726 Swimming (Fanwai 24) Collection 4484—97.7.19W6 Yan Hong came over to Xiaofang to explain that she would leave at 9 o'clock in the morning, so she immediately asked Xiaoyan to help prepare the clothes to be brought for swimming tomorrow, and she continued to accompany her son to endorse.After accompanying her son to complete today's half-hour plan, she felt more tired today than any other day, and seemed to feel exhausted."
Xiaoyan, you take Pan Jia to sleep first.""
Mom, I'm going to sleep with you today."
Pan Jia refused to go with Xiaoyan, and his reason was very good: "I memorized everything today, and my father still works the night shift." ”Yan Hong tried her best to suppress the irritability surging in her heart, and patiently said to her son, "Baby, mom hasn't read her book tonight."
It's okay if you want to sleep with your mother, you have to go to sleep by yourself, and your mother can't sleep until she finishes reading a book. ”Pan Jia nodded, it would be good to go to the big bed to sleep.He said sensibly, "Mom, you should go to bed early."
Grandma said that she slept late and had wrinkles. ”The former sentence made Yan Hong pleased, and the latter sentence made Yan Hong angry.She waved her hand and asked Xiaoyan to take the child away quickly, and her mouth was still competing with her son: "Your mother and I won't have wrinkles." ”When the sound of the master bedroom was gone, Yan Hong looked at the spread out book but couldn't read it.The idea that Pan Jia was not as good as Mu Yu came up again.It made her flustered.It's so much worse before I go to school, what can I do in the future?
In fact, Yan Hong didn't need to be so nervous at all.Not to mention that she, like Li Min, has no plans to let her children play the piano for a living, and for children like Pan Jia and Mu Yu who started learning piano at the age of four, the speed of learning is not only related to the children, but also to the teachers.For the vast majority of children, Pan Jia's speed is normal.It is also under the teaching of Xie Subao and Chai Yujiao, the two "little teachers", that Mu Yu has made such a fast progress.Seriously studied, his foundation is definitely not as solid as Pan Jia's.But Yan Hong wouldn't think so at the moment.All she could think of was that Li Min and Mu Jie didn't want their children to play the piano for a living in the future, and they didn't even plan to buy a piano for Mu Yu, otherwise Li Min would have bought a piano with her last spring.Later, I heard that Mu Yu learned the guqin with the old man of the Chen family, and I didn't see any enthusiasm from Li Min.Yan Hong understood Li Min's thoughts, she just had the attitude of letting Mu Yu have someone to play, so whatever the two children "taught" Mu Yu.It's just that other people's children play casually better than their own children staring at learning, how can this not be upsetting and irritable?
* Speaking of which, all this is also related to Chai Yujiao.Chai Yujiao is not as talented as Xie Subao in piano, and while she is trying to catch up with Xie Subao, she needs a sparring partner.To be exact, she needs a psychological comfort.needs someone who is close to himself and Xie Subao, but not as good as her, to look up to him.And Mu Yu, who is ignorant, happens to meet her requirements.So Chai Yujiao began to trouble her parents: "Bring Lulu here, and I'll practice the piano well." ”This made her mother, Director Liu of the Department of Anesthesiology, very annoyed, the family was so easy to save some money, all of which was spent on her daughter, and now she put forward such an unbelievable condition, but she was unreasonable to her child and reluctant to beat the child, so she told Li Min about her child's requirements in a secretive and joking way.Li Min heard that someone was willing to take Mu Yu, and she was very happy every night for an hour and a half.immediately promised to send Mu Yu downstairs to Director Chai's house every day after dinner.It can be carried up to the 5th floor by Director Chai.Director Chai not only has to come down to pick up the child, but also is responsible for sending the child back to Li Min.Sometimes Director Chai works at night, and this work is undertaken by Xie Xun.Director Liu was very grateful to Li Min for his help, and repeatedly promised that he would treat Mu Yu well.But for Li Min, with Xiaofang following and watching with diapers and a change of clothes, and under Director Chai's nose, she was not afraid that Mu Yu would be bullied by Chai Yujiao.She took the right to send the child as a walk after dinner, and went home to read a book after sending the child.And Chai Yujiao saw that Mu Yu was coming, and she could sit firmly on the piano bench to accompany her (ignoring his occasional stretch of hand and press indiscriminately), it was definitely a good sparring partner.So she not only can practice the piano herself, but also wants to teach Mu Yu to play the piano.However, Li Min thought that the child was too young and playing the piano too early would affect the development of the phalanges, so he strictly ordered Chai Yujiao to wait until Mu Yu turned 4 years old before he could play the piano.So Chai Yujiao made a change, she learned her teacher's sight-singing ear training, and began to teach Mu Yu to listen to herself play the piano.Then Xie Subao found that Mu Yu was very interesting to follow the piano "ahh* Another reason that prompted Li Min to send the child over was because Mu Yu liked to play with Pan Jia, but Pan Jia disliked Mu Yu.When Mu Yu can crawl with diapers and express his wishes, he is very willing to play with Pan Jia, who is more than half a year older than him.It's normal for children to cling to older children, but it's the opposite for older children.Pan Jia, who claims to be a big child, hates Mu Yu who wraps diapers.Pan Jia prefers Huo Xing, who can run Lisuo, and then Gong Jian and Wu Shuang, who can follow.Under the influence of Huo Xing, these children dislike Mu Yu, a quadruped animal.But Mu Yu needs a playmate.Li Min tried his best, and Yan Hong also tried his best to cooperate.The two tried to coax Pan Jia to play with Mu Yu, but the effect was not very good.And with the increase of the age of the month, Mu Yu, who was finally able to run Lisuo, was "sent off" to the small class by the teacher of the second class three months in advance before he turned two years old, that is, on September 1, 1994."
He can run neatly, he grows taller, and he speaks clearly, don't worry, he will definitely adapt to the small class."
The teacher who climbed the class tried his best to make Li Min believe in himself.If Mu Yu can be sent away in advance, he must burn three more pillars of incense for the Buddha.After Mu Yu and Pan Jia "mixed" into the same class, Mu Yu's heart was full of joy, whether it was day or night, he followed Pan Jia upside down.But within a week of the good days, the contradictions between the two were spread out in broad daylight.Mu Yu, who has only just entered the elementary class, wants to continue his "leader" position in the class after getting acquainted with his classmates in a week.But this is not a class, Huo Xing, who is the head of the child, can't bear it, and Pan Jia is not willing to accept it......
Then Mu Yu was ostracized by the small group led by Huo Xing.Mu Yu began to compete with Pan Jia and Huo Xing.As a result of the competition, the teacher in charge of the small class was saddened.They don't want to offend any child's parents.The teacher complained to Li Min more than once: "If you can't see it at a glance, Mu Yu can make other children cry."
We have all divided Mu Yu and Huo Xing to sit diagonally, and they can still fight together. ”"Two teachers watch a class, and we have to use one person to watch Mu Yu."
The teacher who talked like this was complaining, and it was impossible to see Huo Xing and Mu Yu alone, but it was easier to see Mu Yu alone.Li Min was embarrassed countless times.Bimu Yu insisted that his mother pick up the ......
Alas!
Mu Yu fought with Pan Jia during the day, and the mother and son went to Pan's house for dinner at night.Li Min felt that his face was N times thicker.Partial to Mu Yu, this kid, speaks more than Pan Jialisuo, but if Pan Jia does it with him first, he will go to Uncle Pan to complain.What should Pan Zhineng do, he could only say to his son: "You are big, how can you beat your brother first." ”If Mu Yu made the first move, Pan Jia would have been beaten and suffered a loss, and Pan Zhi could only say in front of Li Min: "You are the elder brother, you have to let the younger brother a little." ”This made Pan Jia hate Mu Yu even more.And Wu Shuang also developed a self-respecting posture in this year, but he was also very squeamish, not as good as his mind, he cried his nose grinningly, and complained to his grandparents and parents: "Mu Yu ......"
The aunt of the small class was sad to death, and complained to the parents or nannies who came to pick up these children every day: "Their relationship with mothers is so good, but these children fight every day."
Huo Xing......
Mu Yu......
Pan Jia ......, "Balabala, a few parents can only laugh with each other."
The youngest is less than two years old, and the oldest is only two and a half years old, and every morning before sending it in, I tell me not to fight, but this is not to say that it is useless.From the time the child went to the nursery, not to mention in the small class, Li Min didn't know how many times he apologized to others.Mu Yu cried and others wanted to apologize; Mu Yu was beaten and cried, no matter how distressed she was, she had to be strong to accept other people's apologies.Such a big child, it is when he is testing the world like a little beast, and Li Min can't beat the child and make him someone else's follower, but he can reason repeatedly, and it is useless.She was so worried that she felt that her gray hair was about to come out.Bi Mujie also joined the fire: "Children are like small animals, and this fight is a way to find out the status of the individual in the group.Even that little fist can't hurt.You just let your child explore on their own.Come on, Mu Yu, Dad told you that fighting is the same as fighting, we have to take care of it first......"
After he took a beating, he summed it up that people don't offend me, I don't offend people.Li Min thinks so.But Mu Jie's next teaching to the child is: "Son, no matter how reasonable you are, you must have the strength to let people listen to your reasoning, and you must have the strength to defend your reasoning."
This is usually reasonable after being convinced, which is more effective.Come on, come on, Dad will teach you military boxing.We're going to have to punch like that. ”After listening to his father's military theory, Mu Yu didn't know whether he really understood it or not, but he began to follow his father to squat on the horse and practice boxing, and he seemed to be the same.This made Li Min angry.So the two began to argue in order to educate their children, and the arguments and arguments would naturally escalate to the level of quarrels......
Then the quarrel reached upstairs, and Director Shi came down to persuade him.But the persuasion only suspended the quarrel, and did not solve the problem of children fighting in the nursery, did not solve the problem of Mu Yu's beating of people more and more methodically, and did not solve the ideological differences that were only exposed between the two mouths.Every Sunday they continue to quarrel and fight.Shame on the dead!
And his parents were like this, which caused Mu Yu to return to the nursery school, and he competed with Pan Jia and Huo Xing even more.What about Huo Xing, in the face of Mu Yu's disobedience to the "leadership", it is resolutely zero tolerance.This little girl is the overlord of the class when she enters the climbing class, not to mention that when she was promoted to the small class, she also brought Pan Jia, a loyal supporter, with her.But although she is tongue-in-cheek, and there is a Liuliu who is her follower, Liuliu is not a character who can help her fight.Often she sneaked near Mu Yu when the teacher was not paying attention, and Mu Yu was the first to attack......
Whenever the teacher saw that she was far away from her seat, he would often ask her why she had left her seat.So she started with Mu Yu, didn't say anything about losing once, and because she ignored it, she was criticized a lot.But when the teacher was watching Mu Yu closely, the little girl didn't know how to fight to the end.Li Min was so worried that he didn't know how to face Senior Sister Liu.Mu Jie and Li Min debated for several weeks, but neither of them could convince anyone.Mujay realizes that debate will not resolve their differences over the education of their children.In order to avoid becoming a permanent resident of the guest room, he discussed with Li Min, "Why don't we let Xiaofang accompany Mu Yu to the small class."
We brought our own people to watch the children to protect Mu Yu from being beaten, that, I mean so that Mu Yu has no chance to fight with other children. ”Alas!
