"Okay, then I'll just talk about it."
Wang Ai saw that everyone had laughed enough, and then he cheered up: "You always think that Xiao Xu and I are boyfriend and girlfriend, don't you?"
Actually, you misunderstood. ”Xu Qinglian secretly leaned against the window railing in the kitchen, and listened to Wang Ai drinking tea and chatting in the yard: "Actually, Xiao Xu is in our house now, what is the situation?"
It is a nightstay.She was originally my pen pal, thinking of going to boarding school, so she came to me, came to our house, from Liaoyang to Beijing, and was admitted to university, it just so happens that I have a home here, it is convenient to do anything, it is better to live at home, right?
”Liu Jianhong was holding a teacup, with a constant "uh-huh" in his mouth, but his face was "You make it up!"
You go on to make up the "emoji".Wang Ai made a threatening gesture to him covertly, and continued: "So, Xiao Xu and I are very good friends, after all, when I was a child, I studied and practiced hard, and I didn't have many friends, almost all of them were in this courtyard, and she was one of my few friends of the opposite sex."
If you want to say that childhood sweethearts, it's too ambiguous, in fact, we have lived together in a family for a short time.You do the math, she came to Liaoyang in 99, and I was already in college at that time.She was admitted to the National People's Congress in '02, when I was at the University of Tübingen.In short, don't look like we have lived in the same family for five or six years, in fact, there are very few days to get along day and night, and there are only ten days every summer, and winter has to be counted as a winter break.Moreover, how I spent this summer and winter, in fact, you can all guess.All kinds of training and competitions can't be arranged, for example, now that the 87 national youth is training, I don't have time to go, and I don't have the physical fitness and energy, as well as my personal business affairs or something, it's messy, and I can find time to do nothing and stay at home for even fewer days, less than ten days a year. ”When the reporters heard this, they were slightly stunned, and then a look of admiration flowed in their eyes."
Eh, don't look at me like a hero, I'm not complaining, in fact, I usually have free time when I'm in the league, but I'm not always in a foreign country.If I join the Beijing team in the domestic league, for example, I will have a lot of free time to accompany her in addition to a day of training and games.But now it's not like there's no way, in short, the situation of the two of us, better said, should be called two little guesses, until now, after all, we developed from pen pals.In life, school and work, there is support for each other, and the two of us have a high level of trust in each other, and we are very, very good friends, but we are by no means boyfriend and girlfriend.So, the two of us are not puppy love. ”Liu Jianhong rolled his eyes, he had witnessed the affection flowing out of the eyes when the two looked at each other many times, and it was by no means a little guess, it was a childhood sweetheart, and even a little bit of raising eyebrows.But Wang Ai insisted on saying this, and he couldn't screw it.The right to speak is not with him.From the perspective of Wang Ai's technology, physical fitness, development, studies, career, etc., this is a guy who will be a man of the hour for decades in the future, and of course Lao Liu will not think about selling such a long-term meal ticket.In fact, in the courtyard, except for the reporter of "China Youth Daily", no one believed Wang Ai's statement, but no one refuted it, so Wang Ai continued: "As for the issue of early love, what I must say is that this is not a social problem, but a physiological problem.Entering puberty, physiological secondary sex characteristics appear, and human beings begin to gradually prepare physically to form a family and find a partner, which naturally affects the psyche.For example, the secretion of sex hormones will inevitably lead to interest in the opposite sex, so ah, this kind of thing can't be suppressed, that is a simple and crude approach. ”"Isn't it the result of irresponsible literature?
Including some film and television works?
”A Xinhua reporter interjected.Wang Ai shook his head: "It's narrow-minded to look at the problem this way."
Just like Mr.
Lu Xun once described, 'When you see white arms, you think of nakedness' and so on, you can not let the kissing scene appear in the movie, but you don't even let the shot of the arm being exposed?
You can prevent teenagers from watching movies and TV dramas, but can you say that cats, dogs, and pigs should not be mated on the street?
”The reporters were stunned, they never expected Liu Jianhong to say it casually, and the matter he asked casually really made Wang Ai say something new."
Eh, don't be too serious, I'm letting go, open up and chatting with you.Qinglian, the fruit is gone, a few more plates. ”Xu Qinglian, who was wearing a white tight long skirt and wrapped up perfect lines, snorted and walked out, put a few fruit plates, but skipped Liu Jianhong, Lao Liu was not angry, and reached out and took a Nanguo pear from the fruit bowl in front of the Xinhua News Agency reporter, and the juice was overflowing.The reporter of "Liaoshen Evening News" pondered: "Listening to what you say, the current methods of controlling early love in our school seem to be useless." ”"yes, it's useless."
Wang Ai nodded: "The popular practice of coercion actually originated from the revolutionary war years, when the struggle was very difficult, and the country and the nation were very dangerous, which forced our young people to think less in this regard, and the management was relatively easy, and the simpler it was effective."
But now that it is an era of peace, young people do not have such a heavy historical task of saving the world and trying to survive. ”As soon as she said this, Xu Qinglian was about to leave again, but Wang Ai grabbed her, raised her head and said, "Eh, sit down, sit down, listen to me." ”Xu Qinglian snorted, and still sat behind Wang Ai, Wang Ai said with a straight face: "From the physiological development of people to the social environment, today's teenagers will definitely have a good impression and curiosity about the opposite sex during this period.Even if it is only from the textbooks, it will be affected from the most formal books, such as Guan Guan Ju Dove, such as the troubles of the young Werther.Because in human history, love has always been a macroscopic proposition, throughout the whole thing, didn't Confucius say that chromophobia is also, this is the original.From the perspective of our political economy, the two major missions of the survival of human society, one is population production and the other is material production, and population production is still in the first place, which will inevitably make all aspects of our society welcome population production or the issue of love.This will not change as a result of the family planning policies of recent decades, which have reduced the propensity of the population to propensity.Throughout human history, the push for population growth has been the mainstream, and the tendency to family planning in recent decades has been countercurrent.Although this reduces the cost of historical costs, such as not through famine, war, and plague to achieve the purpose of population control.But it is precisely because of this that the admiration for love that has been inherited from ancient times to the present has led to the irrepressible problem of early love. ”()