At this time, Kong Dejing did not have the strong temperament of the past, and looked like he was slaughtered by others and bowed his head to accept his fate, although Kong Dejing's head was covered with the eldest lady of the Kong family, the most holy Confucianism and Taoism, and the most outstanding young son of the Kong family's generation, but it was all in vain, in the interests of the family, These halos have become bullshit, and sacrificing for the interests of the family is what she must do.
Throughout the ages, the fate of women has always been inautonomous, marrying from their husbands, and following their fathers at home, even if the queen of the generation who ascended to the top hundreds of years ago had to lower her high head before the age of forty, and struggled for decades to step on top of ten thousand people, but for thousands of years There is only such an empress in China's history.
The vast majority of women have to admit defeat under the shackles of fate.
Kong Dejing looked back at Kong Deru who was standing lonely in the corner behind the crowd, and remembered a sentence for no reason, there must be gains and losses, and if you lose your horse, you don't know if you are blessed, maybe Kong Deru lost his status in the Kong family, but he has obtained a free identity accordingly, at least Kong Deru is self-conscious You can have the right to dominate your own emotional belonging, and the Kong family will not interfere with a waste person's marriage, but she can't.
Marriage is a problem that all big families must face, from emperors and princes to high-ranking officials and rich people, in the eyes of these people, marriage is an indispensable means to maintain the development and growth of the family Princess Cheng sent it to Songtsan Gampo, saying that it was for the country's major affairs, but it was not for the world of the Li family's dynasty, the Kong family is now low-key, but for the family's next hundred or even millennium plans, she has to use her, the eldest lady of the Kong family, to maintain.
The matter of marriage with the Shen family has been put on the agenda many years ago, but at that time Shen Linfeng had been studying abroad, and he and Kong Dejing were still young, so the marriage had been shelved In the end, big things are still on the agenda.
Looking at her daughter's grievances and grievances, Kong Dejing's mother said in a consoling tone: "Jing'er, aside from your identity as the eldest lady of the Kong family, feelings have always been difficult to achieve.
Before I married your father, we hadn't even met, but do you think I don't respect your father like a guest now, who dares to say that we don't love each other?
Child, look at it, it is impossible for you to choose your wedding cigarette freely, but we can check it for you well, find a young talent who matches you, we still know Shen Linfeng's reputation, in addition to his identity as the eldest son of the Shen family, he studied abroad alone and won a degree in Massachusetts, and he alone contributed to the expansion of the overseas Shen family's business, but in terms of talent and knowledge, this is outstanding, and he doesn't seem to have any bad evaluation.
I heard that the ladies chasing after Shen Dagongzi seem to be quite unpleasant Less, but he has always been very clean and self-conscious, who can say a word about such a person worthy of you?
Not to mention ······" Kong Dejing's mother whispered in her ear: "What's more, you don't have a man in your heart now, and we didn't do anything to beat the mandarin ducks when we let you marry the Shen family, right?"
"Don't have a heart?"
Mother's words made Kong Dejing's body tremble suddenly, her emotional world has been a blank sheet of paper for more than 20 years, and no man has ever walked into her inner world, but at this time, a figure suddenly appeared in Kong Dejing's head, A ripple rippled in my heart.
In a cave that was about to collapse, when his life was in danger, a man suddenly appeared and sent her out of the cave, but he himself was left at the last moment, and he didn't know whether he was alive or dead.
This figure has been entangled in Kong Dejing's heart since she got out of trouble, lingering.
Women's emotions have always been complex and weird, and they are listed as a worldwide problem, because you can't predict under what circumstances a woman will have feelings for a man, maybe just inadvertently looking back, or passing by, or some It may be that the heartstrings were tugged at under the sharing of tribulation.
Love is like a gust of wind, it comes when it is said.
Over there, Mr.
Kong Da had already finished greeting the father and son of the Shen family, and the two sides began to enter the living room of the Confucian Mansion, perhaps seeing Kong Dejing who was left behind, Kong Deru also slowed down a few steps, and then walked to her side.
"You are now the stars holding the moon" Kong Deru sighed, his tone was bleak, complicated and helpless.
Kong Dejing patted him lightly on the shoulder, and said softly: "Brother, there was a moment just now when I was actually envious of you, although I was picked up, but at the same time I lost a lot, if I had to choose, I would rather be in your position now, I am just a woman."
It's just a person, the most important life is to teach my husband and children to be family-oriented, but once the marriage is completed, I can only become an exchange tool for family interests, and I will ······ for the rest of my life."
Kong Deru sighed, shook his head and said nothing, at this time, Shen Linfeng also slowed down, walked between the two of them and said hello very respectfully, and then said to Kong Dejing: "The matter between the Kong Mansion and the Shen family, let them discuss it, let's go over there for a walk?"
From the first time Shen Linfeng spoke, it can be seen that this is a very independent man with a very distinct personality, it stands to reason that at this time, he and Kong Dejing should follow Kong and Shen into the reception room to sit on the side and listen, but Shen Linfeng seems to be talking about something inside Points are not interested.
Kong Deru smiled faintly and then left, Kong Dejing hesitated and nodded, and said: "Okay" Kong Dejing and Shen Linfeng were originally two parallel lines that could not intersect, each with its own life trajectory and different circles, but because of the marriage of the Kong and Shen families, they were fused together, if everything went well, they would become one who respected each other after a while to couples.
The two people who were supposed to be married walked together but described strange roads, on the mountain road, the two walked side by side not far apart, and no one spoke after a long silence.
At this time, Xiang Que was walking in the direction of the Confucian Mansion on the top of the mountain, and he was only a few hundred meters away from Kong Dejing and Shen Linfeng.