Someone left a message soon, and there was a woman named Feminist Struggler under Li Yifei's article, writing: "Veteran, I am a rational woman, I think what you said makes sense, and what I want to say is that the woman you hang up, she is not a standard feminist, she is an egoist, what she says and does is contrary to the spirit of feminism, such a person, we will also attack, you also said, the country is developing too fast, resulting in material and spiritual imbalance, As for the bride price, the house and the car you pointed out, I didn't do this kind of thing, when I got married to my husband, there was nothing, the two worked for two years and saved up the down payment, and now they have a house in the capital, I believe that the two really love each other, and both work hard and fight for the future, then the life will not be too bad" This feminist's message was liked by many people, quickly topped, and also commented on by many people.
There is also a male message: "I don't know where these people come from these prejudices, on our side, yes, I'm a Northeasterner, the girls on our side are just bullish, not to mention that after marriage, before marriage, they all listen to their girlfriends, and the money they earn after marriage is given to their girlfriends, and she is in charge of everything, we call this a painful daughter-in-law, not to mention doing it, I usually scold it, now our child is three years old, my mother and her mother have come to take care of it, this is the old man to help us, they have no obligation to take care of the child, My daughter-in-law and I are very grateful to the old people on both sides, I don't know if this is not respect for women, then what is the reason for the gender of men and women, there are natural differences in physiology, men have men grow, women have women grow, why do you have to advocate equality, it is not equal, not to mention men and women, there is no absolute equality in this society, I think we just be a normal person, just find a normal person, the buddies around me are like this, no one doesn't love their wives, this is not decades ago, Everyone is now a college graduate, educated and thoughtful, how can they still do things like our ancestors and fathers. ” This one was also liked, and it reached more than 10,000 in a short period of time, Li Yifei also took a look, many of them still agreed, the Li family is too unique in composition, so it can't be used as an example, but there are many examples in life, in general, if you fall in love with a normal person, marry or marry a normal person, life will not be messy, so everyone just be a normal person, why bother grandstanding, real power fighters, will not talk about these things all day long, Most of morality is used to restrain oneself, not others, and he also gives a thumbs up to each of them.
Similarly, I also saw a lot of abuse, these abuses, Li Yifei did not hand them over to Chu Xiaoyao to investigate, these are two things, for such a sensitive matter, different people have different understandings, and their own views are different, it is simply normal, so there is no need to scold people, different points of view, then hold different views.
A person left a message: "A veteran with such a background, such a growth, can do this, it is not easy to say these words, everyone think about it, what is even more admirable is that he can take out this matter, say it, for everyone to discuss, this is even more difficult, you must know that this is a big V with more than 10 million fans, equivalent to a public figure, so how difficult it is for him, I am a woman, not beautiful, an ordinary person, there are inconveniences in life, and there are conveniences, I can't because of inconveniences, Just resent others, it's not that I'm weak, I make sense, I'm right, I'm weak, I first have to think about why I'm so weak, is there a way to change, strengthen, make myself not weak, instead of putting my hands on my waist, shouting to the people around me that I'm a woman, you should let me, I'm a weak person, you have to let me, people who think like this are terrible, they or they have blurred the rights and wrongs of many things, if this kind of person is not an egoist, then what kind of person is still " There are also some people who have cited evidence of the things around them, and many of them are also emotional, generally speaking, most people are still very normal, upholding that since they want rights, they must pay obligations first, and many men are also concerned about the account calculated by Li Yifei, because that is the biggest reality.
A man said: "Many women say that they want to have equal rights with men and fight for their rights, but in the matter of marriage, they have become weak, and even the party persecuted by marriage, so they want a house, a car, a signature, a bride price, and a lot of things, such a person, what kind of power fighter, isn't this also the most direct egoist I am a man, from my point of view, I am the same as a veteran, because I am a man, so I am willing to earn more, work harder, In order to make my wife and children more comfortable, this is what I pay for this family, and I also hope that my future wife can see this, at least feel sorry for me, right, is this too much to ask for, is this disrespectful to women?"
There is also a man who said: "Human nature is evil, whether it is a man or a woman, it is the education of the day after tomorrow, the constraints of all aspects, let us be like a normal person, so I think it is more important to work hard to improve yourself, the so-called build a plane tree, attract the phoenix, the majority of male compatriots, of course, including female friends, if you feel that your other half, how not to meet the standard, then you had better examine yourself, is it the same as yourself, there is a way is not a family, do not enter a family, you are insufficient, But ask the other party how to be, this is also unfair, isn't there a sentence in the dream of Red Mansions, saying that the heart is higher than the sky, life is thinner than paper, if men and women fall to this point, it is also quite miserable, in the end, efforts may not be successful, but if you don't work hard, ordinary people want to succeed, just like the frog at the bottom of the well lying at the bottom of the hole longing for a white swan to fall from the sky, even if it can fall, are you not afraid of being stoned to death?"
Li Yifei didn't expect that his Weibo was even more popular than the previous candid shooting incident, and it really caused a wide range of discussions, when everyone ate together in the evening, even several women mentioned this matter, they usually go online, brush up on entertainment news, brush up on cute animal pets, brush funny videos or something, naturally saw this discussion, and also added heat.
In Su Mengxin's words: "After the end of the matrilineal clan, Huaxia has entered a patriarchal society for thousands of years, or a patriarchal society, which is inevitable, because the fertility problem is no longer the biggest test of survival, then survival and expansion of territory, food is the test, men have become the dominant players in this area because of their natural physical advantages, over the years, Huaxia has undergone great changes, we should see clearly, these changes are in a good direction, the most fundamental reason for the change, is because of culture, If you go to a forum with a relatively high level of education, you will find that the views of men and women on rights and obligations seem to be more appropriate, while ordinary people will not think too much about this, but it does not mean that they do not respect women, or that they have such a stereotyped consciousness on how to do it, it is simply a manifestation of ignorance."
"That's it, the girls in our school, it's just a man's hard work to catch up, so it's really unnecessary to say anything about male and female rights, our family never mentions this matter, isn't my husband also very good to us."
Chu Xiaoyao said while nibbling on a piece of meat and competing with it.
"In fact, it is a good thing to be able to cause discussion, just this house has crushed many families, can they save a million in their lifetime, especially ordinary families in China, they only have the habit of saving, but not the habit of investing, with the interest rate of the bank, even if there is a million, it will not get much interest, and it will not even catch up with the speed of inflation, the child will get married, and suddenly it will be gone, there is pension insurance, and the retirement salary is good, if not, it is simply old and helpless, if the son and daughter-in-law are like that, there is still a settlement in old age, If the children can't be counted on, don't you say that this is tantamount to ruining their hopes in advance" It was Su Yiyi who spoke, among some of her relatives in the family, there were like this, and she even came to her recently, because the son of the relative got married, and the continued spending was empty, and the old couple had no ability to survive, you said that you went out to work, people in their sixties, where are you willing to want it, especially the house is gone, and she sold it to her son to make money to buy a wedding house, and her daughter-in-law promised to live with her parents, and after getting married, she changed her hexagram, Kicked out the old couple alive, they could only rent a house temporarily, and the son had no ability, and couldn't come up with the money, the old couple had no choice in the end, and begged her father to come, and the old man had nothing to do, you said to give the money directly, the old couple didn't have the ability to survive, how much money could be given, not to mention, giving them money, it is estimated that it would fall into the hands of his son in the end, so this kind of thing finally came to Su Yiyi.
She has so many feelings, because this kind of thing never happens in the Li family, this is her luck, but many people will be unlucky.
"Yes, this is just a small city like ours, if it is in a provincial capital, there are many places where the house price is 10,000 to 20,000, and 100 square meters is one or two million, but the salary is not high, which is equivalent to ordinary people for a lifetime, buy a house, the house is not returned for a few years, the child is born, and the education of the child is the most direct and fundamental problem."
He Fangqing said with a sigh. t1706231537: