Meng Xingfan's reprimand was not heavy, he just stood in the position of an elder to remind Tang Ling.
Many people present also agreed with Meng Xingfan's point of view, now that the child is young, it is indeed cruel to let her undergo strict training, but her future achievements are immeasurable, and it will even benefit the child for a lifetime.
Just like those children in sports schools, they don't all start training at the age of six or seven, they go to competition in their teens, and especially good ones even win the Olympic championship before they are minors.
Are they bitter Of course, it is bitter, and every day of training is to wash my face with tears.
But what about honors That's something that no one else can buy in a lifetime.
"What you said is too serious, I think Guoguo still needs to grow, and it is not necessarily the best given at the beginning to be the best."
Tang Ling said.
It's not a good thing to give too much of everything, too much.
Tang Ling admitted that Tang Guo received the highest education and would definitely be able to become the best master of mental arithmetic, but Tang Guo only had mental arithmetic in his life, which Tang Ling did not want to see.
Now Tang Guo just likes mental arithmetic, she can also like other things, maybe tomorrow she will like to sing, this is not good.
Children's interests are inherently changeable, not to mention that Tang Guo is still so young, can she tell what she likes and what she loves Apparently unlikely Indeed, Tang Ling can forcibly send Tang Guo to learn mental arithmetic, and then she is getting more and more powerful, participating in more and more competitions, becoming more and more famous, and her face is also very bright, but if one day, Tang Guo suddenly said to him, Dad, I don't like mental arithmetic, from the day you forcibly sent me to learn mental arithmetic, I don't like it more and more, but you like me to like it, so I learned.
How should he answer Like other parents, I replied that I chose a shortcut for you, as long as you follow this path, you don't have to suffer in this life, how good Or do you calm down and think about it, did she just want to be a smart daughter that everyone envies, so she ignored her feelings and ruined her childhood that should have been full of imagination Tang Ling did not deny that there was also fun in mental arithmetic, but that was not Tang Guo's only choice.
For Tang Ling, only if Tang Guo really wants to put all his effort into one thing, then he will support it unconditionally, but he can't make it mandatory, and he will make his own decisions about everything.
"Why don't you give the best and not give the best, then why do so many parents desperately enroll their children in interest classes, and beg grandpa to tell grandma to let their children go to a better school, and when they grow up, they must send their children to study abroad if they have money."
"These alone, a lot of children are already far behind, you want to give your children a good future, how can you succeed without being ruthless" Meng Xingfan really can't understand Tang Ling's thinking, in this society, if you don't let your child lead others on the basis, how can you let your child surpass others Someone once did an experiment in which they randomly selected one of the classes in a school and asked only three questions, and the future of most of the children in the class was clear at a glance.
The first question is whether your parents let you continue to study a specialty in your homework and maintain a certain level of proficiency so far The second question is whether your parents let you have a trip abroad The third question is whether your parents promised to send you to study abroad At the end of each question, they asked the students who answered yes to take six steps forward, and by the end of the test, many students were standing in place, while a small number of students had already surpassed them by eighteen steps.
These eighteen steps are very short, but they are very long when it comes to the children, and they need to use their strength to nurse in order to be able to catch up with others, and even never outrun them.
Is this a child who does not work hard Of course not So, before blaming your child for not being as good as someone else's child, see if you are holding your child back, because his starting line is up to you.
"Teacher Meng, thank you for your kindness."
Tang Ling smiled politely.
His meaning was obvious, refusal.
Meng Xingfan was about to explode, he had never seen such an unreasonable parent, other parents wished that their children had been excellent since childhood, he was good, and it was really ridiculous to let children choose by themselves in the matter of deciding their lives.
"I've never scolded anyone, but I really want to scold you today, as a father, you are too incompetent."
Meng Xingfan said coldly.
When Tang Guo heard his words, he immediately pouted and frowned, "You are not allowed to scold your father, villain" "Guoguo, you can't scold the teacher, honesty is good intentions."
Tang Ling stopped Tang Guo's behavior, but Tang Guo obviously couldn't hear the good intentions in Meng Xingfan's words.
Meng Xingfan's face softened a little when he heard Tang Ling's words, he still didn't have any temper at all about Tang Ling's attitude, and Tang Guo scolded him for being a villain, he didn't care anymore, how could a child tell what was good for her and what was bad for her.
"Teacher Meng, I don't know if Guoguo loves mental arithmetic now, and I don't want to force her to do things she doesn't like, so if one day, I can be sure that Guoguo really loves mental arithmetic and completely treats it as a dream, I still hope you can leave a place for her."
In fact, it didn't matter if Meng Xingfan taught or not, but Meng Xingfan's attitude of seriously considering Tang Guo still made Tang Ling admire it very much.
Such a teacher is worthy of Tang Guo to learn from him, and he doesn't need to use some means so troublesomely.
It can even let Tang Guo meet more outstanding talents and broaden his horizons.
However, the premise of everything is that Tang Guo needs to be voluntary.
Meng Xingfan was a little hesitant, he was worried that Tang Guo's talent would be slowly worn away, but considering that Tang Guo was indeed a little young, he reluctantly agreed.
"I can give a chance, but it's only a year, and when the year is up, if I can't pass my assessment, I won't accept it."
The conditions given by Meng Xingfan are already very relaxed, and the assessment after a year is just to verify whether Tang Guo has regressed.
"Thank you."
Tang Ling looked at Tang Guo, "Don't thank you Teacher Meng yet."
Tang Guo didn't know what was going on, but since Tang Ling said it, even if she was reluctant, she still politely said thank you, Teacher Meng.
Meng Xingfan was still quite satisfied with Tang Guo, smiled with her, and after leaving Tang Ling a contact information, he hurriedly left the event site.
Everyone watched Meng Xingfan leave, and then looked at Tang Ling and Tang Guo, and they couldn't help but shake their heads.
"Young people really don't know how to cherish it, such a good opportunity is just gone."
"As long as you agree, you can become a national-level talent, and this father is too irresponsible."
"If this kid knew what that decision just now represented, she would definitely blame her father in the future."
"This is the result of being a parent without exams, and the future is bright, but I was cheated by my parents."
"Aren't there still few celebrities who have been cheated by their parents these years, don't all have fathers and daughters who want 50 million, strange things happen every year, and there are many this year":