To be reasonable, a man will always have more affection for the first woman he possesses.
It is a kind of deep impression that even if you experience countless women later, you will never forget the first woman, and a corner of your heart will always leave her place.
If you don't marry the first woman who has possession, even if you live happily after marriage, even if you don't deliberately miss it in the middle of the night, some memory fragments will emerge uncontrollably, and you can't do it if you want to "close the screen", and the more you want to forget, the clearer the memory will become.
This is not only true for men, but also for women.
Therefore, if your other half is not "the first time in your life", even if you never show anything unusual, you can't avoid that there are secrets that can't be said.
In some things, women tend to be more ruthless than men, and men tend to be more indecisive.
In fact, men are far more affectionate than women, but basically driven by a kind of possessiveness that they don't even find out.
Liu Yan can have as many beauties as he wants in the harem now, but when he chooses to relax, he will subconsciously come to Tuoba Xiu's side.
His habit is actually quite bad, if it weren't for Cui Wan's rationality and Tuoba Xiu's lack of too much ambition, it would inevitably be a drama of palace heart fighting.
As the queen, Cui Wan maintains the greatest restraint, and her bottom line is that Liu Shen's status will not be challenged, and she will not compete for favor in addition, and other concubines are different.
In fact, as long as Liu Shen's position is stable, Cui Wan's position will never be shaken.
In this case, it will become a failure to fight for something, she only had a vague understanding, or the family explained it thoroughly.
The female official was well-mannered, and Tuoba Xiu was slightly stunned and went out in person.
It didn't take long for four "concubine" level women to come in with a smile.
After they crossed the threshold, they closed their voices and got closer to Liu Yan, except for Tuoba Xiu, the rest took the children to salute separately.
Tuoba Xiu, who first followed Liu Yan, is thirty-one years old this year, and in modern terms, she has become a young woman.
The youngest of the four concubines is twenty-two-year-old Xie Daoyun, and Sang Miao and Zhang Lan are both twenty-six years old.
In such an era, people over the age of twenty are considered to be old women, and the best age for a woman is considered to be between thirteen or fourteen and sixteen years old.
The three concubines who came over, plus the ones they held in their arms, were due to the large enough indoor space, or a dozen or so people would have been crowded to the point that there would be no place to stand.
Liu Yan was thinking about one thing, he didn't seem to have been going to a certain concubine for a long time, and he went to Xie Daoyun's side to sleep last night, what kind of trouble did he come over today regardless of the impact When they reached the second level under the queen of "concubine", they naturally couldn't get together and chattered together, but sat on the garden brought by the palace maid, with a reserved smile on their faces, or talked in a low voice, or sat quietly.
Liu Yan looked at the adults and looked at the children.
The children are more active, the bold ones have come to Liu Yan's side, and the timid ones are either around their mothers, or with their brothers and sisters who play well in an open place.
Liu Yan has thirty-one children, all of whom are relatively young.
Only during the winter solstice and New Year's will he summon the concubines and all the children above the tenth rank to eat together in Weiyang Palace, and he usually basically can't see all the heirs together.
"Father, this is a grasshopper made by Lin'er."
Seven-year-old Liu Lin was holding a cricket made of grass in his hand, looked at Liu Yan with expectant eyes, and asked, "Is it like it?"
"Like."
Although Liu Yan was not impressed by every heir, at least he could remember the name and appearance.
He looked very much like Liu Lin, who looked like him when he was a child, and asked with a smile: "I did it myself" Liu Lin kept nodding his head like a chicken, with an expression that wanted to be praised: "The child took four days to do it slowly, and it was just done yesterday." ” With Liu Lin taking the lead, several brothers and sisters also took out their own gadgets and showed them to Liu Yan one by one, and everyone was praised by Liu Yan.
The boys made insects, and the girls made small animals.
Liu Yan asked before he knew that it was the extracurricular homework assigned by the teacher, and then asked who the teacher who assigned the homework was, and nodded with satisfaction after getting the name.
The teacher is not an official position, but some lecturers who are arranged to teach the prince and the princess.
There is no fixed teacher, it can be Ji Chang, who does not need to sit in class, to speak, or it can be a celebrity in the opposition whose reputation has reached Liu Yan's ears and is invited to speak.
