Text-only online reading of this site's domain name, mobile phone synchronous reading, please visit this question Zhao Lingyi thought for a long time and didn't understand, according to the current situation in the house, it should be a quick separation of the family, is it good to mix in this troubled water?
If it was said that the fourth wife had no other ideas, Zhao Lingyi resolutely did not believe it, but she didn't guess where the fourth wife's selfishness was, was it just to be able to manage the family?
How much of the family's interests are still worth remembering?
How can the fourth wife say that she is also a woman born by everyone, will her vision be so short-sighted?
It's just that Zhao Lingyi feels that these things are not something that a junior should worry about in the end, so she just thinks about it.In the end, it is more important to appease the stepmother's heart.Zhao Lingyi asked people to send things to two places, but in half a day, Lao Taijun and Dou knew about it.Dou felt that it was not worth it to let Baba send something to his brother so far, but he was also moved by Zhao Lingyi's thoughts.Naturally, she became more and more concerned about Zhao Lingyi's affairs, and told her personal maid that she wanted to get better quickly to prepare a dowry for Zhao Lingyi, and she was even serious about taking medicine.In this way, her body naturally healed faster.Lao Taijun praised Zhao Lingyi's behavior very much, and Lao Huai thought comfortingly, this child is becoming more and more decent now, and he knows that these people are sophisticated.Thinking that her marriage is also decided, it's time for her to learn to be a housekeeper, otherwise what will happen when she comes to Yanwang's Mansion in the future?
After all, there is no mother-in-law, and Wang is not a good person, how can he really teach her?
It's a pity that Dou's lingering illness can't get up, and such a body can't teach her, so it's better to wait for the New Year.In a blink of an eye, it is the thirtieth day of the lunar month, and according to the rules, this day is the day to worship the ancestors.Zhao Lingyi of the Zhao ancestral hall has only come once in the past few years when she worships her ancestors, but Zhao Yanwan doesn't know how many times she has entered the ancestral hall, but she is more diligent than her going to the kitchen, but she never wants to change.This year is probably the last time she will come to the ancestral hall, the Shen family has already sent someone to say, and she has taken a fancy to the day of February 15 of the next year, and by this time next year, she will be a member of the Shen family.It's just that it's really good to get married early like this?
Even after the New Year, she is only fourteen years old, and there is still a year before she is married.When she didn't learn medicine, Zhao Lingyi didn't know that getting married too early was not good for the girl's health, but now that she has learned medicine, she knows it, and she is a little more pitiful to Zhao Yanwan, how can she get married if she hasn't opened her body yet?
In addition, she thinks that Zhao Yanwan's character, even if she marries into the Shen family, she is afraid that she will not be able to live a good life, and she will always cause a lot of right and wrong.However, this is not something she should worry about as a younger sister, she should concentrate on worshipping her ancestors.Zhao Lingyi thought about it, so she lowered her eyebrows and concentrated on standing next to Shi Lao Taijun and the Dou family to worship.When worshipping ancestors, not only the three rooms of the Dingguo Mansion, but also many of the side families who had gone out before also came to the mansion to worship the ancestors, therefore, at the door of the huge Dingguo Mansion Ancestral Hall, there are many men, women and children standing in a lot of people, but they are all quietly and orderly.The second master Zhao Zhongkang presided over the sacrifice, the third master Zhao Shuxiang accompanied the sacrifice, the fourth master Zhao Jihe offered silk, the second room had no son-in-law, the second lang Zhao Siqi held incense, and the rest of the side branches only participated in the worship, standing in turn, but did not have to go forward.After the dedication was completed, it was Mrs.
Shi who led everyone to bow down with incense.For the sacrifice, Zhao Yanwan hated it, she hated that when she came here at this time of year, Zhao Lingyi could stand by her grandmother's side and sacrifice in a grand manner, and she could only stand under the corridor and worship like those irrelevant side branches in the house.Every time at this time, she complained that her mother was not angry, if her mother could be the second wife, instead of an aunt, Zhao Lingyi's person standing in this position would be herself, and she would definitely be able to do better than the clumsy Zhao Lingyi.But this year, she doesn't even have a person to complain about, her aunt has been sold, and now she has nothing to do with the Zhao family, and in this life, she can't be the daughter-in-law.It's just that my aunt said that she didn't mean it, someone framed her, and she didn't know that her wife was pregnant.Although Zhao Yanwan didn't know who framed the Lu family, she firmly believed that the people in this mansion were all bad people, they all looked down on herself and her aunt, and they were plotting to harm herself and her aunt.Fortunately, I don't have to live in this house for long, and I will be able to get married after the New Year.My aunt is right, even if she is a little dishonored, she is still the wife of the Shen family in the past, and the future mother of the house, as long as she does not make mistakes, no one can do anything to herself, and she is as beautiful as herself.If you can please the concubine in the palace, you really have face, and when the time comes, you will have the support of the concubine, who will not respect yourself?
What can you do if you have a concubine in the house, don't you have to respect yourself?
If you are unhappy every day, you can still let them make rules.She remembered that her aunt used to hide in the house and cry every time she came to the sacrifice, as a concubine, she couldn't participate in such a big event as the sacrifice, no matter how beautiful the moon was on weekdays, no matter how much her father doted on her, no matter whether she controlled half of the rights in the house, at this time, the concubine was one level shorter than the wife's room, and could only sit in her own room and wait for the sacrifice to end.But now, even waiting for the end of the sacrifice has become a luxury, and the aunt is probably even more uncomfortable.It's a pity that I can't go out of the house, I can't accompany my aunt for the New Year, this year's New Year, my aunt is destined to be alone.Zhao Yanwan felt aggrieved and sad, but she didn't dare to make trouble during the sacrifice, otherwise it would be a great disrespect to the ancestors, such a crime, she couldn't bear it and didn't dare to bear it.Now there is almost no place for her in Fuzhong, she can only be a person with her tail between her legs.After the sacrifice was over, everyone was going to Ninghui Hall to salute Mrs.
Shi.This has been the rule in Fuchu for many years.In fact, the other side branches in the mansion will probably not go to Shi Laotaijun's house with a shy face at this time, they all kowtow in the courtyard of Ninghui Hall, and then receive their own New Year's things and the reward money from the Dingguo Mansion and go home for the New Year.Those who can get to Shi Laotaijun's house are still these people from the Dingguo Mansion.In the gilded enamel brazier in the upper room of Mrs.
Shi, the silver charcoal is burning vigorously, making the whole room warm, and it seems that even the haze in the house has been dispelled a lot.Especially after it was cold outside for a long time, when I first arrived here, I felt warmer.Mrs.
Shi sat on the big kang covered with bearskin mattresses, and on the twelve carved lacquer chairs on both sides of the ground, all of them were chairs with a color of gray squirrel skin and small mattresses, and each chair had a foot stove, which was where the wives, girls, and buddies in the house sit.said that it was to let the wives sit down, in fact, the Dou family and others were standing and waiting, and the most important thing for the big families was the rules, in front of the mother-in-law, they naturally did not have a place to sit as daughters-in-law, but the girls who were not out of the cabinet were not subject to these restrictions, so the sisters Zhao Lingyi were sitting on these chairs.Dou was sick for several months this year, so the old lady ordered her to sit down too, but Dou followed the rules and only said that he was much better, and refused to sit down.Mrs.
Shi couldn't bear to set up rules here when she first recovered from a serious illness, so she let her go around and give her a loose time.On the twentieth day of the twelfth lunar month, the school in Dingyuan Bofu was also dispersed, and it was not until the sixteenth day of the first month that he started to go to school, so Erlang could also relax for a while.He is now considered to be the person of Lao Taijun's heart, so he sat on the chair on the left side of Lao Taijun, and Zhao Lingyi was held in his arms by Shi Taijun early and sat on the kang with her.Sitting on the chair on the right is naturally the second sister Zhao Muqing.In the past few months, the second sister has lost a lot, and her little face has become more and more meatless, and her chin is pointed, which makes people feel pity when they look at it.Everyone accompanied the old lady to eat tea and laugh, and even Sister Qing had a rare smile on her face.In addition to the old lady, there are also three masters and three wives in the house to sit down and receive the salute, and this ceremony will take half an hour to end.These unmarried brothers and sisters naturally had to get rich red envelopes, and Zhao Lingyi pinched the heavy purse and smiled so much that everyone canceled her.After the salute, the male and female servants and women in the house were scattered with the New Year's money, and there were no happy events in the house this year, so everyone just followed the old practice to distribute a month's monthly silver.After that, the family shared a Chinese New Year's Eve dinner, burned incense in front of the king of the Buddhist hall in various places, and sat together to observe the New Year, and so on.Because it's like this every year, Zhao Lingyi can't find a little freshness, but it's just a mechanical toss with everyone.And the thirty nights of the New Year, the morning of the first day of the new year has to be lazy, but the rule in the house is that the old lady must be invited to meet on the morning of the first day of the new year, so Zhao Lingyi does not like to keep the new year.But in the days that followed, Zhao Lingyi still liked