This is not only Wang Ai's personal acumen, relatives, friends, and leaders have reminded him on different occasions.Among them, Yuan Weimin talked to him after the Olympics and reminded him to pay attention to team unity.Yan Shiduo also reminded Wang Ai to pay attention to interpersonal relationships.Even if the leaders say that they understand it so clearly, if Wang Ai has not woken up, there is still Ai Xiaoqing.When Wang Ai participated in the South Korea-Japan World Cup, he was unruly, Ai Xiaoqing flew from Beijing in person, dragged Wang Ai's ears and apologized to the leaders one by one, leaving a deep impression on Wang Ai.This is called teaching by example.The CEO of a company as big as Ai Xiaoqing apologized to some Football Association cadres for a little thing, how could Wang Ai not be touched?
Wang Ai is no longer good at handling interpersonal relationships, and no matter how much he hates empty heads, at least he can still do it on the surface.The Football Association has long been concerned about this issue, not only reminding Wang Ai to restrain in his mouth, but also paying attention to his actions, and even the head coach Ali Hahn is very attentive, trying not to highlight Wang Ai's status in training and management.In the publicity, the overall contribution of the team is also emphasized, and in the distribution of bonuses and honors, attention is also paid to adjustment.There is only the supreme honor of "Top Ten Athletes", which really can't be adjusted, and if you let others get on it, the fans won't be convinced.In the past, Wang Ai was just an ordinary player, and he didn't need to think about this kind of team unity, as long as he played well, but as Wang Ai's status became higher and higher, these problems inevitably became his responsibility and an obligation for him to bear Chinese football.After the team returned to Beijing en masse, they greeted tens of thousands of enthusiastic fans at the airport, and half an hour after signing autographs, Wang Ai planned to go home for a day of rest, and return to Spain tomorrow with Lao Hao and Datou, but at this time, the leader arranged a new task: Xinhua News Agency wanted to interview him.You can't avoid this, the China National News Agency interviewed you, if you don't go, you want to die!
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In the face of the news agency representing the country and the media that awarded Wang Ai the top ten athletes twice, after Wang Ai got the news, he quickly changed his itinerary, hurriedly had lunch at home, and rushed to No. 57 Xuanwumen West Street early, waiting in line in a regular manner.The more beautiful the moon, the more you should keep the light and obscurity; The more proud the spring breeze, the more sick the widow should be.When outsiders think that you will be arrogant and dismissive, the more you should be honest and low-key, and save yourself from becoming a disgusting object.The change of envy, jealousy and hatred is very subtle, maybe one moment you are still being worshipped on the cusp, and the next moment you will be hated by others.For example, even Wang Ai knows that Liu Xiang, who just won China's first sprint gold medal last year, is disliked by many people, but speaking of which, what do you dislike about him?
He is just a sprinter who doesn't have much culture, he has practiced since he was a child, Liu Xiang didn't do anything directly annoying, but some people don't like him, even if they can't say it, they don't accept him psychologically.If it's a competitor who doesn't like it, it's just that, but the problem is that many ordinary people don't like him very much, which is terrible.In the later period, Liu Xiang's commercial value shrank significantly, which has a lot to do with this subtle psychology.In fact, this question involves the law of communication studies, which is not yet officially included in the university major, and also involves the content of social mentality, which is a more profound interdisciplinary discipline starting from philosophy and social psychology.It just so happens that Wang Ai is professional in this regard, so over the years, Wang Ai has been very strict with his image, which is far from the style of ordinary athletes who attack everywhere after becoming famous.For example, in recent years, in addition to the "activities" in the field of football, he has rarely set foot in other fields, and has never participated in variety shows, movies and television, evening parties, book signings, and even the activities of the Philosophy Society have rarely participated, thus maintaining the public image of a professional player as a whole and in general.Media interviews are also strictly controlled within the scope of four media outlets, which have two of China's largest official media, and their words are cautious, and they don't care about the so-called star halo at all, which will make Wang Ai appear in front of the public with a real image of a teenager next door and a little brother next door.The halo of stars has been removed, and of course the danger has been removed.The other two are Wang Ai's hometown media, so naturally they will not dig a hole for Wang Ai.No morning sun lasts a whole day.Ups and downs are normal laws, Wang Ai has been popular in China for three years, rather than letting people push down, it is better to take the initiative to take a step back and cater to the operation of this law.In 2003, the top ten Asian Footballer of the Year, China's top ten athletes are all Bai Guanghai, not him, which is a normal ups and downs.This time when he came to Xinhua News Agency, Wang Ai did not come by himself, and after communicating with the other party, he pulled Hao Haidong and Li Weifeng, who were also at Wang Ai's house to prepare for a day off.Although the Xinhua News Agency Sports Department was a little surprised, it did not refuse, after all, the two of them are also on the cusp.After waiting for ten minutes, the minister of the sports department of Xinhua News Agency came in person, and the two sides greeted each other politely and exchanged pleasantries for a while.For Wang Ai, Hao Haidong, Li Weifeng, the three absolute main players of the national team, and Deportivo La Coruna, the six-time champion player, especially the three of them put on this humble attitude, the leaders of Xinhua News Agency are not saying anything, but they are also satisfied in their hearts.After all, it is not uncommon for football stars to behave indiscriminately in these years, and no one will dislike the three of them.Otherwise, the Minister of Sports would not have come out to receive him personally.After the greetings, we chatted casually for a while, and the atmosphere became warm, and then the formal interview began.The original interview question focused on the prospects of qualifying for this World Cup, but after Hao Haidong and Li Weifeng became the interview subjects, the topic inevitably expanded a little, and the first thing that was raised was the adaptation of the three, especially the latter two, to the European champion team of Deportivo La Coruna, Spain.Lao Hao, who has personally experienced the training intensity and level of Deportivo La Coruna, and experienced the confrontation and technical level of La Liga, is a lot more humble this time, but the style of the cannon has not changed, and he said bluntly: Chinese football is at least 20 years away from Spanish football, and added when Wang Ai and Li Weifeng did not speak: "This time gap means that we cannot catch up with each other in 20 years, at least it takes two generations of football players to persevere." ”Li Weifeng then expressed a similar view, saying: "In Spain and before in the UK, our training was very meticulous, and any little fault would be found and then taken out for professional reinforcement.I stayed abroad twice, and both improved very quickly. ”()