Qunfang closed her eyes, she remembered reading a passage before, which said that a woman must marry three times before she can be considered truly married: the first time is to marry love, the second time is to marry character, and the third time is to marry family.
It's ridiculous to think about it now. was slapped just because her parents said goodbye, and she took away her severance pay after being complained; The child in her womb is gone, it should be as he and his parents wished, and the sin she suffered did not even have a trace of sincere greetings, just a "go back", just to let her return to the former woman who didn't care about anything and wanted to start a family He hadn't thought about the root of all this, the pain, the loneliness, the helplessness she had suffered.
He is now fluttering with a sentence of "live a good life", how to live Not ridiculous anything Qunfang finally understands what it means to be "husband and wife are birds in the forest", and everything will be fine if they have nothing to do, and they really can't stand the toss.
If you are an ordinary woman, this scene has indeed been done enough, and it is enough to "handle" the man, as long as there are no more problems that touch his "principles" in the future, he can still live a life of "harmony and beauty".
Qunfang sighed in her heart, she couldn't convince herself anymore that it didn't happen.
Qunfang pulled Aunt Fu over, attached to her ear and said a few words, Aunt Fu looked a little hesitant, and finally said to a few neighbors: "Fang was so shocked this time, and her body is very weak, let's go out first, let her rest well." ” When the neighbors left, they didn't forget to persuade her with a bitter mouth, "Don't lose such a good man, there are not many men who don't smoke, don't drink and don't mess with women outside, and filial piety to his parents shows that he is kind at heart, if those men are not good to their parents, can they still expect him to be good to you" The room finally quieted down, and Aunt Fu said to Feng Maoxu again: "You should go out first."
"Mom, I" Feng Maoxu knelt and looked at his mother-in-law.
"Mom" is still very affectionate, Fang still clearly remembers the cruel words when he slammed the door and left, and now looking at him like this, his heart is cold.
Only Qunfang and Aunt Fu were left in the house.
"Mom, I know that you want me to have a man to rely on and make me happy.
But now you can also see that I have not had an easy life at all these years, and now I am still suffering such a sin, which is not "dependence" but "shackles".
If you really want me to be good, really for my good, then stop interfering with my freedom. ” "But, but what will people think of us when this spreads?"
"Mom, didn't you always say how Su Xin was before, but now Mom, I mean how life is our own, I can't live in the eyes of others all my life, oh, do others think that we are really happy and happy, and others say that we are really unhappy."
"But if you are true, really divorced, it will be difficult for you to find another one like this in the future."
When Qunfang heard her mother's words, she remembered the feeling of her soul in that dark space, if she was married just to live together, if she had to let herself "marry three times", she would rather not marry.
This time, Feng Maoxu naturally didn't pick up Qunfang, and Yin Yin didn't go with him.
A month later, Qunfang quickly recovered under the meticulous care of her parents, and Yin Yin also attended kindergarten in the village.
Qunfang was ready to look for a job, it was in the middle of nowhere, even if it was two or three hours to get to the town, and there was no factory with labor.
It just so happens that Su Donghai's greenhouse planting has been formalized, and it has a certain scale, whether it is field management or later accounting.
Qunfang is down-to-earth and serious, and everyone knows the roots, and their hearts are sincere, so Su Donghai is very relieved to hand over things to her, and naturally she does not treat her badly in terms of salary.
In less than a year, she paid off the debt that her mother owed her to save her, and of course the money owed to Su Xin's family because her parents went to the city, so they had to wait until they came back.
That's an afterword.
Let's say that during this period, Feng Maoxu came to look for him many times, and each time he became more and more haggard and embarrassed.
On the other hand, Qunfang is getting better and better.
It turns out that her daughter is really happy now and her life is getting better and better, so the attitude of Aunt Fu's family towards Feng Maoxu has gradually become cold.
Feng Maoxu had a gloomy face, and he took Qunfang's hand and was about to take her away: "Go, go back with me" She shook off his hand, "Presumably you have received the divorce agreement, if there is anything you need to add, if there is no objection, sign it."
If you don't sign it, the court will decide, it's just a matter of time. ” Feng Maoxu lowered his voice and shouted: "You have made enough trouble, are you crazy, you don't want to be embarrassed, I still want to go back with me, don't you just want to wait for me to pick you up at your mother's house?"
Qun Fang sneered: "I used to think that I could be entrusted with a peerless good man for life, but it doesn't seem to be like that."
This marriage is divorced, and the result is the same whether you sign or not. ” Feng Maoxu suddenly felt that this woman who was diligent and couldn't beat her with a stick had become so strange, he couldn't figure out why, was it just because of the quarrel in the New Year that slapped her so unforgivable But that's also because he's angry, and anyone's parents will be angry like that.
As for the fact that they later called to say that she had a miscarriage and was in a coma or something, she was visiting relatives with her parents at the time, and they all said that she must have pretended, and now she looks good After Feng Maoxu came to entangle for two more years, the two finally divorced.
Qunfang has a stable income and follows Yin Yin's wishes, and her daughter is raised by her.
Feng Maoxu returned to work in a company near his hometown, and the call from his parents, who had not paid his salary every month, to ask for "living expenses" was like a reminder, saying that the family could not open the pot and that it was useless to raise a son. also urged him to find a girlfriend, get married as soon as possible and give them a grandchild.
He has been to the blind date many times, at first people thought that this kind of divorced man without children is very reliable, he doesn't smoke, drink or go to nightclubs, but when he heard that he was almost forty, he didn't even have a house and a car, so forget it.
It's not a question of whether you're powerful or not, it's about having what you should have at a certain age.
If you ask a young person who has just left school to have a house and a car, it must depend on whether his parents have money, and it has little to do with his ability.
But a forty-year-old man still has nothing, not only because his parents have no money, but also because he himself has no ability.
Feng Maoxu used his daughter's name to find Qunfang many times to get back together, but Qunfang did a good job in the greenhouse plantation in Sudonghai, and also built a house, and lived a very rich life.
When the farm is not working, I also drive to play with my family, and the whole person looks much younger.
I also met a new boyfriend, a similar age, a Dink.
The two have the same personalities and play together, which is really good for her, at least people don't just value whether she can run a family and make money
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