Thinking about Tang Ling's words carefully, they found that the way they used to educate their children was actually a little wrong.
They always feel that they accompany their children to learn together, and with their own words and deeds, their children should also be able to understand something from it.
But over time, they found that even with their company, the child had a hard time learning, and it was half the effort.
No matter how the two teach, in the end, it falls on the child, and there is actually nothing left.
Even if it is something very simple, the child may have just remembered it, and suddenly something interrupts her, and she forgets it again.
"Qianqian, this child, we really don't know what she likes, she has learned to paint, sing, and dance, but she is not interested in these, if it weren't for her mother's force, I guess she wouldn't want to learn anything."
Yuan praised.
When Tang Ling heard this, he smiled, "It seems that you shouldn't be with Qianqian for a long time." ” Fang Ning glanced at Yuan Zan, "Look, people can see at a glance that you are incompetent as a father." ” Yuan Zan was a little embarrassed, and then looked at Tang Ling, "How do you know?"
"Because as long as you have been in contact with your child for a long time, even if you don't know what she is interested in, you should know what she usually likes to play, and what she likes to play is her interest."
Tang Ling said.
"I know this, Qianqian likes dolls, and building blocks, with these things, she can sit and play for a day."
Yuan Zan tried his best to prove that he cares about children.
Su Yao smiled, "This can't be said that Qianqian, this child is not interested, you see that she likes dolls, just now I also found that she is very careful to change the clothes of dolls, which can be seen that she is very careful and likes to take care of people, and maybe she likes clothing very much." ” "Yes, parents must be good at observing their children's preferences, you say she likes to pile up blocks, then her hands-on ability must be very strong, accompany her to participate in some parent-child activities, go to the beach with her to pile up houses, as long as it can be related to what she likes now, you can go to guide slowly."
"This process must be very tiring, but if the child is cultivated from an early age, then her life when she grows up will be colorful, if she can solve the problem of food and clothing, happy and happy to do what she wants to do, I believe that the child will grow up and will be grateful to you for giving her a relatively perfect life."
Tang Ling did not hesitate to tell Yuan Zan and Fang Ning everything he thought and understood on weekdays.
These are not his imaginations out of thin air, after studying so many books on getting along with children, and watching so many videos that study children's personalities, as well as the vision of children's future planning, Tang Ling himself is actually a senior child researcher.
It's just that Tang Guo's current growth makes many of them useless.
Now that it has been handed over to Yuan Zan, I believe that these are enough for them to comprehend it well, and then slowly implement it into the life of taking care of Yuan Qianqian on weekdays.
In fact, while parents take care of their children, it is also a learning process.
As a parent for the first time, don't think of yourself as so high, everything is right.
People will make mistakes, and it is easier to win the hearts of children by setting an example than by scolding.
Some mistakes are multiplied by beating and scolding.
Criticism education is no longer suitable at present, and children's self-confidence and sunshine from an early age cannot be criticized.
Most of the children who criticize and educate families have a characteristic when they are young, introverted and inferior.
Of course, those who are born faceless and skinless are a different matter.
After eating, Yuan Zan and Fang Ning learned from Tang Ling and Su Yao, and even took out a pen and paper to write down some key things.
When Tang Ling said, he also reminded the old man a little, after all, the old man did have something inappropriate just now.
Although intergenerational parenting is a common phenomenon, but the protection should also be divided into occasions, people can't stand being coquettish when they are old, but the protection of the line is not helping the children.
Although the old man was old, he firmly remembered what Tang Ling said, and thought about saving more face for his son next time, and not beating him in front of others.
To be honest, if it weren't for Tang Ling's age being ten years younger than him, Yuan Zan would be eager to hold Tang Ling's thighs in pain now.
It's not easy Since Yuan Qianqian was born, his status as the eldest son in the family has plummeted, second only to the family cat.
Not only that, the old man often beats him, making him thirty-seven or eighteen, and sometimes he really doesn't want to go out with the old man.
Well, Tang Ling's words immediately raised his status in the family to a higher level, at least it should probably surpass the cats at home.
It's a shame that Tang Ling doesn't know, otherwise Tang Ling would be envious to death.
A single word can improve his status in the family.
But what about himself Now they are all struggling Although it is better than Yuan Zan at present, at least it can be on an equal footing with Xiaopang, but there is still a long way to go from the position of the head of the family If nothing else, I don't have to think about it in this life.
After playing for a day at the old man's house, they hurriedly said goodbye, and Tang Ling and the three returned home.
I visited the door for several days in a row, and although I had a lot of fun, I was still a little tired in the process.
Back at home, after washing, the three of them lay on the sofa and watched the Legend of Heaven and Dragon Slayer.
"I haven't seen Guoguo show someone else on TV, so I'm going to tune to the first few episodes."
Tang Ling shouted Tang Guo.
Tang Guo took the remote control and easily returned to the number of episodes of Heaven and Dragon Slayer, and then played the first few episodes.
"Dad, can I still act next time" Tang Guo threw away the remote control and climbed onto Tang Ling.
"When I see that there is no scene of children, if you are not tired, let Guoguo act."
Tang Ling said.
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Tang Guo shook his head, "I'm not afraid of getting tired" "I'm afraid, how can Dad make Guoguo so tired, even if you like it, then you have to grow up to be able to act hard, otherwise Dad won't do it" Tang Ling pulled the little guy's face.
"Oh, when I grow up, I want to play a heroine, specializing in fighting bad guys, hehe" The little guy gestured with his hands, it seemed to be the kung fu of a certain sect, and with that heroic little face, it was indeed a bit of a little heroine.
Tang Ling smiled, "When Guoguo grows up, squeeze my mother out of the position of the queen and let her go home to care for the elderly, okay?"
"But I can't compare to my mother," Tang Guo said.
"Don't you have a father, with your father to help you, you can still lose two fights and one fight," Tang Ling said with a smile.
Suddenly, the air next to him suddenly froze.
I saw Su Yao stretching out his hand and lifting his two ears in an instant.
"Is it":