No matter who has the opportunity to give lectures to the prince and the princess, they will not refuse, and they even cherish the opportunity to have that kind of opportunity, and elevate the teaching of the prince and the princess to the level of preaching.
It is precisely because of the elevation to the level of preaching that many people who have the opportunity to give lectures to the princes and daughters of the emperor and princess will generally show all their skills, and the topics they will talk about will go beyond the boundaries that children under the age of ten can understand, and the results will be obvious.
"Yu Xi" Liu Yan still has a deep impression of this person: "His body is still strong" Liu Yin, the eldest, replied: "I often cough very badly when I give lectures. ” Yu Xi is already seventy-three years old this year, he discovered the precession, founded the "Antiy Theory", is a very famous scholar south of the Yangtze River, but also a famous astronomer in the history of Zhuxia, the height of the literary world is slightly lower than the Western Han Dynasty Zhang Heng made the armillary sphere.
"The cough is very bad" Liu Yan knows that living to the age of seventy-three is already an extremely high life, and if he coughs badly at this age, it is basically very bad: "Lecture with illness" Zhuo Xiang himself was also present, so he saluted and said, "Your Majesty, everyone Yu has been sick for two months.
His family persuaded him not to enter the palace to give lectures, but he refused. ” "Cui Jinzhi."
Liu Yan looked at Cui Zong and ordered, "Order the imperial doctor to visit Yu Mansion." ” Cui Zong naturally responded to the "promise", but did not leave immediately.
Now there is no personal secretary Lang to say that, and the official position of the person who always serves with Liu Yan has been changed to a close attendant, but this close attendant has definitely not been castrated, it is just an official name.
The close attendant belongs to the Shizhong Mansion, and according to the rank, it is regarded as a six-grade official, because he can serve the Son of Heaven at all times, he is definitely an authentic official but not a humble existence.
Chang'an is the imperial capital, and it is destined to attract people with lofty ideals from all over the country.
Since the Han Empire has not yet restricted the movement of people, aspirants and ambitions throughout the Han Empire, whether they have pockets or not, will come to Chang'an.
People with good family resources, they will definitely choose to buy a house when they come to Chang'an.
But it's not that the richer you are, the bigger the house you live in, you have money but you don't have enough titles, and you may be able to blur some restrictions in the local area, but Chang'an is not like that, if you don't have enough titles, you will honestly live in a house that fits your identity.
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Some scribes who want to come to Chang'an to find opportunities, they are actually more inclined to post to a certain high-ranking person, whose reputation is loud enough and there is enough real material to basically be hired, maybe as a teacher for children, and can also be accepted as a retainer.
If they have a talent and do not have a reputation that is loud enough, then they can only choose to make their reputation loud, usually to the Temple of Heaven Square, either by themselves to set up the ring or to challenge the champion who sets the ring.
In addition, they can also submit articles to high-ranking officials or high-ranking people, hoping that someone will appreciate their articles.
Liu Yan usually pays more or less attention to the Wendou on the side of the Temple of Heaven, if there is a talent, he will order someone to investigate the origin and past, and inevitably collect that person's articles, but he has not been personally promoted, and he really appreciates that he will beat around the bush and tell which Shangshu to pay attention to it and so on.
The Han Empire does not need to be hand-picked by any Son of Heaven, even if it is talented, it should be fought up step by step.
It's not that Liu Yan doesn't pay attention to talents, it's that he needs to ensure enough fairness and can't break the rules himself, but on the contrary, he should maintain the rules.
In the Han Empire, there was no talent but no practical things, only thinking about which golden thigh he could hug, and how many years he struggled less by holding the golden thigh.
Even if it is really convenient to hug Jin's thighs, at most, it is to enter the officialdom or enter the army, but you still need to start from the bottom.
There will be such a rule, which is based on what kind of status you want to get, first of all, you have to build enough credit and what kind of achievements you have.
On the premise of no merit and achievements, even if you are famous all over the world, you can only be a celebrity in the opposition forever.
This point is actually criticized a lot by the people, and what ordinary people want to see and hear most is someone who is a blockbuster, and then who is valued, and in a short period of time to complete the achievements that others need to take years or decades to achieve.
They will have such a mentality, which is nothing more than the expectation of "shortcuts" in everyone's hearts.
The key lies in the word "shortcut", and the last thing a country can exist is a "shortcut", and usually a "shortcut" is equivalent to a "shortcut".
