When all the surgeons in the provincial hospital were engaged in emergency rescue surgery, ophthalmologist Yang Weihua was sitting in the lecture hall of the medical university.My classmates are all working graduate students.She started studying as a graduate student in the fall of '91, which was the first of its kind in a provincial college.This was the tacit acquiescence of the hospital leadership.Being able to get out of the marriage that was drifting apart and had been separated from the husband and wife, she began to feel infinitely relaxed.Sleep at home every day until you wake up naturally, and then my father's car will send me to work in the provincial hospital, laundry, cooking, hygiene, all the housework, I don't have to stretch my hands at all.If she didn't have her son Xiaozhi, she once thought that she was back in her teens.But the existence of her son reminds her every day that the past ten years of marriage are not a dream.She was initially opposed to her mother's plan to let her son stay with her ex-husband three days a week.But the son was willing.Later, she also found that her son often ran out of school at noon, went to Sihai Restaurant for lunch, and even sometimes lasted until dinner to deal with only a few bites, so she had to quietly discuss with her son if he could eat less at noon.The answer her son gave her was dumbfounded."
Mom, I'm not looking at the delicious things at the Four Seas Restaurant.I love to see people in restaurants write a string of names on my page, and I like to see my dad's signature the next time I go back.Those signatures for which he had already paid for them.In the past, I asked him for two yuan to hand in the paper, and I was scolded. ”Yang Weihua was very confused, she didn't want anyone who knew her to know about such a thing.She didn't want to tell her sister, let alone her mother, so as not to incur endless accusations - "I advised you not to follow that poor boy, but you were biased."
You have been carrying him for eighteen years......
"Balabala, endless, can't solve any problems."
For this, she paid for the help of a psychiatrist.The money was spent, and the matter was not resolved.During this year's Spring Festival, her son's unintentional words made her doubt her past."
My dad's cooking is delicious, very tasty.It's better than what my aunt made. ”Wang Dazhi cooks at home?
Yang Weihua couldn't close his mouth in shock.However, under the pressure of his mother, the son said that he not only cooked, but also washed diapers and mopped the floor......
How could he do that?
In the past, when I lived with myself, I had to shout at myself when the oil bottle was crooked, and I wouldn't be able to hold it easily.Then Yang Weihua has been living in a dizzy state.* The tablemate sitting with her poked her: "Yang Weihua, class is over."
Your object just shook at the door, did he come to pick you up again?
”Yang Weihua smiled at the woman who was at the same table and often took her husband's car home, and said, "I told him to go to my mother's place today, why did he come again." ”The woman at the table had a look of disappointment on her face, and it took more than an hour to take the bus home, and it would take less than twenty minutes to take a hitchhike.But if Yang Weihua doesn't go home, she can't help it.But she hid her disappointment and said, "Your partner is so good to you."
At such an old age, I still pick up every class.This is to spoil you like a little girl. ”Yang Weihua packed his schoolbag, showed a smile to the woman at the same table that met her expectations, and went out with the schoolbag.* "Old Sun, I'll leave a message for your office in the afternoon.I went to my mother's place tonight.I told my mom too.Why are you still here?
”Yang Weihua frowned slightly."
The people in the office told me after the meeting.I called my parents and said that I would come and pick you up from class and send you back, so they didn't need to send a driver to pick you up. ”Since this is the case, Yang Weihua is not reluctant.The black Peugeot slid smoothly into the main road of the provincial capital, where the lights were shining.There were not many vehicles at night, and the trolley was soon near the compound.The guards standing guard could already see it.The man pulled over.He looked sideways at his wife, who was still in a trance, and asked, "What happened to you lately?"
”Yang Weihua subconsciously shook his head: "No." ”"Wei Hua, if you encounter any difficult things, whether it is at work or at home, don't worry about it, you can tell me and see if I can give you a detailed solution.Anyway, I'm a few years older than you, and I've been working in the organization department for so many years, it's better than you stuffing yourself, don't stuff yourself, I'll be distressed. ”Yang Weihua thought for a while and asked, "Am I acting so obviously?"
”The man nodded and smiled, with a soothing trust and sincerity on his face that made people have to tell the truth: "I just found out."
I arrived at the classroom early today, and I was distracted by the fact that you were in class.Think about your recent state, and then you realize that something is wrong. ”Yang Weihua was silent.At the moment when the man's patience was about to run out and he thought it was impossible to pry open the heart of the woman in front of him, Yang Weihua suddenly asked faintly: "Old Sun, do you know how to cook?"
”The man was stunned for a moment, then looked at Yang Weihua's eyes and said, "Why did you ask about this?"
”"Do you know how to cook?"
Yang Weihua insisted on getting the answer.The man smiled and said, "Wei Hua, I'm in my forties, I just don't know how to cook anymore, and after all these years, I can cook it even if I can't do it well."
How do you think about this question?
”Yang Weihua dodged the man's concerned eyes, fiddled with his ten fingers, and said with deep fatigue and endless exhaustion: "Old Sun, I find that I am not suitable for married life. ”"Why?
But what am I not doing well enough?
”The man leaned towards Yang Weihua slightly.Inside the cramped car, his aura enveloped the woman sitting in the passenger seat.The look of concentration, concern, and desire to speak the truth was clearly conveyed through his body and words to the woman who wanted to lean against the car door.Yang Weihua's body subconsciously avoided this oppression, and she leaned towards the car door.And her actions made the man more alert, and also made the man's eyes become sharp when he looked at her under the cover of his unchanged gentle expression."
It's not that you're doing something wrong, it's that I doubt myself.Do you think that marriage should be easier and better than being single?
”Yang Weihua couldn't avoid the man's silent questioning, but still said what he thought in his heart.The man didn't know what was in her heart, so he could only vaguely answer, "Yes."
Neither is it. ”Yang Weihua was puzzled, she knew that she had shortcomings in this regard, so she followed the man's train of thought and asked, "What do you say?"
”"Relaxed, can we simply divide into a combination of material and spiritual, spiritual and □□?""
Hmm.You continue. ”"If two people are together, they will get the result that the material plus one is greater than the two, it should be what you said is easy."
The man pondered the words.Yang Weihua nodded."
Mentally, the two of them support each other in trouble, or give advice, or listen carefully, and some things will feel relaxed just by saying them.Isn't it?
”The man waited until Yang Weihua nodded, and then said, "The flesh/body is left."
To tell you the truth, I'm not as old as I was in my twenties.But in the more than half a year since we got married, I was serious about married life, but did I disappoint you?
”Yang Weihua shook his head, and under the man's earnest questioning, he blushed slightly and said, "No." ”The man breathed a sigh of relief, fortunately there was no irreparable place between the two.But he then said seriously: "Wei Hua, I work in the organization department, and I am just 45 years old this year, which is the best age for a man to do a career.As long as I still want to develop in my work, I have to be restrained by myself, and I can't learn from some people's 'little secrets'.Even if there is no reason for my father, the comrades around me, as well as those lessons from the past, will always remind me to be vigilant and warn me not to let my life end bleak because of the relationship between men and women. ”Yang Weihua nodded slightly and said, "I believe you have a pursuit."
Otherwise, you don't have to marry me.You can find a young college student, well, an unmarried and beautiful girl, who can have fertility indicators, and you can have another son. ”The man smiled and asked, "Wei Hua, do you want to hear me tell the truth?"
”"Yes, you say.""
The kind of young and beautiful college student you just mentioned, why are you looking for a man like me who can be a father at my age.What they want is to change their lives through the little power in my hands.What is the difference between that and your ex-husband, who uses his posture as a springboard?
As for having another son, what if it is a daughter?
”？"
Before I remarried you, I asked my daughter's opinion, and she agreed to my remarriage.If I had found a young girl who was not ten years older than her, she would not have agreed.Not to mention having a son, even if it is a daughter, I will definitely care more about my younger daughter.Then according to my daughter's temper, she has been an only daughter for many years, and it is unlikely that she can accept it, and it will inevitably make the family jump around. ”The man imagined the scene and laughed dumbly.He continued: "I had to think too much to get myself into such an embarrassing situation.Imagine that when I retire at the age of 60, the eldest one is separated from me because of resentment, and the younger one is still in middle school.Do you think I will be able to enjoy my old age in peace?
Do I have a grudge against myself?
”Yang Weihua was suspicious, not daring to fully believe the man's words."
Wei Hua.Some men pursue careers, some pursue beauty, some pursue wealth, and so on.But I've always been sober and san.I just want what works best for me.Don't underestimate your charm.If you smile more, you are more beautiful than Wei Hong, and you are more bookish than your mother.In my eyes, those young girls can't compare with you. ”Yang Weihua was slightly shy.The man continued, "I already have a daughter, and I don't want to be a ladder anymore."
Wei Hua, although we are remarried, I want to live with you wholeheartedly.If you have any problems, just say them, I can't solve them immediately, and it's better for us to face them together than for you to hold it in your heart alone. ”Yang Weihua was moved by the man's enthusiasm, and she nodded slowly."
So, Wei Hua, what is it between us that makes you feel stressed and feel that it is not as easy as being single?"
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* Yang Weihua twisted his fingers together, stared at the man in front of him intently, and said, "I once thought that Xiaozhi's father had been reborn, and I also took care of all the housework......
Will keep him consistent to my original, well, warm.But no.He slowly became impatient with me.Even after getting married, he never boiled a pot of water or washed a bowl.But shortly after our divorce, he remarried.He can do, can do, and is willing to do all the housework.And the woman was in the name of her family, and the hospital arranged a job for the custodian.is Wang Chunyan's younger sister. ”Yang Weihua's tears couldn't help but welled up in his eyes.She tilted her head to not let the tears flow, but two lines of clear tears still snaked down her cheeks.She turned her face to look out the window."
During the Spring Festival, your daughter said that my cooking was not as delicious as her mother's.My son said his dad could do everything, wash diapers, cook, clean......
My grandson, if I lived in my parents' house, I would live a relaxed and comfortable life.It's not like this, and I'm in self-torture every day.I worked hard to give everything in the previous marriage, and finally supported Xiaozhi's father, but he separated from me because my father didn't let him become the department director in time, and then hooked up with Wang Chunyan's sister.Her brother-in-law had just been hospitalized for stomach cancer that day. ”"Wei Hua, I shouldn't be commenting on your ex-husband, but his character is too bad.If you grieve at his mistakes, it is not worth it. ”Yang Weihua took out a handkerchief from his bag, wiped away his tears and said, "I'm not sad for him.If I hadn't seen Xiao Zhi, I would have often thought that ten years of marriage was a dream.But last summer, your daughter said that Xiaozhi shouldn't eat Sun's food, and he had to change his surname to Sun before he could come to the door.So Xiao Zhi said that he couldn't say anything.I only found out about this during the Spring Festival.Lao Sun, I followed my parents' advice and remarried because I wanted to live well.Instead of wanting to continue to live the kind of days when I was picked on by my ex-mother-in-law for ten years and couldn't do housework, and then I was picked on by my stepdaughter.Old Sun, you also know my situation.I'm not the kind of woman who depends on men to have a place to live, to eat, and to survive. ”"Wei Hua, I'm sorry.I'm sorry!
It's me who didn't teach my daughter well.That's what you said.You should have told me earlier.I'll definitely have a good talk with my daughter this weekend.When she starts high school this fall, I'll arrange for her to live on campus. ”"That's not what I meant.I mean, what was it in marriage that made you want to learn to cook, even if it's just cooking?
For me, it took me a while to figure out why I tried my best in both marriages, but I still had to face criticism and doubts. ”"Wei Hua, it's not your fault.""
Lao Sun, I'll be honest with you, when Xiao Zhi and his grandmother were critical of me, his father was protecting me.Later, I don't know when his dad agreed that his grandmother was right.Old grandson, I'm scared, I'm tired.After a stressful day of work and classes, I don't have more energy to cope with and endure this.I especially don't want to face the day when you agree that your daughter's pickiness is justified.So, I want to live with my parents during this time.Let's all think about it.Do you like it?
”* Li Min took his bath basket to the shower.It is a little more comfortable to operate while sitting, but you can't avoid the possibility that the soaked surgical gown will soak the hand washing gown inside.I had to throw another pair of underwear.Thinking that an hour's overtime pay was not enough to pay for a pair of underwear thrown away, Li Min was a little envious of those male doctors who could go into battle in a vacuum.But luckily, she was wearing the same handwashing gown as the nurses in the operating room.When Li Min told Yan Hong this idea, he was immediately ridiculed mercilessly by Yan Hong: "Those surgeons, who is not taller than us."
Even the shorter ones have to wear medium-sized hand clothes.You don't have to worry about wearing hand clothes with them.There are also different styles for men and women. ”Li Min realized that the men's handwashing clothes had front breast pockets and trouser doors.She remembered that she said to Yan Hong in a curtled manner: "I still wonder why someone is there every time I hand out hand out hand clothes."
Always get it from another packet. ”When she got dressed and left the operating room, she happened to meet Chen Wenqiang and others waiting for the elevator."
Teacher, Director Zhao, Teacher Wu."
Li Min greeted the three.Chen Wenqiang asked her, "Do you want to go to the cafeteria to eat something?"
The hospital has arranged a late-night snack tonight. ”Li Min shook his head: "Thank you, teacher, no need." ”Li Min returned to the director's office on the eleventh floor for her own use, and saw that the quilt cover had been installed and spread out, and the small piece slightly bulging in the middle was a hot water bottle.The strap of the lunch box pocket is exposed by a foot.She finished the wine-stuffed eggs, but the roasted steamed buns and apples did not move.I rinsed my mouth, changed the hot water bottle, remembered that there was nothing wrong with the vascular anastomosis, and fell asleep contentedly.() The distance is a bit far