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Chapter 117: Live for Yourself


How to protect one's own life, how to survive in the cracks, if you adapt to the environment without losing your true colors, and not be used, swayed, and manipulated by others, it took Yang Zhu three days to finish this topic.

To sum up: we must be tolerant in case of trouble, we must obey the law, we must not trust others easily, we must be self-reliant and do not rely on others, we must follow the local customs and not be vulgar, and we must be indifferent and not greedy.

We should respect our own hearts and find our own happiness, or self-satisfaction, rather than envy others for comparing ourselves with others, that is, "being poor and happy".

Yang Zhu believes that all people live in self-satisfaction, which is similar to the hierarchical needs theory proposed by the modern psychologist Maslow.

He believed that a person's self-satisfaction comes from spiritual satisfaction, not material satisfaction.

A person can feel happy when he feels successful from time to time.

When little ones get what they want, they feel satisfied and happy.

When they succeed in doing something and are praised by adults, they will feel satisfied, happy, and feel great.

Having a safe home and having the love of their parents will make them feel fulfilled and happy.

It's the same with adults, who are confident and often feel successful, and they have a sense of happiness and superiority.

If a person always likes to compare himself with others, then he will not have a sense of happiness unless he is always better and superior than others.

Self-confidence comes from self-reliance, not relying on or expecting others to lend a hand.

A farmer who farms the land, he knows how to farm, he has a sense of superiority and achievement.

A farmer who farms the land does not know how to farm, but he is industrious, imitates others and grows crops well, and he also has a sense of superiority and achievement.

A person's sense of superiority and accomplishment is something to be found, and everyone has it, and if you find it, you will feel happy.

If you are a person who compares, then you will never have a sense of superiority and achievement.

Originally, you are a farmer, you can't change your identity and situation, you know how to farm and work hard, but you have to compare with the rich second generation.

Then you only have low self-esteem and frustration A farmer knows how to farm and is hardworking, but he doesn't want to be a farmer by nature, but he also doesn't want to be a rich second generation.

He knows that he can't be a rich second generation, his requirements are not high, he just wants to go out of his hometown to see the outside world and survive.

If his dream comes true, he will have the same sense of superiority and accomplishment.

Although he returned with nothing but the clouds of his homeland.

Everyone has dreams, but dreams have to be realistic.

If it is realized, he will have a sense of superiority and achievement.

If a person's dream is not realistic, and the mountain looks high and the mountain is high, and he likes to compare, then the person is finished, and he will never experience a sense of superiority and achievement, and he will never be happy.

If a person doesn't even have a dream, and is completely a vulgar person who goes with the flow, then this person is also finished, and he will never experience a sense of superiority and achievement, and he will never be happy.

"Actually, I don't need to gamble on my life" After listening to Yang Zhu's preaching, the man in black reflected on his life.

Yang Zhu preached, easy to understand, citing examples in life and around him, as long as people with a little brain, can listen to it "My family is in the country, and I am the only adult in the family.

My father had served in the military and was wounded, and my younger brother was still a minor, so I was the only laborer in the family, so I didn't need to serve in the military anymore.

But I just want to change the status quo and stop working hard in the future to gamble on my life.

Others go out because they have to do military service and can't live anymore in their hometown.

And I just envy other people's families for having a better life than mine, so I went out to gamble on my life, which is the fault of comparison."

Listening to the words of the man in black, Yang Zhu praised: "That's right, don't compare yourself with others, you don't care how well others live, as long as you have food to eat every day, you can maintain a day's nutrition, what you care about what other people's families eat, even if it is delicacies from the mountains and seas."

According to Lao Tzu's ancestors and predecessors, eating too much and eating well does not necessarily lead to good health, and sometimes the delicacies of the mountains and seas are not as good as a bowl of vegetable paste, and the diet pays attention to nutritional matching, rather than taste.

Therefore, eating delicacies from the mountains and seas is just a feeling, and it has no practical meaning, and it does not mean that the body can fully receive the nutrients inside On the top of the dwelling, there are people living in thatched huts, and people living in caves.

In ancient times, our ancestors still lived in trees, so we don't need to envy the king who lived in a palace.

As long as you can live in people, get a good night's sleep, have a sense of security, and be able to shelter from the wind and rain, everything is practical.

If you compare, you will never find your own happiness, you will never find self-confidence, why do you live their life with others, I live my life, they live in their world, I live in my world, I want to live for myself, I will not live by looking at other people's faces" After talking about how to survive in the cracks, Yang Zhu will start to talk about how to govern the world.

Surviving in the cracks is a last resort, and it is passive, so how can Taoists take the initiative If Taoism is allowed to manage society, what will Taoism do?

Definitely Yang Zhu believes: the use of soldiers in troubled times, the use of law to govern the world, the use of Confucianism in prosperous times, and the governance of Taoism Only by treating the heart first, and then talking about governing the world.

It is difficult to cure the heart, and the person who cures the heart is a great talent.

It is easy to rule the world, and the people who rule the world are small talents.

Those who heal the heart can stay in Fen for eternity and benefit eternity.

And the talent to govern the world can only benefit one party, benefit a time, or benefit a lifetime.

Talents who can benefit one or several generations can be regarded as great talents.

A talent who can benefit several generations must also be a talent who governs the heart.

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For now, it must be a Taoist, and it must be a master who is hidden in the court.

"I must be a genius who heals the heart" Zhuang Zhou was ruthless in his heart After witnessing the consequences of the war, seeing the refugees who fled their homes, and his life experience, Zhuang Zhou was very excited after listening to Master's words.

Although he was only 10 years old, he listened to the scriptures by his master's side since he was a child, and his ability to understand was that of ordinary people.

After listening to Master Yang Zhu's explanation for so many days, he felt that his choice was right.

Master Yang Zhu is a great talent for curing the heart, and it is right to follow him to learn the Tao and learn the art of curing the heart.

Master Yang Zhu traveled all over the world and spread Taoism.

He must also be like Master, so that everyone in the world can learn the Tao, and the hearts of the people in the world will be unified, and it will be much easier to govern the world.

We must comprehend Taoism thoroughly, study and study again.

Now, he feels that he still has a lot of things he doesn't understand about Taoism.

No matter how Master explained it to him, he just couldn't understand it.

Master said that his age had not yet been reached.

Master said that there are some things that children cannot understand, such as how adults feel about things that happen to men and women

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