Mu Jie also felt that he was going to die.It happened to be cold, and Mu Yu sometimes had no time to go to the toilet, so he would pee on his cotton pants.Li Min used this as an excuse to keep him at home and let Xiaofang play with him at home.Tricycle, ride casually at home.Dirty walls, leave it alone.The soft leather ball of the art body, how to throw it at home.If something is smashed, it's good that the person doesn't get hurt.But children need an environment with little friends!
So even if Chai Yujiao and Xie Subao treat Mu Yu as a toy that can run, Li Min will take Mu Yu to play with them casually.They taught Mu Yu to "listen" to the piano, how to listen, what to listen to, Li Min didn't care.In the end, the two little teachers who let go, then they told Mu Yu whatever they learned, and it didn't matter if he could understand it or not.As a result of this "play", Mu Yu's perception and perception of music surpass that of most children.As for Mu Yu's ability to recognize sounds, whether this is how it came about, Mu Jie and Li Min don't know, and they don't want to care about this.Mu Yu, who grew up like this, had an enlightenment education in music almost two years earlier than Pan Jia.Besides, Mu Yu also learned the guqin early, and his progress is faster than Pan Jia's piano, so it is really not surprising.After the Spring Festival, Mu Yu went to Chen's house.The old man of the Chen family taught Mu Yu to play the piano, but he didn't start with boring fingering.He will simulate the sound of a stream of water or the sound of the wind, etc., let Mu Yu close his eyes and feel it with his ears, and then let Mu Yu "play" the sound he hears on the piano.When he taught Mu Yu "Hundred Family Names", "Three Character Classics", and "Thousand Character Text", they were all taught with "singing", and he went to "sing" melodiously.The grandparents and grandchildren play the guqin and sing ancient poems every day.This practice allows Mu Yu to easily sing "Hundred Family Names" and "Three Character Classics" before he is three years old, and he can sing "Thousand Character Text" when he is four years old, as well as "Sound Rhyme" that Li Min has never heard of.The cross-teaching of one old and two young showed unexpected results on Pan Jia's birthday this year - Mu Yu can use the guqin to express the joy of the flowers blooming and his heart; He can "see" the puppy chasing his tail and frolicking through Chai Yujiao's puppy waltz; can also hear the tension and murderous spirit before the war from the march played by Xie Subao......
Until tonight, it was Yan Hong who saw the progress of Mu Yu's piano.only saw the result, how can her irritability be relieved?
Besides, no one can explain to her the enlightenment education that Bai Muyu has received in music in the past two years.
*Not to mention Yan Hong's troubles, let's take a look at Xie Xun who borrowed a meeting and went to Linhai City to relax.The conference on "Clinical Application and Research Progress of Laparoscopy" that he attended was jointly organized by the General Surgery Associations of the three northeastern provinces and co-organized by a well-known medical device manufacturer in the country.Xie Xun also wanted to take advantage of the weekend to give himself a holiday and two days of relaxation under the heading of "Patriotic Use of Domestic Equipment" of the medical representative, and after discussing with Director Liang, he promised this matter early.However, when he arrived in Linhai City at noon, he was having lunch, and Director Liang called him to discuss whether he wanted to have a liver transplant.As soon as the conditions of the donor and recipient were laid out, Xie Xun immediately couldn't sit still.He said, "Director, I'll go back right away." ”"No, I don't.Lao Shi hasn't said when he will be able to get the donor liver. ”Xie Xun almost rolled his eyes in front of everyone.You're not sure when the donor will arrive, so what are you calling me for now?
Can't you just let me relax for two days?
Although he thought so in his heart, he still replied to Director Liang with great respect: "Then I will be on call at any time." ”Director Liang was very satisfied.Then Xie Xun checked the spare battery and turned on the phone's vibration and ringtone.In the afternoon meeting, you should always be careful of the mobile phone in your trouser pocket, whether there is Director Liang's phone number, don't miss it.But the phone was quiet for an afternoon.() The distance is a bit far