Before the school bell rang for Blue Sky Kindergarten, Lin Qiuyue came to the school gate and gathered all the parents who were waiting for their children to get out of school and came to the classroom together.
When the children saw their parents coming, they immediately rushed up After Lin Qiuyue organized everyone to sit down, she began to discuss some of the things she had heard today.
"Hello parents, yesterday I let the children go home to watch the first lesson of the school year, although this is just a formal arrangement, but I still hope that parents can accompany their children at the same time, but also learn how to get along with their children from these things" "Maybe the parents here are older than me, but in terms of educating children, in fact, everyone is still just students, I don't know much about children, but from an outsider's point of view, I can also see what kind of way everyone usually educates children."
"What I'm going to say next may be a little embarrassing for everyone, so please don't be surprised."
Lin Qiuyue is convinced of her children, and she can organize parents to discuss ways to get along with their children, this is the first time they have encountered them, even if Lin Qiuyue criticizes them, it is actually for the good of their children "It's okay, Teacher Yueyue, just say it, if there is anything that needs to be changed, we must do it."
"Yes, yes, you just say" "I'm not very good at teaching children myself, so I just want to learn" Everyone didn't mind, and even had special support, which made Lin Qiuyue very happy.
"Okay, now I'm going to talk about the father of the big tiger child."
As soon as Lin Qiuyue's words fell, Dahu's father was particularly embarrassed, because he was the first to speak just now.
Seeing that his father was named, Dahu was also a little panicked, and quickly grabbed his father's arm.
The other parents glanced over there, intentionally or unintentionally, and then looked at Lin Qiuyue, wondering what she was going to say.
"Dahu's father may not pay too much attention to his words and deeds when he is at home, so Dahu sometimes gets infected with your vices, such as watching the show yesterday, did you say a mantra" Father Tiger smiled awkwardly when he heard this, and this expression was obviously an acknowledgement.
Lin Qiuyue continued, "In fact, the first teacher of a child is his parents, and many of the children's vices seem to be innate, but they are actually learned from their parents, so while teaching the children, they must also set an example."
"Of course, it's not just the big tiger dad who has this situation, other parents also have similar shortcomings, I hope everyone can pay attention" "After all, if a child has nausea, it is likely to affect the second child, if you want to prevent such a thing from happening, you need to work together to let the child know what to say and what not to say, so that even if they grow up and meet children with bad habits, they can also distinguish between good and bad, so as to ignore those bad habits" Many parents nodded in unison, it is true, children have a particularly good memory after the age of three, but at this time they can't tell the good from the bad, if you don't tell them, let them form a basic three views, and then want to change and teach when they grow up, it will be a little difficult.
Many parents began to bow their heads and reflect on whether they usually swear or show bad habits in front of their children When Lin Qiuyue saw this, she smiled knowingly, "Actually, parents don't need to recall too much, just start from now on, and you can also let your children supervise themselves, so the effect will be better." ” Children and parents need to communicate with each other, and blindly letting children listen to themselves is obviously wrong People are not saints and sages, who can be without fault, know how to admit mistakes in front of children, is not a shameful thing, everyone corrects each other, mutual respect, so that the family can be harmonious for a long time, on the contrary, a small contradiction in three days, a big contradiction in five days, this family is not chaotic After saying this, Lin Qiuyue looked at Zheng Mengmeng again, she knew that this child was very timid and shy, from the day she entered kindergarten, she was like a frightened kitten, the kind that trembled when she touched it.
Since getting acquainted with Tang Guo, this situation has eased a lot, but it can also be seen from here that Zheng Mengmeng's tutor is not so perfect.
"The next thing I'm going to talk about is the mother of the cute child" When Zheng Mengmeng heard this, she immediately became nervous, and her face was instantly filled with grievances.
Mengmeng's mother was also stunned, she didn't expect that she would be named by Lin Qiuyue.
After Lin Qiuyue saw her roll call, Zheng Mengmeng was about to cry, and she couldn't bear it, "Zheng Mengmeng is a very well-behaved child and very sensible, but a child is too well-behaved and sensible, which is also undesirable, and Mengmeng's mother shouldn't have let Mengmeng watch the first lesson of school yesterday."
Zheng Mengmeng heard Lin Qiuyue praise herself, her face softened slightly, and Mengmeng's mother was also stunned when she heard this, and then nodded.
Lin Qiuyue continued, "I understand that yesterday's first lesson of school can not play much educational role, and Mengmeng may not be able to understand many of them, but some programs are not impossible to watch."
"Except for some things that are too bad, you shouldn't all help Meng Meng get rid of them, and there was a good program in the first lesson of school yesterday, but because you didn't let her watch it in the first place, she couldn't touch anything, which is obviously not right" "What you have to do is not to help Mengmeng choose, but to guide her what she should take and what she should give up, so that when she grows up and is independent, she can also distinguish what she should do and what she should not do."
Mengmeng's mother understood, and she also knew what she was wrong with, as Tang Ling had mentioned to her before, it was not a good thing to be too harsh on children.
And everything is too subjective, which leads to Meng Meng's indecisiveness, hesitation, and resignation It is indeed unreasonable to be anxious and cute on the one hand, and not to let her do it on the other hand.
"Teacher, I understand," Meng Meng's mother smiled.
Lin Qiuyue was very happy when she heard this, and when she saw that Zheng Mengmeng still had an aggrieved expression, she immediately praised, "Well, don't be depressed, Mengmeng, you're already great."
After speaking, Lin Qiuyue looked at Tang Guo again.
Tang Ling saw Lin Qiuyue's eyes glancing over, and thought that Lin Qiuyue was going to criticize him too, which made Tang Ling also begin to remember if he had done something wrong.
But Lin Qiuyue smiled, "Today I also want to praise a parent, that is the father of Guoguo's children."
Many parents and children looked at each other, all very curious The vast majority of parents found their shortcomings in Big Tiger's father and Mengmeng's mother, and when they thought that everyone was the same, Lin Qiuyue praised Tang Ling.
This makes many people very curious, but Tang Ling's education method is particularly good: