"If you fall, you get up on your own, what's the use of crying" The boss Li Jing ran over happily with a string of sugar gourds, but he didn't pay attention to his feet and fell on his back.
The red and bright sugar gourd also fell to the ground and was stained with dust, and he fell to the ground sadly and cried.
As a result, the father Li Chao, who was sitting in front of him, didn't lift his buttocks, continued to look at the account book in his hand, and reprimanded him instead.
Li Jing cried even more sadly.
Zhao Siniang came over and wanted to pick him up.
Li Chao said, "Don't pick him up, don't hug him, let him get up by himself, you can't pamper him."
It's not a big deal to fall while walking, and it can't be broken.
If you fall down, don't hurry up and get up by yourself, wait for someone to hug me The Li family doesn't have such pampered rules, let him get up by himself. ” "He's just a kid."
Zhao Siniang said.
Li Chao knew that Zhao Siniang was usually the best for the children at home, and Li Jing and other little guys also liked this Aunt Zhao, but there were some things that could not be compromised.
"If you are used to them like this, then they will really become children who will never grow up, which is actually harmful to them.
My Li Chao's son, you can't be pampered, let's be a gentleman in the future."
The Thirteenth Company walked over and said to his son, who was still lying on the ground with a pair of small eyes but was looking around, "Did you hear your father's words, don't hurry up." ” Seeing that his own mother and Aunt Zhao Si, who loved him the most, did not come to help him, and his father looked so cold, in the end, Li Jing stopped crying and got up from the ground by himself.
Zhao Siniang went up, patted the dust on his body, and wiped his snot and tears for him with a handkerchief.
"Let's go, my aunt will bring you another rock sugar gourd" Cui Yingying waited for the two of them to go down and walked to Li Chao's side, "You, the child is only three years old, why are you murdering him like this."
If you want to teach him, take your time. ” Li Chao put down the account book in his hand and took Cui Yingying's hand to let him sit down.
In the blink of an eye, the child was three years old.
I'm out a lot, but I neglect it.
Now, the kids are not very close to me.
Of course, I would like to be closer to them, but I still have to teach them when I have to teach.
If the Son does not teach, the Father is guilty.
Although Jing'er is only three years old, they have begun to be sensible, and we can no longer blindly spoil them. ” "At this age, the child's character is growing, and how we teach him now, what kind of person he will become.
You don't want him to be an arrogant."
Thirteen Niang looked at Li Chao, "Is it as serious as you said?"
"Have you not heard that the children of the poor are in charge of the house at an early age, and why, because of the difficult conditions in the family, they are forced to become independent at an early age.
Although the conditions of our Li family are good, these children also have titles and fiefs, if there is no accident, they will live a good life for the rest of their lives.
However, if you don't have the ability, then the more things you give them, the more you will harm them.
The most important thing for us is to train them to become talents, even if they do not become great talents, they should be smart and sensible people, and they should be self-reliant and self-reliant.
Otherwise, no matter how big the family property is, they will not be able to keep it. ” Li Chao is also the first time for his parents, but after all, he is a person from later generations and knows the importance of education.
It's like a seemingly small thing like a child falling, but the different handling of parents will bring great difference to the child's character growth.
Some parents are accustomed to spoiling their children, seeing that their children fall, they immediately go to hug them, and even have to pat the ground a few times, and fall the child strangely.
What kind of message does this convey to the child?
The next time the child falls, he will lie there and wait for someone to pick him up.
He will take it for granted in his heart that it is the fault of the earth.
Slowly, the child's personality became crooked.
"Thirteen mothers, the children are growing up slowly, and education cannot be neglected.
It's time to set rules for them, and also set some rules for the people in the house, I know that you love children, and I also know that Siniang and they also spoil children, but pets are not love. ” "Let's start from the basics, although there are many servants in our family, self-reliance and self-improvement must be instilled in the children from an early age.
In the future, when the children in the family reach the age of three, they are no longer allowed to hold them, and let them walk on their own.
Also, you have to start teaching them how to dress and put on their shoes, and teach them to wash their faces and rinse their mouths.
Take your time, step by step, and eat by yourself. ” Li Chao doesn't want his son to grow up, not only does he not know the grain, but he can't even wear clothes.
"I went back and set a schedule for them, they had to wake up early in the morning, exercise, and then start reading.
Study five days a week and can take two days off.
Don't worry, I won't give them too much schoolwork, and I'll take my time. ” "Jing'er is only three years old, and he's still a child."
Cui Yingying frowned a little when she heard Li Chao's arrangement.
"I said that if you keep treating him as a child, then he will really always be a child.
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At the age of three, you can learn slowly, learn to read, read and count, and learn to be self-reliant.
I don't want my children to become prodigies who can write poetry at the age of three or four, but proper learning is needed. ” Three or four-year-old children will not be given too heavy homework, reading and literacy, learning to count, and enlightenment.
It's not about learning something, it's about starting to learn.
"Later, when I was at home, I would ask them to come and greet me every morning, and I would teach them personally for a while, and then check their schoolwork.
By the way, the girls in the family also have to learn. ” Cui Yingying nodded, "Your father is too strict, but I know that you are also good for the children, and I will pay attention to it in the future." ” "Those of you who are mothers, you should pay attention to caring for your children, don't turn love into pets."
"I know, you forgot that I came out of Qinghe Cui.
Our Cui family's family rules are much stricter than the Li family, and I will pay attention to them in the future. ” She looked at the ledger in front of Li Chao, "What's wrong, I see that you have turned over the ledger for a day today." ” "It's nothing, it's not the end of the year, and various industries have also begun to submit annual reports.
Many of our partners have changed this year, so this year's accounts are a bit more troublesome, and we have to make a detailed financial statement for the new partners, so that they can know their shares and know their earnings. ” Thirteen Niang asked, "It doesn't have any effect on us" She knew that many of the partners of the Li family had been beheaded, and the shares in the hands of those people were now in the hands of the imperial court.
"Thirteen Niang, I have an idea recently.
Over the years, our family has operated a lot of industries and many partners.
Now I think it's a bit too much, and I'm going to sell some of the properties. ” "Why do you transfer it, we are not short of money."
Cui Yingying was puzzled.
"It's not all about transferring cash, I'm planning to replace.
For example, we give our soap and soap industry to the Cui family, and then convert the share of perfume in the Cui family's hands.
In this way, we replace some industries that are not too important, and then increase the share of some industries. ” Cui Yingying thought for a while, and she said while kneading her husband's shoulder, "I don't understand what you said, but I don't think it's necessary."
At the beginning, we were looking for people to partner in these industries, and we were not short of capital, but we still considered Dora people to partner, so that we had a wider network, and at the same time, we could make money together and have an alliance.
Only when we make money together can we advance and retreat together. ” "Hahaha, madam, you're right, I'm thinking about it for a while.
Well, just keep it like this.
Li Chao said with a smile.
The Li family now operates a huge industry, some of which are completely exclusive, and there are many partnerships with others.
Money villages, pawnshops are also used for mansions, trading houses, trade fleets, caravans, etc., in addition to the processing and manufacturing industry is also very large, tea-making, wine-making, and even steel and copper, shipbuilding and car manufacturing involve all aspects.
Originally, Li Chao still thought about replacing it, focusing on a few projects, and giving the rest to others.
But now that I think about it, it doesn't seem necessary. t1706231537: