Chapter 636 If she meets someone who doesn't give her face, she won't be tactful, but will point out her mistakes harshly and bluntly, her psychological tolerance is poor, and she will do stupid things if she can't accept it all at once.Nowadays, many young children will commit suicide after facing criticism from teachers or parents, because their psychological tolerance is too poor to get out of the predicament on their own, resulting in negative psychology and then tragedy.Zhang Xiao glanced at Mu Chen.Mu Chen understood what she meant, and immediately said goodbye to the Zhao family, and left with his wife and daughter first, Zhao Ziru had her own car, but she didn't have to worry.In the car, Mu Ya was still crying, looking very aggrieved.Zhang Xiao took a tissue to help her wipe her tears and snot, she immediately grabbed Zhang Xiao's arm and helped Zhang Xiao's arm to get up, hugged Zhang Xiao's neck, and called softly: "Mom." ”Zhang Xiao hugged her and asked softly, "Do you think that your cousin calls you a chubby girl, do you feel embarrassed?"
”Mu Ya couldn't understand the meaning of embarrassment, but she could understand that Zhang Xiao was saying that she was in a mood, she let go of the hands that were holding Zhang Xiao's neck, sat back on Zhang Xiao's lap, and looked at Zhang Xiao with red eyes."
Mu Ya is indeed fat, and she can also be said to be a chubby girl, this is a fact."
Zhang Xiao said very seriously: "Mom has already helped you adjust your diet, as long as it is properly controlled, as Mu Ya grows taller, Mu Ya will not continue to be fat, now Mu Ya is a chubby girl, fortunately, Mu Ya's height is also powerful, and she still looks very cute." ”Mu Ya just blinked, indicating that she didn't understand.Mu Chen was driving in front, and at this time he said with a smile: "Xiao Douding also knows Aimei." ”"Everyone knows the love of beauty, and so do children."
After Zhang Xiao said a word to Mu Chen, he touched Mu Ya's head lovingly, and said lovingly: "Mu Ya, no matter who likes to listen to good words, my mother is no exception, but we are not RMB, and it is impossible for everyone to love us." ”Mu Ya can't even be scolded now."
No matter how good a person is or how good he is, there will be people who think he is not good, and a thousand people have a thousand opinions.Mu Ya is a little fatter, in our eyes, Mu Ya is still cute, in the eyes of others, Mu Ya may be a little chubby girl, and some people like chubby children, they will think that Mu Ya looks very good now. ”If it weren't for Mu Ya's health, Zhang Xiao would like chubby children very much.Mu Ya couldn't understand the meaning of Zhang Xiao's words, but she knew that it was her mother who was reasoning with her."
Besides, everyone has their own strengths and weaknesses, and others tend to dislike our shortcomings, and it's normal to talk about our shortcomings.We can't bear it just because someone else picks a fact, after all, it is a fact, if it is false, we can still be angry, we can argue, it is a fact, even if it is not good, we must face it calmly. ”People live for a lifetime, they will face thousands of people with different personalities and different levels, who will not be said and scolded by others?
Zhang Xiao has been scolded by many people for being a perfect person, some people like you, some people hate you, when you hate others, others also hate you.When faced with other people's scolding, she will first be reasonable, strive for the understanding of others, and when it doesn't make sense, she chooses to ignore it, so as not to get angry with her body.After all, her mouth grows on others, and she can't help it if others want to scold, if she keeps responding, maybe others will scold even more, and it will be endless."
Muya, you have to remember that the only people who can tolerate everything about you are your parents, society is cruel, don't think that others will tolerate everything you do like your parents.Therefore, you have to learn to be strong, you have to learn to face the cruelty of reality, and you can't cry endlessly because of a little thing. ”"Xiao'er, Mu Ya still doesn't understand."
Mu Chen turned his head to look at the mother and daughter in the back seat of the car, and said, "But it's okay to remind her at all times." ”Zhang Xiao touched Mu Ya's head, "It's not just a reminder, she has to survive in a harsh environment before she can slowly understand it."
Talking on paper is not an ideal tactic of warfare. ”"Don't leave Muya anywhere, she's too young."
Mu Chen was taken aback by his beloved wife's words, his daughter was a young lady, and if she was really thrown into a harsh environment to survive, he would be distressed to death.Zhang Xiao smiled, "Don't worry, I will use my method to make Mu Ya slowly adapt to the negative influence." ”Mu Chen believed that she would not be willing to really throw Mu Ya somewhere, so she put her mind at ease and said with a smile: "Actually, when we were children, we were also sent to live in a harsh environment for a period of time, when my grandparents were still alive, they said that let the three brothers experience the harsh environment, and we will cherish everything we have more." ”"They have a long-term vision, for the sake of Mu's future plans, if you Mu's successors, don't know how to cherish it, it's not a good thing for Mu's.""
I think my grandparents are taking precautions, for fear that the Mu family will go out of business one day, the Mu family will be poor and white, and we, the young masters who were born with a golden spoon, will not be able to survive, let us experience the harsh environment first, one is to let us learn to cherish, and the other is to think that even if the Mu family goes out of business, we will not feel that the sky has fallen, and we can still survive in adversity."
Zhang Xiao nodded in agreement with Mu Chen's analysis.The business sea is up and down, and no one dares to guarantee that their company will never go bankrupt."
If my grandparents were still alive, they would definitely love you as much as their lives, and you have a lot in common."
Mu Chen sighed, but unfortunately his grandparents died when he was eight years old, and they didn't live until now waiting for him to marry Zhang Xiao."
I'll hurt you too."
Mu Chen added.Zhang Xiao smiled, sensing that Mu Ya was starting to get drowsy, so he let Mu Ya fall asleep with her arm on her pillow, "Except for abusing me in something, you treat me well at other times." ”The couple did not fall in love, they went directly to get married, she knew that Mu Chen was very good to her, and his goodness was not on his lips, but slowly realized.Mu Chen smiled, "No way, I gave Mu Ya a sum of money, and she agreed to lend her mother to me to give birth to a baby, I naturally have to hurry up and work hard to create people, Mu Ya has been noisy to ask for a brother." ”Zhang Xiao's face flushed, "Mu Yaxiao is not sensible, aren't you sensible, no matter how you give birth, you can't give birth to an older brother." ”Mu Chen smiled: "Let's give Mu Ya a younger brother, and my sister can too." ”"If you want to give birth to yourself, I don't want to give birth now, Mu Ya is still young, my energy is just right to focus on Mu Ya, and I don't have so much energy to take care of one more child."