it.The wives went to socialize, either took the post and went to someone else's house, or invited someone from the house, and the foot did not touch the ground when the price was busy, and this year because Zhao Lingyi promised to match the Yanwang Mansion, more people sent the post over, because they were all unfamiliar with the people before, that is, they gave the New Year's gift in the past, but people did not have the kung fu to arrive.This year's New Year is much more lively than before because of Zhao Lingyi's relationship, and even Zhao Zhongkang feels that this day is finally a head, so naturally he is much more interested in Zhao Lingyi's daughter.The Gui family is satisfied with the eldest sister, so the New Year's gift is very rich, and the people up and down the house have a lot of rice, not to mention that the eldest sister is blessed.However, Nangong Zhan was very surprised to send a New Year's gift, which was not a very expensive thing, but it was a gift that was in line with everyone's wishes, and no one in the Zhao family's mansion did not say that Nangong Zhan was sensible.I can't help but envy Zhao Lingyi, the fourth girl who has not yet married.In this way, it seems that the Shen family has no manners, but the people in the house said that this is because the fourth aunt is rare and the four girls are rare, and the Shen family is not rare for the third girl.When Zhao Yanwan heard such gossip, she had to cry again in her room.But when she cries now, there is no one to comfort her, and the only father who loves her is still can't even see anyone now, who can know the pain in her heart?
However, Zhao Lingyi is very comfortable, the girl who is not married is a relative and friend who does not need to socialize, except for a few relatives who are considerate, there is no need to go to the meeting, and there is no need to go to school, so there is a lot of time to play.Throughout the Chinese New Year, she also went to Dingyuan Bofu, the Shi family and the Gui family, and the Dou family was thousands of miles away, so she didn't have to go.Zhao Lingyi invited Erlang, Sister Qing and others to come to her yard to catch up with Go and wipe dominoes.The old lady listened to the laughter and laughter of her grandchildren, but she was also in a lot of energy, and said that they were crazy children.The people who served looked at the old lady were rarely happy, so they simply proposed that it was better to let the brothers and sisters come to Ninghui Hall to play.The old lady simply asked people to arrange a few tables of wine in the big flower hall on the ninth day of the new year, specially ordered a table in the restaurant to send it over, and invited a small drama to the house, saying that she wanted to live happily for a day.There is a funny mother-in-law said, simply invite more relatives and then invite some grandchildren to come over to eat and drink together to be more lively, the old lady did not disagree, although this year's house is out, but it is still Xu married two granddaughters, Xu's family is not bad, and it should be lively for a day.Since Mrs.
Shi arranged it, it was naturally arranged quickly, but fortunately, she didn't plan to invite many people over, so she set up three or four tables, all of which were sour branch wood tables and chairs, complete sets of tablecloths and chairs, and exquisite embroidery on them, which was indescribably luxurious.A small table is set up next to each table, on which are placed the three things of the stove bottle, burning rhino incense, and a small bonsai with mountain stones covered with moss, and inserting fresh flowers cultivated in the greenhouse.There is also a small lacquered tea tray, with a white porcelain teacup from the official kiln, which can be regarded as complete in color.It's just that on the ninth day of the new year, several close families came, including the Shi family, the old lady's maiden family, Zhao Lingyi's Li family, and the third and fourth wives' maiden families, all of whom were from the wives and grandmothers.However, there are not a few people from my family, some of them say that they are old and too lazy to move around, some say that it is inconvenient for no one in the family to come, and even more want to come to join in the fun, and those who are sick and can't come, and are too timid to see people, so they don't come.Zhao Lingyi can see it clearly, speaking of which is just a matter of one sentence, just because these people are jealous of the rich and ashamed of the poor, so they don't come.This can be seen from the sacrifice of the thirtieth year of the Chinese New Year's Eve, and inviting them to visit is just a trip in vain.Shi Lao Taijun didn't move around much with these people, so even if there were only a few people from her family, it didn't affect her mood.She only cares about her own excitement, although these side branches are said to be a family, but except for sacrifices, they hardly move, but they don't have to take it to heart.R1152 is the fastest update, no pop-up window to read please.