"Is there no way?
Can't control it?
Judging from my research, puppy love can delay schoolwork, distract teenagers, and produce undesirable phenomena such as fighting and alcoholism. ”Zhang Erwen of "Liaoyang Daily" pushed his glasses and asked seriously in thought."
Therefore, we should be more particular about our working methods.It has been more than 50 years since the founding of the People's Republic of China, and our country is changing rapidly, and the economic base is constantly climbing rapidly, which makes our superstructure, such as the ways and means of dealing with the problem of puppy love, always face the problem of not keeping up with the requirements of the times.This requires our educators to regularly summarize and research and deduce new ways to adapt to the times. ”Wang Ai shook his head and pointed at the country: "Actually, it is difficult to say, after all, this is a combination of internal and external, the outbreak of two contradictions."
But it's easy to say.Just now I told the story of me and Xiao Xu.To be honest, the two of us can become such good friends today, there must be a certain emotional foundation, we look at each other pleasing to each other, and even like each other, but why are we still confidants instead of boyfriend and girlfriend?
”Zhang Erwen squinted his eyes and suddenly said, "Busy!"
”Wang Ai slapped his thigh and pointed at Zhang Erwen: "It is worthy of being my senior brother, and it will be thorough as soon as he says it."
As I said just now, the problem of early love can't be suppressed, but if you don't suppress it, it's over, won't you guide?
Why did Dayu succeed in controlling the water, and why did his father fail?
His father is building dams everywhere and blocking them everywhere, while Dayu is dredging the river, these are two treatment methods in the face of the same problem, and the results are immediate, isn't it?
”The Xinhua News Agency reporter frowned and recalled: "I have seen reports on the control of early love in some European countries......
Wang Ai shook his head again and again: "No, no, no, don't look at everything in Europe, they don't control it well, especially in the Nordic countries, that's called a rotten."
This problem still has to be viewed in combination with the social background, the population production of European countries has been a big problem for many years, so they say that it is control, it is better to say that it is indulgence, and the whole society, from politics to culture to economy, is encouraging population production.For example, if a girl is pregnant before marriage, how do we deal with it?
Knock it out, right?
How do they deal with it?
Is it right to give birth to someone else for foster care?
In fact, this has nothing to do with human rights and women's rights, it is just a lack of people.Otherwise, West Germany after World War II would not have imported labor from Turkey, wouldn't it?
Therefore, we can see how others do many things, but when we take them to learn, we should move our hearts and eyes more, and the doctrine of taking them is not just taking them away, but mainly to help us broaden our minds and use them.Didn't we learn from the Soviet Union that the revolution was still a process of sinicization?
In the end, wasn't it the idea that the countryside surrounded the city led by *** and defeated the Soviet Union in practice to attack the big cities?
It's the same today, China is so big, the situation is so special, don't go to the west to learn the scriptures, come back and read them, that is a very high cost, and even have to be scolded for decades.For example, ......as soon as Wang Ai said this, he was secretly pinched by Xu Qinglian, so he stopped suddenly.The people who were listening noticed the small movements of the two, and they smiled, and Xu Qinglian, who was laughing, blushed a little.The Xinhua News Agency reporter smiled and nodded: "Dr.
Wang, then let's not talk about it, let's talk about early love." ”"Okay, let's talk about early love."
Wang Ai nodded: "This question is actually very important, young people are the future of the country, this period is a critical period for learning, even if it is a critical period for training, it is also a critical period for long balls, it is too late to pay full attention, naturally we should try to minimize some interference, especially the phenomenon of early love, which has a very low success rate."
I noticed that some experts in China have also mentioned guidance, but the question is how to guide.Our current guidance is that the teacher and principal are talking vigorously on the stage, this is not actually called guidance, it is called publicity, from the actual effect, it is actually not very good, it is not as good as the hard effect. ”"So how?
My brother just said well, busy!
”Wang Ai shook his head: "This is very important.Think about the predecessors of the revolutionary war years, why are there not many such things?
Busy, stressful.As far as I know, there are very few people in our 85 national youth, why?
There are other sports, are there any objects?
Yes, but very little, why?
It's not all because of tight control, or because it's too busy.You must know that the secretion of sex hormones by athletes is several times more than that of ordinary people, and the impulse towards the opposite sex is stronger, which can be controlled, so the characteristic of being busy is the best way to guide.Don't you have the leisure to hook up with female classmates?
I give you homework, and you can't finish it until nine o'clock in the evening every day, do you still have time to talk about anything else?
Don't you have the mental headset to block people from school?
I'll give you a physical education class, and you can't get on your bike when you're tired, do you still have the leisure to do so?
”The reporters nodded silently, bowed their heads and recorded, and listened to Wang Ai continue: "In fact, to put it bluntly, some undesirable phenomena in society, such as pornography, gambling and drugs, are essentially people who are too idle and busy, so they don't have the leisure to talk about calves."
Think about the hooliganism crime in the early 80s, that is, Chi Zhiqiang and his gang, who were the high-incidence people at that time?
Is it more literate people or more workers?
Why?
Isn't it because cultural people have easy work and more leisure time?
Workers are tired all day, how can they have the time and energy to pull this?
I have practiced in the High School Affiliated to the National People's Congress for two years, so I have a certain understanding of their learning.It can't be said that there are no objects in the attached middle school, but there are very few, why?
It is busy, the academic pressure is high, the arrangement is full, the teacher's education is good, the students' interest in class is high, and there is more homework after class, which naturally reduces the mind and physical fitness of the calf, and naturally this phenomenon is less. ”"There's only one in the appendage."
Zhang Erwen said coldly."
Education can be pressurized, and qualified schools can be attached to middle schools to improve the teaching level of teachers, improve the attractiveness of teaching, and increase the number of homework.If you don't have the conditions, you can also run various interest classes and clubs, such as sports classes, calligraphy classes, and singing classes. ”Wang Ai retorted two sentences and said calmly: "But I must admit that it is impossible to achieve complete control and not a single one happens, and I do not recommend that the school punish students who fall in love with each other."
Strictly speaking, in most cases, as a person with non-full capacity, the responsibility of the school is actually greater, you don't teach well, you don't arrange it well, you don't have the level.You can't nail a student to the pillar of shame because of the problem of early love, this is a killer.The problem is that the chickens themselves are right, they are just according to physiological instinct, and the breeders are wrong. ”()