Tang Ling watched the two fight, and did not step forward to dissuade them.
He looked at the little boy who had stopped crying, and he was looking at his father, not knowing what to do.
"Little friend, do you know why your father is fighting with others," Tang Ling asked.
The little boy was a little confused, he didn't understand why, and he didn't understand why Tang Ling asked this question.
"Your dad got into fights with others because of you, because you cried and made others unhappy.
Your father loves you and doesn't want you to be scolded by others, or even looked down upon by others, thinking that you are a bad boy, so he will fight with others. ” "Do you think you're at fault?"
Tang Ling looked at the little boy, but unfortunately the little boy didn't give any response, it seemed that he didn't understand Tang Ling's question at all.
"I know you know everything, you can look at people's faces, maybe at home, you can get what you want as long as you cry, maybe your mother or grandparents in the family will obey you."
"If I say something ugly, I believe you can understand, that uncle just said that you are not promising, in fact, you heard it, right?"
The little boy's eyes changed slightly, and his expression became a little ugly.
Although he didn't speak, Tang Ling knew that although the little boy was young, he understood everything.
He can understand others scolding him, and he can also understand adults conniving at him, and he has long been proficient in reading people's faces.
Although Tang Ling didn't know how to deal with a bear child, he knew that a five- or six-year-old child actually knew a lot of things.
It's just that many adults still treat them as children, thinking that they don't understand anything.
"Your father loves you, he doesn't let you play with your mobile phone, he wants you not to wear glasses for the rest of your life, he doesn't allow others to say bad things about you, he doesn't want you to be bullied by others in front of him as his son, and you" "Do you like your dad?"
Tang Ling still looked at the little boy, and from his eyes, Tang Ling knew that the little boy had listened to his words.
Children at this age already have the ability to think, and Tang Ling believes that as long as he is not mentally ill, he should be able to understand what he says.
The little boy was silent for a while, then whispered, "I like it." ” "Then are you worried about seeing your father fighting with others for himself?"
Tang Ling asked again.
The little boy was silent for a little shorter this time, "Worried. ” "Then do you admit that it was because of yourself that Dad went to fight with others" Tang Ling guided the little boy.
The little boy lowered his head and made his voice quieter, "I'm sorry" Children at this age may be very willful, because they are small, and when they first form this personality, they will appear very stubborn, but in the same way, because they are small, the chance of children correcting them is also very high when they are reasonably guided.
Since the speed at which the boy admits his mistakes, Tang Ling can probably judge that his father should not usually communicate with the child much.
Just discipline the child in the way that he thinks is right, and there happen to be one or two people in the family who are used to children, so in this case, the child gradually forms a character that is difficult to discipline.
Don't look at the child's small age, communication is actually a very important way.
Even when the child is older and reaches adolescence, communication is a very deep knowledge.
Why do some children get along well with their parents since they were young, even in the rebellious period of youth, they are always willing to share their own things with their parents Because they have learned how to communicate with their children, how to change their communication identity at different ages.
When I was young, my parents were the guides, teaching my children some basic three views, as well as the knowledge within my ability, and when the children were older, they would change their identities and strive to become their friends, and the communication would gradually turn into listening and listening to them.
When the child is older, the parents will become watchmen, waiting for the harbor of home, looking forward to the child working hard outside, let him come back to rest when he is tired, store his strength, and continue to set sail.
Communication, slowly from speaking, to heart-to-heart communication.
This is the educational experience that Tang Ling has summed up after reading more than thirty books, and he only used half of his strength to deal with this little boy.
The effect is good, at least let the little boy know that his father is paying for himself, which is enough.
As for what this little boy will become in the future, it is not something that Tang Ling can worry about.
He just helped some of his hard-pressed fellow citizens as a father.
The police came, separated the two, and educated each other.
They didn't want to deal with it too long-winded, otherwise they would both have to get out of the car and go to the police station to explain the reason.
In this case, most of the cases are for the two parties to reconcile.
Fortunately, the two were not seriously injured this time, in view of everyone's fault, with the help of the police, the two finally shook hands and made peace, as for whether it was sincere, then no one cared.
When the two returned to their seats, the young father saw his son sitting honestly in his seat, looking at him worriedly.
"Daddy."
"What's wrong," the young father frowned.
He thought that his son was going to ask him for a mobile phone, so the tone of his answer was also full of anger.
"I'm sorry," the little boy said with a puffed face.
The young father's angry face was stunned at this moment.
I'm sorry He was not surprised that these three words appeared in the mouths of other children, but when they appeared in the mouths of his sons, he wondered if he was having auditory hallucinations.
He, a stubborn and disobedient son, will take the initiative to apologize one day When the little boy saw that his father did not speak, he thought that his father was still angry.
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"I, I don't want my phone anymore, don't be angry."
The little boy said. what Now the young dad is really a little dumbfounded.
This kid doesn't even want a mobile phone In the past, if you don't give your phone, it's like asking for his life, playing with his life, but today it's the sun coming out in the west But just when the young father was dumbfounded, the little boy felt that his words were a little too full, and immediately changed his words, "I just don't want it today, and I want it later."
The young father flicked the little boy's forehead with his middle finger, "I know that you want to play with your mobile phone, but you have to control it in the future, Dad said that if you can't play, you can't play, and you can't roll around if you know it." ” The little boy struggled a little, but finally agreed.
Although the young father wondered why his son suddenly changed sex, he could see that he had changed, and today's fight was not in vain.
Seeing that the father and son were so happy just because of this, Tang Ling was a little happy.
Fortunately, Tang Guo is a girl: