"Not good!"
Without hesitation, the man immediately objected.If Yang Weihua is allowed to go back to his parents' house to live, he can guess that what will happen is that because the two of them are busy with work, the interval between meetings will be longer and longer, and the time for the two to meet each time will become shorter and shorter......
Then the marriage was tantamount to an ice age.The longer you delay, the less likely it is to thaw.So the marriage relationship existed in name only.It's just that for the sake of face, I won't go through the divorce procedures in a short time.This is not possible.This is contrary to the original intention of getting married.He turned sideways with great calmness and rolled down the window by a small slit so that the cold wind entered the car, clearing his mind and at the same time speeding up.He wanted to convince Yang Weihua."
Wei Hua, we are husband and wife, and such a separation is inappropriate.Again, I want to spend the rest of my life with you until I grow old.There are some things that don't like to hear, but I hope you will listen.You promise me to listen to me sensibly, okay?
”"Well, you say."
The man spoke much slower than usual, and he said carefully: "I think marriage, first of all, the right family, and then you can raise your eyebrows."
Like us.We'll talk about that later.I think that if the initial height of both men and women is different, the mental imbalance will be reflected in some details of life.For example, Xiaozhi's grandmother is picky about you and can't do housework, she wants to prove that she is better than you by being picky, so as to elevate herself.And Xiaozhi's father gradually agreed with this point of view, because after many years of married life, he is still inferior to you in terms of work and other aspects.He is picky to hide his loss, helplessness and failure.is also to use pickiness to cover up his inferiority complex from the disparity in family background, even after eating swan meat. ”"Do you think I have a point?"
Yang Weihua looked at the man with a focused and serious expression, she only thought about it for a while, and then nodded lightly in agreement.Seeing her attitude, the man continued: "Xiaozhi's father is also a very self-motivated person with strong self-esteem.He was a smart man who was able to take advantage of his strengths and change his social status by changing jobs through marriage.In the eyes of others, his meager success in his career is inseparable from the shadow of your family.It can even be said that the more successful he is, the heavier his inferiority complex becomes.So when he faces you, he has no confidence.He showed his status in the family by not doing housework.Can you accept me saying that?
”Yang Weihua nodded again."
Weihua, but our marriage is different, and our marriage is based on equality.Even if I can't rely on my father's strength in the future, I will only be the head of the organization department in the later term.But I admit that with my dad here, I might have become that minister one term earlier.Wei Hua, I'll be honest with you, even if there is no dad factor, I am still willing to marry you.Because I like you as a person.I appreciate your intelligence and self-motivation.Your part-time graduate students were admitted on your own, and I know that you have passed the unified entrance examination in both English and politics.And in you, there is no arrogance common to the children of high-ranking officials.Wei Hua, let me be honest with you, although you have been married for ten years, your thoughts, mood, social experience and treatment of people are like college students who have just stepped into society.Of course, this is also related to the good living environment provided by your parents, your natural temperament, and your attitude towards ophthalmology.There's nothing bad about that.I love it.My daily work is to rack my brains with people, and when I come home, I hope to have a wife who is simple and does not require me to use my brain, especially this wife who is not stupid, is still an ophthalmology graduate student, professor. ”"As for whether you can do housework or not, it doesn't matter at all.I didn't want to get a babysitter back home.I want you to focus on your career.When you graduate from graduate school, if you want, we will stay in the ophthalmology department of the Affiliated Hospital of the Medical University.Avoid the environments in your hospital that like to talk about people's rights and wrongs.I would like to support you in using your time in housework to develop your career.When I talk about it in the future, my lover is an ophthalmology professor at the Medical University, which is better than saying that my daughter-in-law has done all the work at home.Isn't it?
Besides, our family has always had part-time workers. ”These words of affirmation of Yang Weihua made her feel a lot more comfortable.* "However, Wei Hua, I didn't know that in the days of the Spring Festival, I followed the leadership of the grassroots level, there was no part-time work at home, not to mention the hard work of cooking, and my daughter also told you such out-of-line words.I'm ashamed of you. ”Yang Weihua was gloomy."
Wei Hua, I don't say those words that persuade you not to worry about children.That's shirking responsibility and irresponsibility.I'll talk to my daughter and get her in perspective: in three years' time, she'll leave home for college, maybe send her abroad.Ten years from now, she will get married and she will have her own life.And the rest of my life is going to be with you.I'll make this clear to her. ”Yang Weihua stared at the man in front of him, shook his head slowly, and said, "She won't accept it now."
If you say that, she'll hate you. ”"If you don't accept it, it's temporary.When she grows up, when she has her own home later, she will understand.Wei Hua, you believe me, if I can't even teach my daughter, I won't have the face to do cadre training and cadre selection in the organization department. ”Yang Weihua saw that he insisted, so he shouted: "But, old grandson, I have been thinking about it for a long time, and in the past few months, I don't want to face your daughter."
She's going to take the high school entrance exam, so don't tell her that yet.Let her study hard and concentrate on the exam first, so as not to affect the child's life. ”"Wei Hua, you are really a kind and good woman.So—" The man groaned for a moment and said, "Wei Hua, how about you go to live in that house behind the medical university?"
This makes it convenient for you to attend classes and saves your parents from worrying about you.It's that house, although it's decorated, but there's nothing in it.So, I'll take a look at the work tomorrow, if there is nothing special, I'll pick you up at the hospital at noon tomorrow, and we'll buy furniture and daily necessities. ”"It's too much trouble.I went back to my parents' place and everything was ready-made. ”Yang Weihua knew that house, and he also knew that it was prepared by Lao Sun for his future work in the Affiliated Hospital of the Medical University."
Wei Hua, this can't be said to be troublesome.You are my wife, I have to arrange your food, clothing, shelter and transportation, this is my responsibility as a husband. ”Yang Weihua lowered his head and thought for a while, and finally accepted Lao Sun's arrangement.* "Wei Hua, let's go back to your previous question.I learned to cook because she went to the party school at that time.Half a year has passed.At first, I took my children to the cafeteria, but then I got tired of eating, so I took my children to do it randomly.The level is just to be cooked.When we've got all the stuff, I'll make you a meal and hope you'll eat it. ”After listening to this explanation, Yang Weihua felt a lot more relaxed in his heart.Her thoughts were immediately reflected on her face.Lao Sun saw that his words had an effect, and he felt relaxed."
Wei Hua, I'll go on to talk about the two of us.The so-called door-to-door match means that two people have the same ideological understanding and general convergence, and the economic conditions are basically the same.In case of trouble, you can communicate calmly, and you will not have conflicts because one wants to spend money and the other wants to save money.There are many such small contradictions and frictions in life, and no matter how good the relationship is, it will be affected and discounted.What's more, it's a remarried couple like the two of us whose relationship foundation is not strong enough and each has a child. ”Yang Weihua nodded, and his emotions followed the man's train of thought."
So, if you have to tell me something, you have to tell me, if we have any problems, it's better not to stay overnight.Some things were settled at the time, and it was fine.After a long time, just like your doctor said, a minor illness becomes a major illness, a major illness becomes a serious illness, and finally it is difficult to treat.Isn't it?
”"Yes.Lao Sun, let me tell you that I only gave birth to one child in my life, and I don't want him to be estranged from me.But he'd rather go to his dad than live with my mom and dad now. ”Seeing that Yang Weihua was willing to talk about the troubles in his heart and wanted to ask for help by himself, Lao Sun felt very relieved.This is a husband and wife.He immediately said, "I'll solve Xiaozhi's matter."
Do you think this is good, don't you have a house in the provincial courtyard?
I went back and found someone to decorate.When the girl goes to live in the high school in the fall, it's time for you to take Xiaozhi with you, and we'll live over there.This allows him to compare what he can learn by living with us; Living with his dad, what did he see.He hadn't finished elementary school yet, and he had time for everything, well, to let me, as a stepfather, influence him and teach him what an admirable character is. ”…… The couple sat in the car and chatted for a long time, and this conversation untied Yang Weihua's knot.Lao Sun stretched out his hand to smooth out the skin on her eyebrows, which had wrinkled fine lines, and whispered to her: "Wei Hua, if you encounter anything again, you must tell me in time."
One person counts the short, the other counts the long, we discuss the life, and live a harmonious life, so that we are worthy of ourselves.I don't want to see you frown anymore. ”Yang Weihua nodded in agreement.She saw that Lao Sun had made proper arrangements for the two children, so Lao Sun drove her downstairs to her parents' house.The sound of the headlights and the engine alarmed Yang Weihua's mother.Wrapped in a cotton dressing gown, she came downstairs and asked, "Why did you come back so late?"
”"I got out of class late today, and there was a traffic jam on the road for a while."
Yang Weihua prevaricated."
It's so late, don't go back, Xiao Sun, just stay here.Do you have any arrangements for the children at home?
”"There was an arrangement.Mom, we're coming back too late today, and it's affecting you and Dad's rest. ”Lao Sun was very polite to this mother-in-law, who was not twenty years older than him.He didn't have the slightest burden on occasionally living in Yue's house."
It's fine.I went back to sleep first.You also hastened to wash up and go to sleep.I'll have to go to work tomorrow. ”"Hmm."
Yang Weihua agreed, washed lightly with Lao Sun, and then went back to her room.* The husband and wife should make as little movement as possible, so as not to affect the rest of the old couple.didn't know that the old couple next door was whispering about them."
Why did you come back so late, what do you think of their expressions?
Did you quarrel?
”"It doesn't look like it.Wei Hua's face didn't seem to frown so much. ”Even in the shadow of the lamp just now, Dangniang keenly noticed that her daughter's complexion was much softened, and she was no longer haggard and gloomy in the past few years.No matter what Director Sun Sun married his daughter for, but he can make his daughter feel comfortable, and it is worth fulfilling him."
Then you can sleep in peace.Xiao Sun's man is steady. ”"Hmm.I saw Wei Hua's face just now, it was indeed better. ”"Really?"
In the shadows, the father turned over and asked the mother sideways: "Do you see clearly?"
”"See clearly.Why don't you check it out tomorrow morning?
You've got the right eyes. ”"Okay."
No matter how much he does as a father, there is always a piece of his heart left for his two daughters.Especially this eldest daughter, simple and simple, sometimes she refuses to be obedient when she comes up, for a poor boy with bad intentions, she fills in the happiness of the first half of her life in vain.Alas!
For the sake of this eldest daughter, the old couple also broke their hearts.Now I hope she can live well with her son-in-law.* "Sleep.I have to go to work tomorrow, and it's the middle of the night. ”Lao Sun felt that he had done the right thing to pick up his wife from school today and then in the car.Respect each other as a guest, that's definitely not a good word.If husband and wife have always been polite to each other, it will be easy to distract after a long time."
Hmm."
Yang Weihua's heart knot has been untied a little, some of his thoughts have been removed, and he seems less depressed.Today, she went to work in the morning and went to class at the medical university in the afternoon, and went until half past nine in the evening.Lao Sun stretched out his hand to help her tuck the quilt tightly, but he laughed at his wife's ex-husband in his heart: deceived such a simple and good-natured woman, but she had the patience to hold on for another ten or eight years.I want my father-in-law to help, but I don't want to be kind to other people's daughters...... actually committed adultery with the sister of his wife's classmate at home, forcing people to the extent that he did not hesitate to open two letters of introduction.It's stupid.
*Dr.
Wang, who was extremely stupid, got off the operating table in the middle of the night.Xiang Xiang was assigned to the group of patients in the group of general attending physicians, and the injuries were not serious.But unexpectedly, when the operation was almost done, the patient had a severe arrhythmia.Thanks to the timely arrival of Director Zhou of the anesthesiology department, the drug and electric defibrillation slipped away, and finally adjusted the patient's heart rhythm to sinus rhythm.During this period, they can only stop the bleeding of the patient's wound, cover it with saline gauze and wait.Luckily, the surgery was successfully completed.Such patients will naturally be sent to the ICU after surgery and handed over to the experienced internal medicine doctors in the ICU to watch.As a surgeon, Dr.
Wang himself has to make a long-term medical order, and he has to write the operation record as soon as he helps.Naturally, Dr.
Wang had to wait until the surgical records were written and the examination was okay before he could leave the ICU.But when he dragged his tired legs back home, Wang Qiuyun was waiting for him with tears in his eyes because his youngest daughter who was less than 9 months old had a fever and did not cool down after being fed medicine."
It's okay, it's a teething fever."
The child has been teething for the past two days.Mild diarrhea symptoms, which were already cured by the time he went out in the evening.But a few hours later, the child's temperature rose."
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It's all up to 39 degrees?"
Dr.
Wang couldn't believe it.He took the child's temperature again, 39°3!"
It's higher than last time, let's take the child to the hospital."
Wang Qiuyun panicked."
Hmm.Pack your things and get ready for the hospital. ”Dr.
Wang prepares to take the child to the hospital.But just leaving their son and daughter at home, both of them are not at ease.He woke up his son, who was already asleep, and told him: "Xiaozhi, you take Pearl to sleep at home, and your aunt and I will take your little sister to see a doctor."
If there is something, you go to the first floor to find your Uncle Yang.It's okay if you call your uncle. ”In the warm and cold season, although it is already midnight, the pediatric clinic outside the emergency room is still crowded.There are too many people who take their children to the doctor.Dr.
Wang didn't want to cause a quarrel because of his own addition, so he went straight to the pediatric ward with the child in his arms.On duty is Director Wu of Pediatrics, who is on duty for his daughter-in-law Leng Xiaofeng.Insist on three more night shifts, and Leng Xiaofeng can go out of work after 7 months of pregnancy.Director Wu asked about the medical history in detail, and then listened carefully to the breath sounds and heart sounds for the child and said: "Doctor Wang, your daughter is not a simple teething fever, the hospital nursery has been sick with several children in recent days, and the symptoms are similar to those of your child.Respiratory symptoms are not obvious, mainly a single fever, and the temperature can rise to 41 ° C.The complete blood count is marked by lymphocyte elevation. ”"Is it a viral infection?""
I suspect so.During the day, I have already notified the public health and laboratory department to go to the nursery for disinfection and sampling.Let's get this kid hospitalized first. ”"Can you hang a dripping stream?"
Wang Qiuyun asked."
The child should be able to eat and drink normally, and not hang up for the time being.That Dr.
Wang, you are holding the child, and ask your daughter-in-law to go to the nurse to ask for a fever reducer, and stick it on the door of your head.Just say I'll let you go.The child will wait until tomorrow morning to have his blood drawn and see the results.It's so late, and for a child of this age, it's not easy for the nurse to draw blood. ”When Dr.
Wang saw Director Wu send Wang Qiuyun away, he knew that he had something to say to himself, so he said to Wang Qiuyun: "You go to the nurse, just say that Director Wu asked you to go."
I'm waiting for you here. ”When Wang Qiuyun went out, Director Wu said, "Doctor Wang, tomorrow you will take the child to do a color ultrasound."
I heard that this kid has a heart murmur, I suspect, forget it, don't talk about the suspicious things, you can do a color ultrasound and understand. ”Dr.
Wang's face was even whiter when it was illuminated by the fluorescent lamp.Not normal white.Exhaustion made his face look bad.Director Wu thought of his stepdaughter's heart disease, and when he saw him like that, he persuaded him: "You don't have to worry.There are some children who are a little slower.Some children have a catheter arteriosus that does not close within 6 months, but many do not close until the first year of life.About a quarter of the people who have not closed the foramen ovale in adulthood are alive and well.Like your eldest girl, don't you just go to school normally.Tomorrow I will understand everything by doing a color ultrasound. ”Dr.
Wang felt bitterness in his mouth.It shouldn't be that the "opportunism" of the year before last should have happened to this child.Before he could say anything, the night nurse came in with a fever patch."
Hey, Doctor Wang, it's your daughter.It's so beautiful.Why did you get sick?
Come, Auntie will put a fever paste on you, and then tomorrow it won't be uncomfortable. ”Director Wu said to the nurse on duty, "You put her in our hospital nursery and those children live with them."
Give this child a blood test tomorrow morning. ”"It's not good to draw blood.How many months has this kid been?
How much does it weigh?
”"It's been almost 9 months.Recently, I haven't weighed it. ”Wang Qiuyun replied."
Here, give me a hug, I'll see how much she weighs.Remove these quilts and clothes, and it's only 15 catties, no more than 16 catties.It's a little lighter. ”The nurse took the child, held it in her hand, and gave a weight value."
It's normal for a little girl to be a little thinner.It's fine.I remember the baby was born prematurely.That's already nice. ”Director Wu comforted the couple with a word, and then began to fill in the first page of the inpatient medical record."
Doctor Wang, you take this to the inpatient department to register, and only when you have a hospitalization number can you do treatment.""
Okay, thank you, Director Wu
.
"* Dr.
Wang went to the hospital, and Wang Qiuyun held the child and followed the nurse to the ward.It is an eight-person room the size of an adult, and now there are more than a dozen children's beds in horizontal and vertical spaces.But there are only 7 or 8 children living in it, all of them are provincial nurseries, less than 2 weeks old.A parent of a child who was adding an extra bed in the hallway stopped them."
Nurse, why can't my child be admitted to the hospital first?
How can her children come and live in the house?
”The nurse had to stop and said, "The children in this room are all suffering from viral pneumonia, and they were obtained in a nursery."
If you are willing to let your children live in this house, I will find the director for you.Let me tell you first, there is no cure for this viral pneumonia. ”The parent immediately took half a step back, avoided Wang Qiuyun like a plague god, and said, "Your child is so serious, you should go to the infectious disease hospital."
Don't infect other people's children here. ”The pediatric nurse didn't hear such rude statements, but Wang Qiuyun's tears fell.The pediatric nurse dragged her and dragged her into the house.After closing the door, he whispered to her, "This is the way it is said to the outside world."
This house is reserved for our hospital nursery and kindergarten.You find a bed and put the baby down. ”Wang Qiuyun didn't know whether this was true or not, so she had to put away her tears and put the child on the bed away from the doors and windows.The nurse on duty was very serious and responsible in telling her how to use the fence of the children's bed."
Your child will turn over, you usually plug in this latch, so as not to fall the child carelessly."
Then she said to the other parents of the children: "This child is the daughter of Dr.
Puwai Wang of our provincial hospital.This house is the family members of our provincial hospital, and you take care of each other. ”Wang Qiuyun thanked the nurse on duty, and other parents of the children who knew Wang Qiuyun also came to talk, and the nurse on duty left with a smile.Dr.
Wang completed the hospitalization procedures, and when he went to the ward to see the child, Wang Qiuyun sent him home."
There are still children at home, and you still have surgery tomorrow.""
Are you doing it alone?""
Okay.It's all one person taking care of it. ”"Then I'll go back.I'll be here early tomorrow morning. ”Dr.
Wang saw that the room was full of family members from the provincial hospital, and greeted the people who were napping on the small stool and watching him, asked everyone to take care of him, and left the ward and went home.He was so tired.In the morning, he stood until noon before leaving the stage, and then in the evening he stood for more than six hours, and then he came home slowly, threw himself into bed, and slept in the dark.Until the next morning, his son called him: "Dad, it's almost 7 o'clock."
You give me 5 yuan, and my sister and I go to the cafeteria to eat.I'm going to be late for early self-study. ”Dr.
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Wang hurriedly paid for his son, and told his son to take Pearl to eat at school at noon today, and he packed up, went to the canteen to buy breakfast, and hurried to the pediatric ward.It's 7:40.() The distance is a bit far