Ming'er wanted to play for a while, but he didn't understand people's eyes, and after seeing his younger brother's unhappy face, he could only sulk.Lunch is very rich, let's learn foreign customs, make a buffet, and take whatever you want to eat.Ming'er, Zhi'er and Tiantian were hungry, so they ate their favorite food seriously after taking it.The host also said hello to everyone, and then started moving.Xiao Gang arrived to find Ming'er and them to play together, but he was detained by his mother, so he could only be a little adult there and chat with the adults.Father Feng was very open-minded, he should eat, drink, and fill his and his daughter's stomachs first.Feng's mother was very unhappy in her heart, but she could still bear it, but she would not deal with these people again in the future.After eating and drinking, Lotus said goodbye to Wu Zhaowan and his two sons to the master's family.Ming'er and Zhi'er were unhappy, and they snorted at him when they met Xiaogang.Xiaogang's parents frowned, a little unhappy, but they also sent each other with a smile on their faces.Father Feng did the same, and left Xiaogang's house.Four people and three children, as soon as they got out of Xiaogang's villa, they talked and laughed all the way to the road.And Tiantian, this little girl is really happy, at least much cuter than that little love.Fortunately, Ming'er, Zhi'er and Tiantian have a good relationship, and there was a lot of laughter along the way."
Alas, I will never let my child participate in such a classmate's birthday in the future, it is too realistic and not good for my child's growth."
Walking on the road, Feng Mu said with a worried face.Lotus agrees very much, such differential treatment is a big blow to children.It also confirms the character of the family, Xiaogang is still young, and he can't prove anything, but this Xiaogang's parents have to pay respect."
No, forget it, the children are still young, so don't participate in this kind of thing in the future."
Lotus's face was full of agreement.If you hold such a party at home, you won't be able to take care of it all, but at least you won't be able to do this kind of categorical thing.Ming'er and Zhi'er don't have as many things as Lei'er, and they are not as mature as Lei'er in their thinking, and facing today's differential treatment will only make them feel sad.But sadness can be smoothed over time, but low self-esteem may not be cured, and it has not reached the point where children have low self-esteem.But if you learn to be disrespectful when you are young, you can really teach the roots.The current rich and poor are just earned by the elders, so what can they show off?
If you earn it yourself, you will have all the face, and you don't need to whisper to please anyone.Of course, everyone has their own life, everyone has their own choice, Lotus does not force others, but her own children, she hopes that they know how to respect others.She herself has suffered and knows what it feels like to be looked down upon and disliked.After separating from the Feng family, Ming'er and Zhi'er could no longer hold back the resentment of being abandoned by their good friends."
Mom, I won't play with Xiaogang anymore, their family is too bad."
Zhi'er can see a little bit of a sprout.Ming'er thought simply, "That's it, Mom, Xiaogang didn't talk to me later, he was not good, and I won't play with him in the future." ”Life in school is simple, and the teacher doesn't treat the children differently because of how your family is.But when you go to someone else's house, to put it mildly, it is the real world, and it is no longer a fairy tale kingdom for children.The kingdom is full of dreams and beauty.In reality, there are sweet and sour, as well as oil, rice, sauce, vinegar and tea.Looking at the changes in the two sons, Lianhua sighed and looked at Zhao, this thing to teach his son should be taught to him, he will do better than himself.Wu Zhaowan smiled and took the children's hands, "Let's go, let's go back to Grandma and them early, they must miss you very much." ”No matter what, standing on the side of the road and saying that it is good, you can only go home first.On the way back, Lotus couldn't help but ask Ming'er if he liked the little girl named Xiaoqing, but who knows, Ming'er said that Xiaoqing is ugly.Lotus is square at once, although she doesn't like Xiaoqing's proud temperament very much, and mature snobbery, but in terms of appearance, Xiaoqing is really good.How did he get to his son and become ugly?"
Don't you like her very much?"
Lotus is very intellectually curious."
I like her to play the piano because I heard her play the piano once in school, and she wasn't too ugly when she played the piano."
Yes, the eyes of the children Lotus can not agree.When I returned home, everyone was a little surprised to see them come back so early.Grandma Wu is a person who feels sorry for the child, and when she saw her great-grandson with a trace of unhappiness on his face, she immediately hugged the person into her arms."
What's wrong with Ming'er?
Having fun today?
”Grandma Wu was holding Ming'er in her arms.Grandma Zhou pulled Zhi'er into her arms and began to ask about the children.Lianhua and Wu Zhaodui didn't interject, and let the children express themselves.But what is rare is that today Bai Zongtang was at home, and Lianhua told him about the Feng family's father.After hearing this, Bai Zongtang directly took Lotus and Wu Zhaowan to the study on the second floor."
What you say is true?
If it's true, then Shi Gu will solve your Uncle Zheng's big problem. ”Bai Zongtang said excitedly.Recently, I haven't been able to get past the leader's door, isn't it because their drawings have not satisfied the leader, but they are all self-made people, and there are such talents in the division, but they are not much better.If Father Feng really has this ability and is still working in the state unit, then it would be great to be able to invite him.It's not that they haven't thought about it that way, it's just that it's harder to meet those engineers.It is impossible for private bosses to have too much contact with national talents.Speaking of which, talents are rare.Lianhua smiled, "Well, listening to the conversation between their husband and wife, I think that Brother Feng is a talent, but it seems that he has been squeezed in the unit, if you want to take down this person, Dad, you can put some money." ”is excluded again, but in the end, it is a state unit, and it is better to provide for the elderly in it.Of course, those who have goals or dreams will definitely take a higher path.Father Feng is not for himself, for his own family, he will make the most correct choice."
Haha, I'm not afraid of high conditions, I'm afraid that they don't have conditions."
How many dealings have been made, Bai Zongtang is very clear about the door.I'm not afraid that you won't be moved, I'm afraid that your heart won't move."
That's a good relationship, I think Brother Feng's family is pretty good."
Wu Zhaowan said with a smile.Hearing Xiao Dui's words, Bai Zongtang was even happier, "In this way, didn't you make an appointment to meet tomorrow, so let's go, I'll go with you tomorrow." ”Bai Zongtang was a little anxious.The land has been in hand for so long, and it has been dragged out without construction, that is, the drawings cannot pass.begged Dad to tell Grandma that he didn't know how much money it spent, but he was just a kick in the door, how could he not be in a hurry."
Well, it's not good."
Lotus was a little panicked: "I haven't even told Brother Feng about you yet." ”"What does it matter, I'm not an outsider, I'm your son, haha, it's decided, I'll go with you tomorrow."
Bai Zongtang was very excited.After making a decision, he hurriedly invited his baby daughter and son-in-law out, and he had to give Lao Zheng a breath.They're stuck here, and they can't afford to delay any longer.Originally, I wanted to invite the big engineer who came back to China, but let alone meet, I couldn't even inquire about the letter.Lotus was speechless, looking at the closed door, she said with a confused face: "Zhao, am I being disgusted by my father?"
”His face was full of disbelief.Wu Zhaowan touched his nose and smiled, "Maybe, maybe, probably, yes." ”With that, he turned around and ran downstairs.You have to find someone to be a backer.Lotus is blind, she will be disgusted by her father one day, "It's really a matter of using people to face forward, not to face back." ”After muttering a word, Lotus also smiled and went downstairs.Now that the whole family lives together, the laughter and laughter are not comparable to other people's homes.Xiao Hai is not teasing Zhi'er anymore, he almost didn't tease him.The old people watched the play one by one, and they were really happy like fairies.Compared with the liveliness of the Bai family, Xiao Gang's house is another scene."
Xiaogang, what are Ming'er and Zhi'er's family doing?"
The gifts given by the little ones are light, and they don't take them seriously.It's all children, what valuable things can be sent.But the greeting gifts from these adults are incredible.Let's not talk about those good conditions, just this piece of safety buckle sent by Wu Zheming and Wu Zhezhi's parents, not to mention how high the value is, but the friendship of classmates is not worth the price of this safety buckle.Thinking about it, the family that can come up with such a valuable meeting gift will not be bad if they want to come to the family.Therefore, Zhu Xiaogang's father was shocked by this peace buckle.He himself is also in business, and his ancestors have left a lot of good things, including jade and the like, and his father is still there, and he has seen a lot of the world since he was a child.Where can I not recognize the value of things.If it weren't for that, he wouldn't have this family business.Xiao Gang said angrily: "Hmph, you are bad people, you bully my friends, Mom and Dad, I don't like you anymore." ”Xiaogang, this kid, really regards Ming'er and Zhi'er as friends.During the meal, he wanted to go to Ming'er and Zhi'er to play, but he was pulled by his mother to chat with those uncles and aunts, and he couldn't help it.But why didn't Ming'er tell himself when they left, and let him go upstairs with his lover.When he came down, he found that Ming'er and Zhi'er and Tiantian were gone, woo, Ming'er and Zhi'er didn't like him anymore.Thinking of this, Xiao Gang burst into tears.The cake hasn't been cut yet, and they will leave tomorrow, proving that they don't like themselves, Xiao Gang is called a grievance in his heart.No, at night, Mom and Dad mentioned Ming'er and Zhi'er again, of course Xiaogang has a temper."
