Tang Li, who was dropped out of school, did not get the comfort of her family, but received all kinds of insults, scolding her for not loving herself, not being motivated, not studying hard, feeling ashamed of her, and locking her up.Tang Li, who had been locked up for a few days, suddenly appeared at the school one day, then stood on the roof of the school, jumped off the school and committed suicide by jumping off the building, which attracted the attention of many people in the society.In the hands of reporter Duo Tangli's family, they got a suicide note!
It says the whole thing about the incident.On the first day of high school admission, Tang Li and Yao Yu became table mates and soon became best friends, Tang Li was ten points higher than Yao Yu in the first monthly exam, eight points higher in the second monthly exam, and nine points higher in the third month, until the middle of the exam, Tang Li found Yao Yu's estrangement from her; She asked Yao Yu if she had her off?
As a result, Yao Yu glared at Tang Li and roared: "Tang Li, you deliberately press me a few points every time you take the exam, just rank in front of me, now even the boy I like, you have to rob it, you are too much."
You're just a little pretty, a little bigger, why do you seduce people everywhere, I tell you, I won't let you have a good time, I will help you ruin all this you get. ”At that time, Tang Li was confused, she had always regarded Yao Yu as a good friend, she had never been a competitor, and she had never liked boys, Yao Yu said that the boy who was the first in the class in the class, Tang Li never said a word to the other party.Then there was this quarrel with Yao Yu, and Tang Li's life really began to change dramatically.Yao Yu, who was at the same table, stopped talking to her.Those female classmates who played well with Yao Yu looked at her with strange eyes from time to time.Later, from time to time, he teased Tang Li, verbal attacks, and action attacks, which became more and more serious every time.Tang Li told her family that her family was playing with her as those classmates, and only let her study hard; Tang Li reported to the teacher, and the teacher said a few times in the class, Tang Li would suffer more severe retaliation; In the end, the only teacher who was kind to Tang Li, paid attention to her, and encouraged her was also dismissed by the school.There are all kinds of unbearable rumors about her in the school, but because of the jealousy of Yao Yu at the same table, she made up so many insulting words, and what made Tang Li even more desperate was that those classmates who listened to it and believed it and spread false rumors were disappointed; Obviously, she sat in the same classroom every day, and didn't do anything else except attend classes and study.But he was blamed, abused, and beaten violently by Tang Li's suicide note to restore the truth of the whole matter, which was published by reporters, and the whole society is discussing this matter, and several of them are worthy of everyone's attention.First, that is, parents, is the children's academic performance more important than the children themselves?
Second, did Tang Li's initial concession and forbearance boost the hearts of those students who did evil, and was Tang Li herself wrong?
Third, the jealousy of Yao Yu, the girl at the same table, can cause so much damage, jealousy cannot be ignored.Fourth, the damage of public opinion and language through false rumors and excessive discussions is sometimes even more serious than the damage caused by a knife.Fifth, school violence seems to be happening all the time, but it has never been taken seriously by everyone and the school, which is worth paying attention to.Sixth, when girls or women face their own false insults, slanders, and even behavioral violence, how should they take measures to protect themselves?
Resist or fight back?
Or is there anyone who is willing to believe in you and is willing to be by your side all the time to support you and insist on cheering?
All of this is worth thinking about.Not when everything happens, you still have the time and opportunity to resist, to refute, to fight back.is like Tang Li, after the incident, the family didn't believe her, and even felt that she was ashamed and locked her up, is it really Tang Li's fault?
At the end of Tang Li's suicide note, there are three consecutive self-questions from the soul: Is it my fault to excel in learning?
Is it my fault that I'm pretty?
Is it my fault to ignore each other?