Chapter 226 Is It Wronged?
At the beginning, everyone was not familiar with it, so it was very restrained, but Su Yinyin has always been a person who likes anything, and only those who don't like it will have a poisonous tongue.After they got acquainted with each other for a while, Su Yinyin's hobby of listening to stories came out again, and it was not easy to take out the fruit wine, so she got a lot of juice out, and coaxed the children to go to a toy area she specially made for them to play, while listening to the sisters-in-law talk about their life experiences.I don't know if I don't know this, and I'm shocked when I hear it."
None of you are willing to be widowed?"
It stands to reason that they don't have no way to support themselves, so why do they have to take care of their children here.Sister-in-law Peng smiled bitterly: "Who is willing to be widowed?
Is that still not impossible?
Take me as an example, my family left early, ten years ago, when my child was only three years old, if I remarry, what will happen to the child?
Lost to grandparents?
The old couple didn't have any good feelings about my family, and they didn't ask for money to take care of us, and as soon as the child's father left, the old couple broke off contact with us after asking for a pension. ”Sister-in-law Peng seems to have fallen into her own situation at the time, and she is still a little angry when she talks about the past."
If it weren't for the kindness of the child's father's comrades-in-arms, I might have to take the child to jump into the river, at first I was thinking about leaving a queen for the child's father, and then when the child was a little older, I thought about not finding a man to marry, but if I remarry, the child will definitely not be able to go to school in our army primary school, that pair of children is a lifelong thing, where is the second marriage so good."
Sister-in-law Peng was talking and sighing.It seems that many people have this reason in it.Su Yinyin held the water glass, thinking about the choice in that situation.She once seemed to have fallen into a similar choice, but on the one hand, she wanted to get married, all kinds of troubles from the Su family, and finally she gave up marriage for the sake of her family."
I think about gritting my teeth for the sake of the child, as long as the child is an adult, it doesn't matter what happens to me."
After Sister-in-law Peng finished speaking, many people nodded, maybe the child is the only motivation for them to maintain."
But don't you feel aggrieved when you're alone?"
Su Yinyin was really curious, she felt that she was particularly wronged, she had lived too aggrieved in her previous life, and she could have lived a better life, but she was imprisoned in the cage that the Su family made for her.Sister-in-law Peng smiled."
What's wronged, for the sake of the child!"
For the sake of their children, they can ignore their own lives, but what about their parents?
They are also for the child, except that the child does not include himself.Thinking of what Xiaolan said, her life experience is actually a little special, and she really hopes that her parents are not biological, but she is even more sure that her parents are biological, and she feels that the whole person is very helpless.Shake off the unrealistic thoughts in your mind and look at Sister-in-law Peng."
Sister-in-law, what about the future, I said that if the children are all successful in the future, what do you think, is it still the case?
Don't want to find a partner?
”Sister-in-law Peng shook her head: "I haven't thought about it, it's been ten years like this, I'm used to having only children and me in my life, and I won't be able to adapt to another person." ”Su Yinyin said: "But when your son grows up and marries a daughter-in-law, other people will inevitably be added to your life, so what about you?"
Still without ego?
”Aunt Peng was stunned.It seems that she has not considered this question.Su Yinyin handed her a plate of dried fruits and continued the topic just now: "So, you must live for yourself first in order to bring a better life to your children, don't use your children as an excuse for you to live, you are yourself first, and then the mother of the child, think about what you want, whether you really live alone for a lifetime, or do you want to live comfortably." ”Sister-in-law Peng bit the jerky with a shocked expression.Su Yinyin looked at the other sisters-in-law and said the same thing: "You are not very old, in fact, you can think about your own life, the child is your responsibility, but not all, otherwise once the child grows up, they no longer rely on you, and they no longer need your help so much, then you will collapse." ”Su Yinyin worked in a nursing home for a period of time in her last life, and saw too many elderly people dedicate their lives to their children, and in the end, when the children grew up, they were discarded.Children are never the whole of parents, there are so many things that parents need to do, one of which is to learn to treat children as the most important guests in life, but not the only guests.A deceased loved one is important, but it is not a reason for them to be widowed forever.Su Yinyin saw that everyone didn't speak, felt that she had said a heavy topic, clapped her hands, and said with a smile: "Look at me, it's me who is ignorant, a few sisters-in-law, this topic has been revealed, let's make dumplings today, my dumpling skills are not good, but the stuffing is still good, let's be full today." ”You can only eat a meal of white-flour dumplings during the New Year's holidays, but today Su Yinyin prepared a big bag of fifty catties of flour, and she didn't believe that fifty catties was not enough to eat.But obviously she underestimated the allure of white-flour dumplings, and forgot that the people here are not the ones who need to lose weight and control the amount of food in the future, and everyone can eat half a catty of dumplings.Without the influence of heavy topics, when making dumplings, everyone talks about children the most, Su Yinyin and Yang Mingming, who are unmarried, can't intervene at all, and can only be responsible for enlivening the atmosphere on the side.After an afternoon of wrapping, when their children came back from school, the two large pots on the shelves in the yard began to boil.Don't look at many children who are in their eighties and nineties, but when they see white-flour dumplings or dumplings with radish meat, they are all screaming with excitement at that time.In one sentence, it is said that all the dumplings have to be stuffed into their throats before they are finished.You can see how much I like it.This dinner party made all the sisters-in-law have a very good impression of Su Yinyin and Yang Mingming, and then they asked the children to send a lot of snacks at home, although the portions were not much, they were indeed able to come up with the best things.Su Yinyin and Yang Mingming feel very happy, at least now they are not alone, in this area, they are also people covered by their sister-in-law.So when the black-framed aunt came over to find trouble again, many sisters-in-law heard the movement and came over, and stood up to the black-framed aunt one by one: "Say I'm a four-eyed old woman, what do you want to do?"
”Before the black-framed aunt could say anything, she was driven away, and she was angry that the puffer fish was insulting the cuteness of the pufferfish.With Su Yinyin and Yang Mingming, who are protected by their sister-in-law, even if Meng Yunting is not there, their small life is quite nourishing.Until Su Yinyin suddenly saw Xiaolan's sharp alarm.
(End of chapter)