You child, if your mother asks you, you should first tell your mother what their parents do." ”Xiaogang's mother baby this son is very much, although she feels distressed when she sees him crying, it is more serious.If you offend someone who shouldn't be offended today, I'm afraid that there will be a lot of trouble.This is also the reason why the Zhu family can do such a big business, just because they are careful and sharp-eyed.Unexpectedly, a birthday party for his son actually made them slap their eyes.Father Zhu also looked serious, "Say it quickly." ”It's a roar at such a son.Xiao Gang was crying, but when he heard his father's roar, he stopped crying, and hid in his mother's arms with a frightened face."
Ming'er told Zhi'er that their parents work in Kyoto, and they seem to be in the army."
Where do you care about these things on weekdays?
If it weren't for the good relationship, he often played together on weekdays, and he wouldn't know this.Every time they see that it is the wives who come to pick up the children, or the uncles and grandparents, they will ask Ming'er and Zhi'er's parents.Only then did I learn that their parents worked in Kyoto.Zhu's father and Zhu's mother glanced at each other, and they both saw surprise and fright in each other's eyes.Today's events are just afraid that others will think too much.The piece of safety buckle on the coffee table is not accepted by them, nor is it if they do not accept it.What a headache."
Forget it, prepare a gift one day, let Xiaogang accompany those two children, right?"
Dad Zhu also knows that this kind of person is not something they can talk to.Hearing the gift to Ming'er and Zhi'er, Xiao Gang immediately laughed, "I'll give it, I'll give it." ”Seeing his son's face change so quickly, Zhu's father sighed, "Let the children contact it themselves." ”After speaking, Zhu's father went upstairs.Zhu's mother also took her son upstairs to take a bath and sleep.This is all off-topic, back to business, Feng's father returned home and asked about his daughter Ming'er and Zhi'er's parents.But Tian Tian knows even less, and she doesn't usually ask about it.Because everyone else is picked up by their parents, only Ming'er and Zhi'er are picked up by the elderly at home.At first, everyone thought that Ming'er and Zhi'er didn't have parents, so Ming'er and Zhi'er didn't know how many people they had fought with at school.Later, it was their elder brother who called the teacher to explain, so that the children in the class did not explain that Er and Zhi'er were wild children without parents and no parents."
They're at work."
Tian Tian said innocently.At work, Father Feng touched his daughter's head with a smile, "Thank you Tiantian, go upstairs and rest." ”】If you can't ask, you won't ask, and they will tell you tomorrow.Mother Feng wanted to ask more, but was interrupted by Father Feng and asked her to take the child upstairs to rest.At night, when the two were in bed, Feng's mother asked about Feng's father's unit again.She herself is also in the state unit, but her work is not very busy, she is very idle, her salary is not bad, and she has no ambition to climb up.So I've been going to work safely."
What if they do get you?"
Feng's mother was worried about her man.Feng's father's name is Feng Zhanpeng, and he has been working in a public institution for almost seven or eight years, but because of his own reasons, he didn't marry his daughter-in-law until he was twenty-five or six, and his daughter-in-law was in poor health, so it was very difficult to have such a daughter.He is now alone, he is very satisfied with having a daughter, and the couple's small life is also prosperous.In addition, he is not bad at work, has strong ability, and is a strong player in design.It's just that because of his birth, he has been ostracized by others in the unit.These are all trivial things, and patience will pass.But now, the child of the previous leader has returned to China, and he is also studying architectural design, and he is in the way of others.No, he's cleaning him up.I almost threw him out like garbage.()