of question seems to be no problem, but unless the other party really likes you, otherwise it is really a sentence of life and death, and kneel when you open your mouth.
Why is it because you don't have enough emotional intelligence, because you have unconsciously exposed the three most serious problems?
First, you are a low-value or worthless man.
Second, you are a man who has no plan and is not attentive.
Third, you are a nasty and horrible man.
Some people may think, no, just ask "what are you doing" or "where" to trigger such an exaggerated effect, and you will be blacklisted by girls, are girls so neurotic or perverted?
Don't say it, there really is.
As for why, let's break it down.
First of all, the first one, why does a boy ask so much and become a low-value or worthless man It's very simple, if a boy asks a girl these two sentences as soon as he comes up, then in the eyes of the girl, the subtext of the boy is that you are my concern, you are much more important than me, so I have to ask about your situation first.
Oh, of course, it's okay to ask this question between couples, and you have to ask like this, you must let the other party know this subtext, but this is between lovers, before chasing each other, asking this will only make you lose the price in the other party's heart.
So again, knocking on the blackboard, girls want to pursue themselves, and it is the princes who are better than ordinary people in all aspects, or even better than themselves, although they are often not very good themselves, rather than stinky dicks who grovel all the time.
Damn, even if it's not pursuing herself, girls want to be active around them and be all princes Second, why is it that asking a boy is defined as "unplanned" and "uncaring"In the same way, these two ways of greeting are actually a very aggressive behavior, in short, it is a topic request.
In fact, many boys don't think about what to say when they call at all, and they don't have the skills to improvise, so they come up and say, "What are you doing, where are you", it's clear that it's you who call, but you force the other party to create a topic to open the topic, which is really very annoying.
And as for the last point, why does it make people feel terrifying, please, you and the girl have just met, and they don't even know each other, how do you know your handsome and beautiful heart, and you can only get a preliminary understanding of what you mean when you come to the phone, which means that I ask to have your information.
But why do you ask to grasp the other party's information, because you are not confident, because you can't control the other party, so you ask the other party to provide information to judge the other party's situation, to see if the other party is with the opposite sex or something.
But if you think about it carefully, if the other party really has other thoughts and it concerns you, what can you ask in these two sentences, which is a low-value performance.
And then,And then there's no then.,The girl hates the boy who doesn't know him well.,As soon as they come, they show a posture of checking the household registration.,And the boys who ask like this will generally wait for the girl to open the topic behind.,Or immediately throw out a lot of related questions.,I don't want anyone to live.
What can a sister say, out of politeness, ask something such as aren't you busy, are you resting now, have you eaten at noon, etc., neurotic, my sister was still a little looking forward to you looking for her something, or what new topics to share, but you don't have anything to fuck, all you can say casually is just that, and you have this routine again and again, which makes the girl very irritable, you fuck me off Of course, boys may not think about it so much, the subtext of "what are you doing" seems to them to be nothing more than I like you very much, I want to talk to you, but I really don't know what to say, so I have to ask "what are you doing" and "where are you", because I don't have a topic, so please give me a topic or you open a topic, otherwise we won't have to talk o exploded, okay Calling the other party but not knowing what to say, forcing the other party to open the topic is the lowest value performance.
You say, my sister has nothing to do at home during the New Year's holiday, listen to you ask "what are you doing", she said in her heart What can I do if I stay at home, isn't this nonsense, not only nonsense, out of politeness, the girl has to smile and find a way to answer your questions, you say you are not annoying Many people, especially girls, have a small life circle, and they have nowhere to go out on weekends, and when you ask this, the other party says that I am at home all day, I am bored at home, I know what you mean by mentioning this, you say, does she have a good impression of you Therefore, it is best to get straight to the point, most girls are very reserved, but it is limited to behavior, when faced with interesting topics, curiosity and desire to delve deeper will make it easier for them to let go of themselves and accept you more easily.
"Hey, have you watched a xx movie recently", "I saw a new café in the south of the city, I look at the atmosphere, have you been there", "xx location: Yesterday, a man proposed to another man, have you heard", "The dress you wore when I saw you last time I also had a dress for my seven aunts and eight aunts, I didn't expect it to be so expensive, you are much more beautiful than my seven aunts and eight aunts" How difficult it is to create topics, to create suspense, how difficult it is to compliment without a trace It's good to talk like this when you talk to a girl on the phone, and what to say when you think of it, such as the skirt, it's difficult for the other party to respond positively to you at the beginning, or change all kinds of funny titles at the beginning, amplify your emotions, and it also has a good effect.
Furthermore, "I'll invite you to dinner when you come out at home, I know that there is a new place where xxx food has opened, super good", call the girl, so the beginning is crisp and neat, not dragging the mud at all, so the effect is much better than the topic request.
Of course, there may be boys who really want to check their household registration before dating each other, and they really want to ask the girls what they are doing where they are Dude,It's not me saying you.,If the other party really has a ghost and isn't your girlfriend, it's still about you something.,Trust me.,Even if you ask in a different way.,I really can't judge that if the buddy with this kind of naïve idea was born in the ancient deep palace compound.,Basically can't survive three episodes.,Thank you.。
"That's my answer and analysis."
After chattering for a long time, Brother Hao finally ended Sagar's question and supplement, and the entire Double Palace Temple can now be said to be audible with the falling needle, Saga is not satisfied with this answer Brother Hao doesn't know, but Konstantin on the side is so careful that his eyes are about to fall.
"Hahahaha, yes, yes, you still have two children" After a while, Saga clapped his hands and couldn't stop giggling, this thing laughed and said, "The pickle girl is so skilled, the program team pulled you in as a single dog on a blind date, it's really eye-catching, hahahaha" What can Brother Hao say, Brother Hao is also desperate.
"Ah, anyway, I'm very satisfied with your answer, congratulations on your successful passage of the twin uterus."
After laughing for a moment, Saga was able to return to his senses, waved his hand, and said to Jian Hao and the others. t1706231537: