Chen Hongying was a little unhappy again, will this Lin Xueqiao look at people's eyes, and he won't give himself face at all."
Okay, Yunyun is estimated to be lucky to get this job, don't be discouraged if you haven't got a job yet, I believe our leaders will arrange it for everyone soon, everyone relax, there will definitely be work."
Chen Hongying came out to appease a few words, and it is true that this work matter, a daughter-in-law who has just come for a few days has gotten it, and no one else came earlier than her, and then tangled up from this point, it is easy to quarrel, which is not conducive to harmony and unity.There is a real need to change the subject.A military sister-in-law named Huang Yan said: "How can it be so easy, I heard someone say that the efficiency of the factory near us is not good, and we can't arrange people at all, those good units are for the military wives who already have jobs, and people already have jobs in their hometowns. ”"But no, I also heard that this job is not easy to find now, even if our leader has this heart, it has to be realistic, there must be work around to arrange for us, if there is no job, the leader can't change.""
So it's really good to say that those who are scheduled to work, if they don't have children, the two husbands and wives can earn money in one direction, even if they have children, they can send them to the nursery without delaying to earn money, how good it is.""
I said, you didn't wait for work, sir, the child is fine."
Someone made a joke."
What kind of children are you going to have, isn't it family planning now?
How can you give birth casually. ”Chen Hongying saw that this topic was getting more and more crooked, and hurriedly came out and said: "Okay, okay, I'll discuss it later, I still have some precautions that I haven't said yet." ”"Okay, you say, let's listen."
These new military wives still have a lot of respect for Chen Hongying, after all, she was assigned by the leader to teach them, so she is almost the same as the leader.Get along well with her, even if there is no benefit, you can't offend others."
Everyone knows that our men have special occupations, they have heavy tasks and heavy training every day, and for the sake of our country and our people, we must not relax for a moment.""
Therefore, as military wives, we must do a good job in the rear of our soldiers, don't let trivial matters at home trouble men, let them not have no worries, and better protect their families and defend the country."
Chen Hongying said righteously and awe-inspiringly, and everyone's expressions became serious.Several military wives nodded their heads again and again without waiting for her to finish.I agree with it."
Sister-in-law, I know, when I came over, my parents also told me that I can't ask men everything, I have to clean the house and let men eat clean and hot meals every day."
The military sister-in-law named Huang Yan hurriedly expressed her position as soon as Chen Hongying's words fell.After she finished speaking, someone immediately followed: "My mother-in-law also said the same, men are very hard outside, and they must make him comfortable when they come home, if he is unhappy, scold us a few words, let's not talk back, he is hard outside, the pressure is great, and if he gets angry when he gets home, he will definitely not be able to stand it, and it is easy to make mistakes when he goes out on tasks." ”Chen Hongying nodded again and again as she listened, her face full of appreciation.The rest of the people saw that she was praised by Chen Hongying, and they were also busy: "Me too, don't say it's scolding, it's okay to let him beat him twice to get angry, these pressures, we are not tolerant of daughters-in-law, who tolerates?"
”It's really outrageous the more he talks, Lin Xueqiao couldn't help but say: "Beating people is domestic violence and illegal." ”The person who was refuted was called Guan Ermei, she was suddenly a little unhappy, and glanced at Lin Xueqiao, "He definitely didn't mean it, he was angry outside, tired, you two times, just get angry and pass, what do we care about as a daughter-in-law?"
”Lin Xueqiao corrected her: "I'm angry, I'm tired, can I beat someone?"
Cultivate this habit in him, let him fight more and more, what if he beats you to death?
”Second Sister Guan was even more unhappy, glaring at Lin Xueqiao, "What are you talking about, are you cursing me to death?"
”Lin Xueqiao explained to her: "It's not to curse you to die, it's just an analogy, it's illegal to beat someone, whether it's beating outsiders or beating family members, we can't condone this kind of violence, if you have children in the future, it will also have a great impact on the children, if you encounter domestic violence, it's best to ask the Women's Federation for help." ”Guan Ermei didn't want to tell her anymore, she felt that she couldn't go anywhere with her, so she turned her head and said to the daughter-in-law next to her: "It's better to say than to sing, when her man beats someone, see if she will find a women's federation, if she does, her man is afraid that he won't kill her even more." ”Some people agreed with her words, "No, I think she should have just gotten married, and now is still the time when the relationship is good, and she still talks with childishness." ”Lin Xueqiao didn't want to say more to this person, so he turned to Chen Hongying, "Sister-in-law, these domestic violence should also be talked about, many daughters-in-law are from the countryside, and they still flatter men are heavenly, now is a new society and a new era, the country advocates equality between men and women, we are at home, wives and husbands are equal, and no one can use violence against others." ”Chen Hongying's eyes flashed, she didn't expect Lin Xueqiao to come from a rural area, she knew a lot, and it was quite like that, she said: "It's not right to beat people, if you encounter domestic violence, you must seek help, and our leaders will help you." ”Hearing the word leader, someone immediately shook his head, "Forget it, the leader knows, then I can't punish my man." ”Chen Hongying did not refute, she also thought that it would not be good for them to make a big fuss about these things, and the man was criticized and punished, what about the wife?
She can't divorce the man in the family, so she has to live in the future, if she comes out to report, will she be able to live in the future?
She is a man, and it is no wonder that her mother-in-law's family does not resent her to death.But on the surface, it cannot be said that the military camp cannot promote domestic violence, nor will it acquiesce in domestic violence.Lin Xueqiao is also very helpless, in his hometown, there are really many men who beat their daughters-in-law, and some of the few who don't beat their daughters-in-law are called peerless good men, although this man is lazy and selfish.But she was sitting here, so she said a few more words, and one of them could wake up, "Domestic violence is addictive, with the first time, there will be a second time, if the first time is stopped and punished, it is estimated that there will be no second time."
If you don't stop it, it'll be too late to kill someone one day. ”"We have finally lived into a new era, and this good life has just begun, so why do we want to be so bad?
If you have a son, do you want him to do the same in the future and be a violent man?
”"If you have a daughter, do you want her to be like you in the future, and think that it is normal for men to beat their daughters-in-law?""
Let's not talk about sons and daughters, let's talk about ourselves, we are also born to our parents, and we are the hearts of our parents, even if we are not, it doesn't matter, we are our own hearts, when we were children, how many were thrown away because they couldn't afford to be raised by girls, and how many were sick and died because they had no money to see a doctor?""
It's not easy for us to live until now, how difficult it is, can't we be kind to ourselves?
Opposing violence is for yourself, and for this man, he is used to beating at home, are you sure he won't go out and beat others?
Beat someone to death outside, and he is not allowed to eat a gun?
”"That's a good point."
Suddenly, a male voice interjected.