Isn't it all "tricky" tantamount to using ingenious means to seek illegitimate benefits or avoid difficulties?
It is not terrible for individuals to advocate "shortcuts" and desire "shortcuts", but it is terrible for most of the successful people in a country to use such means, and it is also dangerous for the national level.
In the early days, Liu Yan would always subconsciously use modern ideas to do things in this era, which was also the reason why his power seemed so strange in the early days.
After the force became large-scale and became regular, Liu Yan understood that being ahead of the curve was not the same as applying, and began to exercise self-restraint.
He still likes some of the values and ideas of the general public in the current era, which is full of authentic Chinese flavor, but it is not the utilitarian core after Western civilization has become the mainstream.
"Let Shen'er, Ming'er" Liu Yan called several names in a row, all of them were older heirs: "Let them go to Qinglongmen." ” Cui Zong respectfully responded to the "promise".
This time he walked away neatly, and a smile spread across his face as he walked out.
Cui Wan, who is the queen, has many things that are inconvenient to do, such as the four concubines coming together, and the queen has to endure it no matter how much she wants to come.
The queen needs to be reserved, so there is no way to bring Liu Shen over.
Just now, Cui Zong watched the emperor's heirs surround Liu Yan with all kinds of coquettishness, and he was anxious in his eyes.
"They follow me, you" Liu Yan got up without giving any reason: "What to do, what to do." ” No matter what the three concubines wanted to say or do, Liu Yan didn't plan to give it a chance.
He originally wanted to tell Tuoba Xiu about the remnants of Tuoba, but he had to wait until he had a chance to mention it later.
When Liu Yan left, he took the princes and princesses who were over five years old indoors, and those under the age of five were looking for their own mothers.
When he arrived at the Qinglong Gate, the named prince and princess were already waiting by the city gate.
"See the Father" It was Liu Shen who took many of the younger brothers and sisters who were waiting together.
"Hmm."
Liu Yan had already changed into his regular clothes, followed by a large group of people, and instructed Liu Shen: "Look at your younger brothers and sisters more." ” Liu Shen was also wearing regular clothes, and respectfully saluted again: "No" This time when he left the palace, it was Liu Yan who remembered the things at the Temple of Heaven and a whim surrounded by his children, so he thought about taking his children out of the palace for a walk.
When the Son of Heaven left the palace, it was naturally not Liu Yan who yelled at his voice and said to leave, in fact, it was necessary to leave a time difference, at least let the relevant personnel go to the location where they were going to arrange it first, and at the same time, there would be no fewer guards on the surface.
The so-called arrangement is either to clear the site, or to eliminate hidden dangers first, and then to enter the position of people who need to be guarded and protected in secret.
It is not an conspicuous thing to go shopping with a large group of people in Chang'an, and it is even common to have many guards around to protect it.
After all, this is Chang'an, the capital of the empire, how can there be less high-ranking officials and dignitaries, they don't nest at home every day, and they often take their children shopping or something, Chang'an citizens will not be surprised to see a group of adults shopping together and with many guards.
"Shen'er and Yin'er ride with me."
Liu Yan stood on the edge of a gorgeous and wide carriage and looked around at the female official who was in charge of taking care of the prince and princess: "Be careful. ” Liu Ming, the eldest son of the emperor, was one year younger than Liu Shen, and he looked at Liu Shen from a distance, his eyes full of envy.
Liu Ming was born to a female official, and his biological mother Li Fei gave birth to a prince, although she was a princess, she also became one of the harem concubines and got the rank of "eighth son".
Li Fei knows very well what kind of status he is, and he is already extremely satisfied to have the status of the "eighth son" of the seventh rank of the harem, and he really doesn't dare to ask for more.
She kept to herself, and she usually taught Liu Ming to instill the idea of keeping to herself, and even warned Liu Ming more than once not to have any unrealistic ideas.
These children are all his own flesh and blood for Liu Yan, and he did not grow up in a "traditional" family, if he could not suppress himself from time to time, he would not show such obvious discrimination.
Before Liu Yan boarded the car, he happened to see Liu Ming showing an envious expression, he was slightly stunned, and chose to ignore it after a pause.
He has a self-monologue in his heart, which is good for Liu Ming and good for the country
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